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  1. 16 hours ago, Powerasianbtms said:

     Can buy online ?

    *I'm in the US* 

    I was able to be prescribed it online after a 5 minute video chat with a doctor. The doctor visit was cheap, easy to set up, and complete during my lunch break. Prescription was available at my pharmacy later that afternoon and only cost a few dollars considering that pharmacy was out of network. 

     

    If it's that easy to get in the US (with our...troublesome...healthcare system) I hope it's even easier elsewhere. 

  2. I like the idea of the "traffic light" system. I've never used it, but it is direct and universal. 

    When meeting with a new sub, we always establish a safe word. We're new to one another and it takes time to develop a kind of non-verbal, bodily fluency with one another. 

    I've found in my experience that partners who are genuinely into kink exploration are better communicators than those who are fixated on a distinct fantasy. The distinct fantasy bunch rarely turn into long-term playmates. 

     

    edit: oh, and my go-to safeword is "pineapple," but I'm gonna try out the "traffic light" system the next time I meet a new sub.

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  3. Last night. I drove into Manhattan with a bag of toys ready to meet up with a sub who I'd had plans with since Friday night. I park a few minutes before we're due to meet when he texts me that it's not in the cards for the night due to his stomach. I offer to fuck his throat instead, he declines, and I'm frustrated and still horny. I hop on sniffies and see a post from a 27yo twink uptown I've been wanting to fuck for a while but is usually too far from where I live to go for a quick pump and dump. Tonight is different and I just want to bust my load. I tell him I can be to his in 30 and he gives his address.

    I arrive and he gives the apt number. I go up and the door is unlocked, lights off, music playing, ass up in a jockstrap. Perfect cumdump scene we all know and love. His hole feels hot and wet so I go down for a taste and bingo, cum. He already has a load in him. I finger his wet hole to get some cum on my hand and pull my jockstrap to the side to warm up my cock. I spit on his hole, line up my cock and press into his hole. The wetness feels amazing as he relaxes to take all of me in. I start pumping, now fully hard, and can feel his hole squeezing and relaxing in time with his moans as I deep dick him. The last load is keeping my cock slick and we're praising each other as he huffs poppers and begs for my cum. After 10 minutes I'm happy to deliver it deep in his hungry hole. I shudder as I pull out and watch a mix of loads leak from his hole down to the pouch of his jockstrap. I slap his ass, pull up my pants, thank him and wish him luck on getting more before leaving the door unlocked behind me. He messaged me later saying how hot that was. We hope to do it again soon when I'm back in his area.

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  4. I have done this with a couple of exs and it was a mix of experiences. My oldest ex (first bf while both in hs) moved to my city and we hooked up a couple of times. He's far piggier now and the sex was fun, but in his own development became too focused on pnp, which is not something I personally enjoy. His drug use got him fired from a very lenient company that I now work for (not in his role). That mix of energies put a wet blanket on the vibe so no repeats there. The second ex to come back for more was from late hs/early uni days. We didn't talk much let alone play for years, until after he got married. He and his husband invited me to a 3-some, which was rather vanilla sexually (at least for me) and later a 4-some, adding another of their hot friends. The 3-some was weirdly emotionally charged, which threw off the vibe, but the 4-some was excellent, despite still being rather tame in the way of raunchy exploration. That ex still hits me up now to come fuck and do raunchy shit behind his husband's back, which I'm not super keen on as that kind of behavior soured a relationship I had between dating the previously mentioned exs and hooking up with them again. The third ex and followup fucks were close to the breakup after we had both been dishonest with each other after he refused to entertain an open relationship. That sex wasn't as good as the energy was off. It was all a fucked up situation and I still run into his then ex with whom he cheated with at various events, fucking other guys, etc while still being idolized by my ex. He doesn't recognize me as we never formerly met but it's a bad vibe.

    From all of this early experience, I strive to be a more ethical slut.

    I'm now in a very loose, communicative open relationship with a partner that I love dearly. Medical issues limit our ability to be pigs with one another but we talk about it and discuss other people we want to fuck with or date in addition to being one another's most dependable humans, and that feels really good. He doesn't fuck around much due to the medical issues, but will wingman me whenever we're out. If that's not the vibe for the night, it's just great cuddles and helping one another cum in safe ways. 

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  5. I stopped all hookups with strangers, as were part of my sexual mix pre-covid. I've since temporarily relocated outside of NYC, but before that, I did have masked, ass-up fun with a friend who lived close by---literally didn't have to cross a street to get to his place. Since leaving the city, I've gone on one actual date that resulted in sex mid December with someone I've known since HS and trusted to be sensible based on his work. I haven't been jumping on random hookups with the same fervor as before, despite the desire. I've isolated and am now living in close proximity and caring for people with vulnerable conditions, as my previous work is still restricted. I absolutely cannot wait to get the stick(s) and move back towards my old ways. 

  6. Like many of you, I've stopped taking my PrEP (Descovy) about a month ago, three weeks after last play with another friend who is also on PrEP. During a tele-visit with my doctor this week, she reiterated that there was no problem stopping it so as long as I made sure to resume adherence 7-days before I intend to resume sex with others. My 3-month subscription was still renewed. I'm still filling my prescription and intend to save it as a buffer. I go to a state clinic to receive Descovy for free with the Gilead Advancing Access program. At the beginning of the year there were major delays in renewing my insurance coverage and I couldn't fill the script for some time, leading to a lapse in daily adherence. That's why I'm taking this opportunity to get a month or two supply to keep just in case that happens again, or some other unforeseen COVID-19 problem develops in the coming months. It's also nice to be med-free across the board for a bit 🙂 

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  7. I’ve been sexting with the cute sleazy vers twink about all the nasty stuff we’re gonna do after. Kinda like partners in crime keeping one another sane rn. Starting with breeding each other in public, collecting loads with one another, separately for one another. We’re sharing the guys we’re lining up individually over apps rn etc. Probably host an orgy in my apartment...cumdump night at very least, for sure. Awesome how a ton of past hookups are getting horny as hell and coming out of the woodwork for more. Can’t wait!

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  8. I checked grindr while walking to the grocery store yesterday. A 25yo bud who lives a block past it quickly hit me up with a pic of a cock in his hole asking if I wanted sloppy seconds. Fuck yes! He buzzed me into his apartment building and left his apartment door ajar. He was waiting ass up on his bed sniffing poppers. Good slut. I only took off my jacket while I ate his tasty, cummy hole before my cock was out, hard, and pushing inside of him. Fucked him for 15 minutes or so before he was begging me to add my load to his ass. I gladly obliged and fucked him for a few more minutes enjoying the wet sounds it was making. Pulled out, said thanks, rinsed off my dick in his bathroom sink then left. He never looked back at me and took 4 more loads after that. 

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  9. 1 hour ago, leatherpunk16 said:

    I wish to do a bit of speculation here.

    Let's say this works and becomes a viable cure. How many of us BZ guys would queue up for it? Who would go and get the cure, and try to get infected again? I imagine a weird convo to be something like this.

    Guy 1: I have to go the clinic for the HIV cure again.

    Guy 2: What is this, the fourth time for you now?

    Guy 1: Something like that. I'm such a whore, LOL.

    Guy 2: Make this the last time, okay?

     

    See how weird that would be?

    I'm confident that an insurance healthcare provider would not cover habitual treatment if a trend was discovered. I imagine the costs of such a treatment would be too high to be treated as antibiotics or the morning-after pill, paid out-of-pocket or by insurance. 

  10. FF top's perspective:

    Training and patience. Your sphincter is just a ring of muscle, and like other muscles such as your hamstrings, the more frequently you actively stretch the muscle, the more flexability you'll have for energetic fun and games. ;P If looking to prepare yourself in lieu of a Master or regular top, daily play with toys of gradually progressing size will be a good start. Have a larger dildo or plug in places like the shower to remind you to put in the work every time it's seen. Sleeping with a plug in your hole is another way I've found that helps ff bottoms to gradually expand baseline elasticity. Any toys with which you train should always take some effort to work in. If not, it's unlikely doing much to increase max stretchability. For intermediate steps between toy sizes, you can slide in additional fingers or combine toys to maintain a tight fit while moving and rotating them to massage the sphincter. 

    As should be assumed, use PLENTY of lube and, when going bigger, do so in comfortable positions where you can RELAX, let the tension out of your whole body. I've found techniques like conscious breathing (triggers physiological relaxation response), poppers(similar end, but chemically stimulated), and in depth understanding of one's anatomy (scientific, not practical) to be helpful in getting there. 

    And, of course, a top who is patient and knows what he's doing, when you're ready to try it with another.

    Good luck! 

     

     

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