misterpiggy
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I believe there is definitely a link between racism and homophobia. Racists and homophobes are blind to their real issues. You can use statistics to say all black men are like this; or all gay men are like that. You can never satisfy someone who objects to what is fundamentally a part of you. No matter how many glass ceilings you shatter you will never truly be "one of the boys."
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I believe it felt unnatural to pull out because it was. Just like raw skin-to-skin action feels like the way nature intended us to fuck.... so too pulling out before unloading inside that fuck hole feels like the most unnatural thing in the world.
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There is so much truth in your statements. Yet we tend to limit ourselves because comfort zones are, well, comfortable. In general it seems to me that black barebackers tend to prefer fucking with other black barebackers. And lots of white barebackers would prefer not to even explore barebacking with a black guy. Being open minded sounds good in theory. But it's exactly like you said: We're hardwired as human beings to prefer people who look, talk, act, and think like we do. Perhaps it's not fair to call that racism. Because we are all guilty to a certain extent when it comes to defining our "preferences". Having said all of the above, we would be naive not to acknowledge that racism exists in the gay culture. And I think it's sad and dumb. It's sad when we see it and experience it in the gay community because gay men have faced plenty of oppression in the past. Just think of the Stonewall Riots in Greenwich Village; or think about gay men being stigmatized in the 80's and 90's as the ones spreading AIDS all over the world. And many, many gay men have fought hard and have died to pave the way for us to live our lives freely today. So the fact that we would turn on each other over race is completely pathetic.
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That sounds like a colorful way to say that racism exists in the gay community. Yes some gay men have prejudices too...and they will discriminate against other gay men based entirely on the color of their skin.
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As a black man I am numb to the racism I experience with white sex partners in the bedroom. If the connection is made online I'm usually asked how big is my cock. When a white guy asks me how big is my cock I just don't know if a certain cock size will disqualify me or if it will validate me...after all I'm supposed to have a big cock. Right? Then some white guys want to know if it's ok to call me nigger while I'm breeding them. Hell no. It's not ok. Calling me nigger in the bedroom seems like a gateway to more racist behavior...like the next step seems like white guys will be asking me if it's ok to feed me bananas and call me a monkey during our fuck session. With my big black cock.
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On the other hand if you are a white guy bent over in a dark room taking multiple raw cocks and loads AND you are disgusted that there might be black guys in the mix breeding you...then I think you have some serious issues.
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[quote name="wood" post="397791" .... white guys not wanting to date/fuck black guys cause they think they are all "thugs" Black men not wanting to fuck white men because they think they are all racist assholes who will never get them, or practically every fucking gay man not giving any asian guy a shot because they think they all have small dicks. None of those things have ANYTHING to do with attraction, its racist tendencies that no one wants to admit to. People don't want to admit the uncomfortable truth about what they are. Very interesting point of view. That last statement is a dose of reality for all of us..."People don't want to admit the uncomfortable truth about what they are." Your discourse fits very well in the narrative of the OP. We should all look at ourselves in the mirror and reflect on the idea that racism and homophobia come in the same package.
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Yet it continues to be an issue in the gay community. It's everywhere in the gay culture. In New York City there are gay clubs specifically targeting black patrons; gay clubs specifically targeting latino customers; and of course an abundance of gay clubs specifically geared for whites. It doesn't get more blatant than that. And this carries over into the bedroom. For example: The Townhouse (a gay bar in Manhattan) is a very chic venue for predominantly wealthy and sophisticated gay white men. And they specifically placed an African American drag queen on the front page of their website. I guess that's an attempt to say they are welcoming to all races. LOL. The handful of white guys who I know frequent that bar do not want to have anything to do with black guys. See the website for yourself: http://www.townhouseny.com/
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If a white guy doesn't want to hookup with a black guy I'm not sure if that's enough to brand the white guy a racist. But let's be clear the immediate defense of many white guys is to say that they're entitled to their"preferences"...they might even go as far as letting you know they do have black friends. That's the beginning of snide comments. Racism has many disguises.
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Very interesting insight. I am glad you chose not to objectify black men based on the size of their cocks. I would like to know your views on white guys who have no desire to breed or be bred by black guys.
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I have never heard it expressed like that before..."being torn by wanting to bareback and being afraid of cum was pretty intense". I am sure many guys can relate to that experience. Being afraid of cum is quite common in the gay community.
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You are so right. But what amazes me is that some bottoms never clean out. Yet they never have accidents. And I wonder how escorts who bottom stay clean even though they are fucked multiple times in just one day. The human anatomy is absolutely amazing.
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"in fact this was true the last time I bottomed, it was at an adult theater and a really hot huge black guy wanted to fuck me I let him know I probably wasn't clean, despite the Picasso Effect he fucked my 3 times that night using paper towels to clean up each time)." I like the fact that you let the guy know that you probably weren't clean. Now the decision was for him to make. Interestingly I find that many bottoms warn tops of the imminent danger of proceeding without explicitly saying it. It helps to listen with all out senses to understand when a bottom is sending signals (proceed at your own risk). In the heat of the moment sometimes tops do not pick up on the subtle messages given by the bottom.
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Tops should stop complaining and just deal with "paint". Really? The word complain has negative connotations. In an earlier post in this thread bbbearlover1 expressed his feelings of displeasure after being painted during a hookup. I would prefer not to call that a complaint. If the time spent by a bottom to clean out is not appreciated, then so be it. Obviously, regardless what you or I may think, there will always be those who will get pissed it they are painted. The statement "deal with it and stop complaining" oversimplifies the range of emotions that both tops and bottoms might experience when paint comes into play. What do you think?
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You are not alone. I have read blogs on other websites where tops go berserk when bottoms paint them. There are tops who will lose their temper to the point of cursing and shaming the bottom. The other extreme are tops who will have physical altercations with bottoms who paint them. Some tops are very unforgiving.
