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Be nice if i could find a regular fuck buddy bottom for a daytime one a week, once every other week hookup.

Eagle rock, glendale, silverlake pasadena area.

buddy.  Ive had HIV since 1988.  I got full blown AIDS in 1995.  once I came out of my sickness and revived, I was still a mess.  The disease left me with spinal cord damage and I cannot feel my feet and I walk with a bad limp.

Before all of that I was the STUD on the dance floor and I could fuck anybody I pleased.

It took me 10 years to get my mojo back.  I was extremely self conscious of the way I walked.  But Ill tell you this.  I took a big deep breath and threw myself out there again.  

Sometimes I run into hookups that dont like that Im not a marathon runner, and yeah they arent attracted to me.  But many more bottoms have no problem with my slight disability and are perfectly happy being my boys.

The difference I made in myself is that I said "fuck it"

This is how I am.  If you dont like me.  someone else is right behind you in line that will like me.  I market myself.  I take good pics of my body and cock.  and I became aggressive and available again.

People smell shyness.  They smell fear.  The can detect stage fright.  Guys want excitement too.  You have to teach yourself to get over your self consciousness and at least appear interesting and then youll see a change.  

My ed started at forty.  Viagra is the best way for me to have and erection and maintain one.  I shoot up testosterone once a week and whenever I going to fuck I pop a blue pill.  

33 is a little young to be taking anything.  If you have a rapid pulse try exercising.

Top breeder man here in Eastern LA.  Eagle Rock Silverlake area.  I get most of my ass off a4a.

a couple hits of 420 and my gag reflex is gone….

total top here when it cums to fucking ass but I have a dark side that loves to just chow down and suck a big juicy cock.  I have my regular profiles on a4a and bbrt for topping bottoms.  But I also have a oral only profile created for the purpose to get cocks to suck.  pics are of just my face and private in the oral only profile.  also I find I can get some good dick on craigslist.  mostly straight men. some even want me to rim them.  of which I am an expert. :~P

look for a straight man…..their wives/gf's will never be able to compete with an experienced fag cockhound when it cums to sucking dick

pick and choose wisely. I hate to say this but several emails or texts with the bottom will ascertain their neediness. Everybody today wants one email and a fuck. But you gotta peel the onion and find out the quirks first. I talk a lot up front cause I have gotten into many situations with boys that want lovers or intimate hookups beyond my ability to give them. your ads should be very explicit. dump and go. no strings. your looking for no emotional baggage etc.

older men will be less apt to want to get all clingy too.

well in california theres always an "ish" after the time…..like "I will meet you around noon-ish" and I get that. ish to me means 10 minutes late or early. But when youre sitting there with a bone and a sack full of jizz and the clock keeps ticking away……..Im gonna do as bottombear does. they get 15minutes and then I am on with my day.

I have had a pretty good amount of guys agree on a time like say 10am and then they text me at 10am and say "heading out the door" THEY SHOULD BE AT MY DOOR not leaving theirs. I guess Im just getting old. time has become a very laissez faire idea now a days

I get so fucking annoyed at these boys usually under the age of 40 (bottoms in my case) who agree with me on a time to be at my apartment to fuck and then they are an hour OR MORE late for the date time. Does this happen to everyone on here or is it just a california time thing? what should be the revenge or consequences for such behavior? I have simply left my apt and bailed on the date. but I wish I could paddle their fucking asses. witholding the cock is my best defense.

If anything, a proper sissy should consider keeping the nuts and losing the cock.

The dick is the useless bit, but the nuts at least keep it horny and ready to serve.

If surgery isn't an option, there are MANY chastity devices available to render the sub's dick useless while keeping the balls available to do their job in keeping motivation.

I am in total agreement. a sissy needs her testicles to stay horny for the man. the dick should just be caged. all pleasure the sissy experiences should come from her tonsils and her asspussy.

Plus, with guys that big, you really have to make sure your hole is SQUEAKY clean, otherwise, it's not pretty.

LOL I have a top friend who is 9.5 inches uncut. Beautiful cock. He complains often about hitting pay dirt when he fucks…...

i dont like anon. I guess I have grown older to an age where it just seems impersonal and cold to pump, dump and go . I find sex relaxing and try to make it enjoyable. not a business transaction type thing

I am very upfront about BB sex and not pulling out and they still want my dick

lately I have been getting a lot of offers on A4A to breed neg ass. As a man who lived through the epidemic in the 80s & 90s and is very HIV+ myself, I have mixed emotions about fucking men who are not poz. Should I hit it? I mean some of these guys are hot. They know Im poz. Do any other poz tops here fuck negs? Could I get into trouble anyway? At the moment I stay away from these type bottoms.

Peace

Thick

brown dick is actually to me like a sliding scale. I prefer clean hole. however if youre hot, and I am completely turned on and I hit pay dirt, Ill probably finish off anyway. If Im fucking some EH guy that really isnt that great looking, a crappy hole will make me lose my boner.

I was boning this little asian guy for a while, from whom I just couldnt get enough ass. I mean he fucking hit all my sex buttons! The second time i screwed him he got slimy and stinky halfway through, I fucked him anyway and shot my sperm. And I had several more session with him afterwards

I fucked this fat, ugly latin guy (who usually only sucks my cock) and he started farting gas bombs up into my face……no shit on the dick….but the smell….. well, that session ended quickly and I never screwed him again.

To me its relative to the attraction.

Most of the guys I've played with who were tweeked had such a hard time focusing on playing, that it was almost a challenge just to keep their attention.

This is exactly why I will not fuck a bottom who is tweeked. They have the concentration of a fly. The sex session is about me. My cock. My orgasm. I dont mind if you play with your dick and/or youre having a good time but I am there to eat and fuck some ass and drop my load and tension. I dont need a sex mate who is bouncing around the room, talking about irrelevant things and, all in all, not paying attention to me or my needs. I will lose my hardon immediately. Total turn off. and I explicitly ask anyone I fuck if they do meth. I dont mind 420 or poppers, but meth is out if you wanna have sex with me

well Im 46. just turned that age april 7th. Ive got some mileage but I get laid pretty much anytime I want to nut......when I was 26? I was absolutely the hottest man I knew. does that make me something special? Nope.

A fellow once told me that good looks are the cheapest commodity around. Why? cause there will always be someone younger, cuter, more perfect than you nipping at your heels. Just a matter of time (and drugs) and you will be the troll in the corner. get over urself.

And frankly, sex doesnt get remotely interesting until you reach 40.........before that its just sex

i can cum 3-4 times a day jerking off too. But fucking or getting sucked off are entirely different sensations than masturbating.

A) Its an age issue. its mostly circumcised men with this issue. C) it could be stress of the unknown hookup. D) its totally thinking too much.

I suffer off and on from anorgasmia which in "english" means unable to cum. I get hard and I can fuck and fuck and fuck, but that tingle in the ole nutsack never starts. Other times, I can pump out a load in 15-20 minutes of good pleasurable fuckin. Your cock is completely wired to your brain. Thinking too much can cause anorgasmia. When I take my testosterone shot that helps it immensely. Its age and ur brain. I also have pretty much stopped masturbating and that has helped too.

I had some good advice a couple of years ago from a fellow top who is a tad older than me (Im 46). He said......"tops can fake an orgasm too" and occassionally I do fake cumming. Just so I can stop fucking! LOL. Then I say to myself. "Live to cum another day."

I read somewhere that the human male should space his orgasms with his age bracket. IE 10-20 (1 cum a day at least) 20-30 (every other day) 30-40 (every 3 days) 40-50 (every 4 days). I live sort of by this rule. If I nut. I can cum again by fucking in 3 days with no problems

Im rambling LOL Peace

I am in love with a man whom I know I will never be with completely. He lives 25 miles from me. I have a husband. My husband knows about him. I wanted all of us to live together and be happy but my partner is reluctant. So this has stressed my relationship with my boyfriend. He and I know I will never leave my husband. It has caused a lot of grief.

At the moment we are not speaking. My heart feels empty. But I must move on. Its all you can do. You cannot sit around obsessing. Its unproductive.

i hate bottoming. Im too pushy for it. I cant act like Im having fun. I hate to clean out. and I love fucking. zip

in call means at their place. out call means the escort leaves and travels to wherever you are......

I think I said this already on another thread. Never got fucked by a family member. However, my brother force fed me his cock when I was around 9 and he was 13. He has a huge cock, fat and long, and it drips precum like a faucet (like mine does)

At first he started these sexual games with me by sitting on my chest after wrestling me to the floor. When he had my shoulders securely pinned down by his knees he would pull out his hard dick and rub it on my face and demand "suck it". He did this to me for around 6 months, and as turned on as I was, I fought away his advances.

BUT then I started showing up in his room at night. I couldnt help myself. I was so turned on by my raging hormones and the thought of his gorgeous dick. Id get in his bed and slowly inch my hand down so I could feel his big cock while he was asleep. But he wasnt really asleep, just feigning it.

So just touching it at night turned into sucking it at night. Then he took control again and maybe a year into his seduction I was his willing little cum drinker. he fed me that dick for 4 years.

To this day, even though I turned out to be a top, I love looking a dick pics and my mouth waters. Oh and I do still enjoy sucking a beautiful cock especially if it oozes pre-snot. hehe

Just like the owners of the holes who either know how to use them or dont, asses are all different. Some are very tight, uncomfortably so. Some are very loose like ur fucking a woman whos pumped out a couple of kids. Some are hairy and that adds texture to the fuck. Some are smooth and they feel like velvet. Some holes are gripping only around the sphincter so you get no sensation if your glans is farther inside. Then others will grip your whole shaft like their rectum is snug around your cock (then you dont have to long dick so far out that it slips)

In my context I have a few names of certain types.

"the wiggle butt" this is a guy who could have a great hole but hes too busy wiggling his ass around for u to establish a good stroke.

"the snapping turtle" This fellow is so damn tight that when youre on the out stroke he literally shits your cock out (not fun) or he bends your dick on the in-stroke (no fun either)

"the manpussy" These I totally enjoy. grips your cock like a flesh jack and not too tight. no need to long dick. medium thrusts will get you there.

"the loose goose" Should I add my hand so I can jerk off inside of you? cause I aint feeling nothing!

My best friend and I use these terms when we talk about my fucks.