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Both - a good fuck that builds as the top is about to cum, then the load being blown into my ass.

Think my sexuality was awoken by computer games!  I used to get turned on by these big muscular characters in tight shorts making groaning noises.

Older perverted guys (I’m 45, so we’re talking 60+ here)

Skinheads

Chubby guys

When I was a top I used to be terrified of catching HIV so I always put a condom on.  Around the early 10s, I remember once being really horny whilst cruising outdoors, and saw a guy bent over a tree, ass out, so I went "fuck it" and fucked him.  And I remember it feeling so good, it felt so real and connected.  Was paranoid that I'd caught HIV - I didn't.  Then I did it a few more times, and I was clear.

I've now switched to pretty much always a bottom, and I've taken several loads, and have been clear.  I'm going onto PrEP shortly as I want to be a full on cum dump.

Being spat on is more degrading to me, don’t know why! Just makes me feel dirty and used afterwards (but I’m into that…)

When I was in my late teens/early 20s, it was the late 90s and there wasn't anything like PREP, nor was the medication as effective for HIV, so both me and my first top insisted on condoms.  That changed the first time back in 2014 for me (still vers at that time), I would then fuck bare, but would only bottom with a condom.  Then a few years later I stopped caring and was taking loads from all cumers... 😉

Raw is Law... if I'm getting a load, it's going to be raw

I prefer it in my ass - I just feel it's a waste in my mouth or anywhere else!

I think when you first take cock, you ideally want a true versatile guy (who has taken cock and fucked).  Unfortunately my first guy tried to go straight in with only a bit of lube, and didn't spend time opening me up slowly, so unsuprisingly it hurt a bit.  The next few times it was like "wow, this is amazing!"

Things I wish I was told before bottoming: 1) understand what douching is and do it, 2) plenty of lube, 3) put the tip of the cock in and wait, it'll magically open and be let in, 4) take it slow to start with, then the top can go as he likes... 😉

I love getting pounded hard, and yes it can be uncomfortable or occasionally painful.  I think there's a variety of reasons (as bottoms) we take it.  Most of getting fucked is what happens in your mind, not just your ass.  You are full of horniness, the feeling of being restrained by the weight of his body, the sheer physicality of him drilling you hard, the thoughts of it being so wrong but so right, the knowledge that there is no escape till he breeds you deep - that all overrides the pain (in my opinion).

I was made one.  I've always had sensory issues, so the idea of a thick long item going into my throat, possibly making me gag or be sick worried me.  Same with cum itself - thick white and gloopy.  So I used to avoid giving head the first few times, being happy enough to be fucked (with a condom).

When I started barebacking properly, one of the first tops I had was a proper aggro top.  He had me on my knees and got his cock out.  I tried to move my head away, so he slapped my face and shoved his cock in with his hand on the back of my head.  "You will take my cock bitch".  He then fucked my face, not caring if I gagged or not.  He then came deep down my throat.  That turned me on so much I've been an eager cocksucker ever since!

To quote a song "face down, ass up, that's the way we like to f**k" - and who I am to argue?

Going to a sex club and seeing loads of different guys getting fucked, turned the bit in me that went "why not me?". So I bent over, pulled my zip down and after several loads were fucked into me I realised I was a bareback pig.

Leather gloved hand around the throat, with my legs up around my head as he's fucking my ass. Pushing down on my throat and spitting on my face as he fucks me hard gives me such a rush. 

I need to get a better picture, perhaps after fucking…

The main advice I’d wish I’d taken is to accept that you are a sub bottom and do what you are told. I left too many meets halfway through because I was nervous or worried it would hurt. Older me would tell younger me to shut up and take the cock, you’ll enjoy it! Also being a 21 year old rubber and leather sub, you would have had cock in every hole if you’d just been more relaxed!

Love verbal degradation, especially being made to say stuff back e.g. “You’re my sub cunt aren’t you?” “Yes, your dirty sub cunt sir”.

When I was 18 and started fucking and being fucked, I always used condoms.  It was 1997 and there was still not widely available reliable treatment for HIV, so I wasn't prepared to take that risk.  I always found that using condoms ruined the flow and made it very clinical.  It also just didn't feel as good.

In the late 2000s, when horny as f**k, I went cruising and part of my brain went "just do it", and I fucked a guy without a condom.  Felt really worried, got tested, negative.  I then did it a few more times, still negative.  About 5 years ago I went fully bottom and have worked on a "risk aware" basis - I don't want to get HIV particularly, but I'm not worried if I do.

My nipples are quite sensitive, but not wired to my cock as such.  If a guy starts playing with them however it makes me submissive.

I find it often depends on the other guy - if he's dominant, then I'll bottom, if he's submissive then I'll top.  If he's not sure, we'll work it out...

Back office of a sex shop when I was 21. Was chatting to the owner online, he invited me down, one thing led to another and I'm getting fucked in the back office, dressed in a harness. Got to keep the harness too for free..!

I visit London regularly, and on this occasion, Hard On was on at the same time. For those not in the know the best way to describe it is a cross between a dance club and an orgy.. There is a dance floor, then most of the rest is slings, dark rooms etc. I was in my favourite rubber gear. Wandered about - loads of hot guys. The upstairs areas tend to be the sleaziest, with guys fucking and sucking right left and centre! I was in quite a horny mood, and I was feeling in a top mood that night. I was in the darkroom which has minimal visibility. Through the darkness I saw one tall slim guy, in a rubber vest, bent over on a bench waiting for loads. I went up behind him and knocked my dick a few times on his ass. He pulled his cheeks open and I slid in. I think he had already been loaded once from the feel. I started to fuck him and I tried desperately to not cum quickly, but I think my dick had different ideas and I dumped quite a load into him. He looks back and goes "thank you sir", and I go and get another drink and cleanup.

It's nice to switch roles sometimes!  Next time I'll be on that bench..!

Bit of a weird one, but playing beat em up computer games!  Used to love seeing the buff muscular male characters in not very much, liked the groaning noises.  Didn't quite understand at the time why it turned me on!

Definitely curiosity.  I never had much interest in playing with my ass, used to be only a top.  The few times I tried taking a cock I was too tight and it was too painful.  It was only about five or six years ago when I met an experienced older dom top who made it clear that I was going to take his cock.  He lubed me up well and took it slow (to start) before fucking me good and breeding me.  I knew then I liked cock and cum in the ass...!