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This question doesnt make sense. A cumshot out of the asshole is a total waste

I dont know if this topic has been previously opened by someonw in the forum, but, i'd like to express my personal opinion about the topic I'm posting and, obviously, I' d like to read other fellow barebackers' points of view. And as stated,  I am talking about what led you to make the decision to start Prep.

In my case, Prep was totally unknown until I was living in Philadelphia, that was about 10 years ago. Barebacking has been, since the first time I had sex, that was around my early 20's, (Take into account that I am almost 40), a very common sexual practice which I enjoy a lot because I believe It's a natural thing among human beings regardless of their sexual orientation.  My first sex (and gay) experience was bareback, but I was afraid of an illness, so my sex life was very limited to protected encounters. This changed during my journey in the US where I finally accepted myself as a gay man, that gayness isnt the terrible thing my church preaches (Mormonism). that AIDS is not the end of anyone's life, and the arise of the Prep era.

Putting these things together, my beliefs about sex, my religious background and who I am, Barebacking started to be a regular part for my sex life, making my sexual hook ups enjoyable, with plenty of lust, skipping the use of rubbers and taking and giving shots as much as possible, knowing that I was always on risk of taking HIV or other sexual disease.. 

This is the part which dislikes about BB because I have never wanted to get infected and in this area Prep takes a very central place of the discussion, because this is the way I found on other to continue enjoying of my sexual encounters, 1 -1 or with more guys at the same time, but I wanted to start taking Prep but I had no insurance and my cash flow couldnt afford it. 

This situation is now over because now I am covered by the health care system of my country (Colombia) and I will apply for Prep soon.  I am planning to follow the directions 'till the day I meet the guy I am dreaming with: Versatile, Barebacker, Fetichist, Taller than mine, muscular, nice endowment and ass, smart, tender, HIV + and into recreational drugs for sex. That day i will write the last page of my Prep journey because I want the only one I chose to give me his gift so that we can swap strains regularly.

Here my two cents and I want to read yours.

Guillermo . (Colombia South America)

On 8/10/2017 at 2:45 PM, tighthole64 said:

Personally, I think its a great idea.  Im negative, but chasing.  Being gifted and having a relationship with the gifter would be amazing! We would share the trials and tribulations of being poz, and becoming poz.

Sharing the good and bad times is the best way how to express to your beloved you care for him. God bless you!!!

On 3/13/2019 at 2:26 PM, averageslut48 said:

Neg Bottom here. Not on PrEP and never will take it. Of Course I would start a LTR with a poz guy. It doesn´t matter, if he is undetectable or toxic. The only Thing which counts is the guy, who I get to know. 

And if it happens to me to become infected, I will deal with it very well after all the years of bareback fucking. I always knew About the risks. But what will be, will be.

I am into barecking almost all my sexual life and taking the gift is just matter of time. But I am totally certain that I want to get it from the man I love 

On 3/14/2019 at 9:53 PM, ThisGuy said:

I would absolutely date or marry a poz guy. In fact, I would prefer it. And I want to marry him. Best still if he can be the one to knock me up, then we can swap strains every day of the rest of our lives. 

That's what I want. To marry my man, preferibly a Poz one so i can take this toxic nut everyday so that he would be the chosen to knock me up with his bugs and then, to swap them forever

On 3/15/2019 at 2:16 AM, hotguy02 said:

I am in a relationship with a 65 yr old top alpha daddy .  I'm 34.  When I was 18 he took my virginity and taught me how to be a good sun bottom for him.    He's always barebacked me and always breeded me.   He was always negative untill dec 2018.  He's on meds now but I'm more in love with him now than ever.   I'd definitely let him poz me if he wanted to .   I'm neg and not on prep.   It's just a matter of time.    I am too loyal to him.   My love for him is too strong.  We are going to work towards our plz relationship.   

Your point of view is quite similar to mine because If my partner was poz and I were negative, I'd even stop prep and let him poz me. His bugs will be more than appreciated because we would start a new page on our relationship in which we both would be closer and take care more of each other.

On 8/16/2016 at 2:27 PM, daddyboyleo said:

I've been married for 18 years, my husband and I are both Poz.

Back in the day when I was diagnosed most Negative guys I met wouldn't consider having a long term relationship with a Poz guy.

After many years of conversations with other Poz guys i found that my experience wasn't unique.

I wonder if PrEP has changed that?

Nothing has changed since you met your husband. You decided to stay next to him not because he is or not HIV. You chose your man because you love him  for his personal / moral values not for his HIV status. People who discriminate based on HIV status / gender/  religious beliefs.. etc are assholes. Just my two cents

Well, dear friend.. you and my boyfriend are in the same hiatus.. The guy I am dating has been + since 2002 and with indetectable load (proven with papers) since 2010 and I am presumibly still negative, despite my growing interest in becoming poz.  A couple of nights ago, as we were having bareback sex (He was on the top), we started discussing the issue . We both discovered that being both us +, would increase the union between us, in the sense that there wont be any secrets, he would be a part of me and i would become a part of him. And the most important thing is that me being pozzed would make both us to take care of each other in every sense.

My secret dream has been to love and to marry my gifter. But you should know better each other in other to give this step and, obviously, to take into account your bf's opinion. Otherwise, you would be a selfish man.

https://men.prepfacts.org/the-basics/

There are two things they need to be distinguished, those are MONOGAMY and LOYALTY. The first one, for me, means: No sleeping and no having sex with anyone different than your partner. Te second: Allowing your partner to be himself, i mean,  enjoying and explore one's / his sexuality with no emotional restraints different than the partner but taking into account that the relationship is first, and can count on the counterpart in good and bad times.

I do prefer the second.

As far as the topic concerns, if your relationship is closed and you have sex beyond your partner,  it is unfair because you are breaking a deal you have with your partner. But if it is open like the only I have had , and it was with an American guy, we used to go 3x a week to Club Fort Lauderdale to have sex with other men either together or by our side.  If i saw him fucking of he saw me fucking, we didnt make any drama of the situation. We only took precautions (by those times, i till used rubbers) ..

But now, I am willing a meaning ful relationship, obviously, with someone engaging bareback. And I am eager to allow him to play by his own side so i can avoid cheating and idiot bullshit. I do prefer someone upfront telling me what he wants.

The only thing i would allow is bringing bugs home (aka Hepatitis, Herpes or any other different STD than HIV).And i highlight HIV because one can prevent it with PREP and hepatitis handling proper vaccination. 

So, if my partner wants to hook up,  i will even sponsor him to do so but take care of his health and mine..

My two cents

For those who doesnt know me I am an avid visitor of bath houses  and the ongoing action that uses to happen in these places. I use to look for men over 35 who are at least versatile, but  my target men are really top with a decent endowment which will stimulate my inner male points. But three weeks ago, I went to the bathhouse i use to go because I was in really need of a mature dick up my ass, and as soon as i arrived and got my own bedroom, met a gorgeous man around his mid 40's and invited me over to his bedroom..  As soon as I got into, he unpacked a small plastic bag with a white powder inside and he explained me he used to sniff cocaine when fucking men.

At first I was not feeling good with the situation, he started to sniffing but my curiosity lead me to ask him for some which I sniffed and sincerely, I enjoyed its side effects in my mind and body: I saw a gorgeous hard rock erection, i felt totally relaxed and ask him to fuck me (raw) with his hot thick sausage which he did in different positions till he dropped a huge amount of cum up my tight ass.

I am willing to sniff again in other to get the same sensations but my question is : being barebacker means being a drug user or can you handle bareback sex without any substance?

Looking forward to reading your comments

Guilllermo

On 31/10/2016 at 9:36 PM, EastBayRawVers said:

I have started saving all my loads when I j/o, and freezing them.  Not sure what to do, but know they can't be wasted!  I have about 10 saved up as of now.  I think I will start the tasting tonight!

Probably you can patent a new ice cream flavour

Thanks it was PERFECT! We've done it a couple of times since and both of those were equally as perfect.

 

 

Looking forward to getting knocked up soon and shooting poz loads. If I ever get to California after it happens I'll be sure to hit you up so I can share my gift with you. The first thing I want to do after finding out I've converted is shove my newly poz cock in a willing bottom chaser and give him the charged up seed he so desperately wants.

Do you know your breeder's VL ?

The best lube is ABSOLUTELY CUM... It feels really good and it allows you to take a big one really easy.

But if you want the real think, my suggestion is for KY.. You can find it at any drugstore with no problems..

If you want a suggestion of what NOT to buy is RELAX Anal lubricant. I bought a 16oz bottle on Amazon a long time ago, the problem according to my experience was that it makes your dick sleep becaue it has Lidocaine 2%

It is good because you dont feel a lot of pain when getting it inside but what about the top's dick??

I am 7,5 uc . I sucke Both but uncut must be clean.

It is covered in my country through what we call "Plan Obligatorio de Salud" (Health Obligatory Plan) that is a list of the minimum of an insurance company has to offer to people and with no copays. But you have to be lucky enough in order to be prescribed by a physician. They only believe it is too treat AIDS / HIV not as a pre exposure profilaxis...

My country is COLOMBIA