hi there
only have ever observed this forum, never posted
Never had bareback before, have fantasied about it though
But last night, very drunk, I hooked up with guy in a bar. went back his place and ended up having bareback sex. I fucked him.
This morning woke up and said - we did something silly last night - and He agreed, but stated he was negative. but of course, I don't really know that. he could even be positive and not know himself
what are the chances even if he was actually positive of me getting hiv ? (of course, I know there is a risk of other diseases)
I remember reading here, some bug chasers who had to have loads of loads of unprotected sex with known positives before they got HIV themselves - so is it possible to get HIV from a one off ?!
as good as it may of felt at the time, skin on skin, cumming deep in someone - it was very risky behaviour. didnt even use proper lube, I don't think spit counts
the only way of course is to be tested, which I will do
cheers in advance for any advice