Samanthads

i have this issue too ive a big cock and people want me to top them. ive been in a sling not playing with my cock and a guy still wanted me to top him

chastity might be a idea but not tried that approach 

set a safe word with the person that spanks you. a safe word is a word you say and the play stops 

if they dont do safe words dont let them spank you 

i get what you mean about Pandora being slutty i was like that at first scared by what Samantha was capable of doing sexually but if learned to channel that in a safe way. me personally when i started i classed my self as a CD as wore thongs dresses bras wigs now id say im gender fluid both sides a part of me.

In your case as you like a Cheerleader outfit only i personally would say its a Cosplay fetish 

On 12/24/2020 at 1:10 PM, hungry_hole said:

I would like someone to please explain this "feeling like a woman" thing. Do you want to feel sexy and a sex object? Explain.

its a state of mind that varies from person to person  "feeling like a women" it could be looking feminine feeling feminine, you could in a way say "treated like a women" as a better expression. 

i would say to you do you "feel gay" and why are you, where you born that way, way you where raised that way etc. its not about feeling like a sex object but feeling like you which can mean feeling sexy but it dont have to be 

the problem is there are different levels, crossdressing transvestism are fetishes and usually sexual.

Transgender isnt a fetish its who the person. Most true transgenders you wont notice from a casual glance as they blend in, because they want to be seen as a person not a object/fetish for others , if you look close you might spot the male attributes adams apple broad shoulders etc. Transgender isnt about rebelling or the way you are raised but a need to be yourself  

also sex and gender are different male female are biological sexes. there are so many genders too many labels and labels are dangerous really as you cant pigeonhole people into one easily as they might not agree 

i write this from my point of view as gender fluid as a guy i have female attributes high cheekbones, girls lips, softer voice, graceful female walk and "camp" mannerisms that i have no control of . im more a guy than girl but i need both sides male and female to feel happy in myself 

i like chastity too but only for short locks.

bought first one in lockdown so not played with anyone while locked 

hoping that when the saunas open again i can wear it there as guys see my cock size and auto think top (im verse) so its annoying at times when i want to  get fucked but guys want to me to fuck them hoping a cage will give people the message of fuck me 

it s the idea its a tricky mindset to inflict pain on the balls but if i guy likes it they want it. ive done it with one guy a few times and thought i was being cruel but he said i wasnt after i punched slapped and kicked him from behind 

i guess that depends where you are getting fisted, anon saunas etc or by a regular you know

gloves might give a smoother feel i think the skin to skin is partially a mental thing 

ive taken very light cbt and it hurts too much. 

im more a sadist i guess 

i am as the person giving the cbt 

some context is needed are you chasing or not. 

if you are not chasing then dont meet him 

does any one own a ManCage device im looking at number 6 ive measured and i need a 55mm ring and 4-4.5" tube can anyone recommend  ManCage or another device that will fit me 

thanks 

also a tip ive been given is take a anti diarrhoea pill that should help too 

ive had similar experiences on a fuck bench ass up and all the tops seam to want me to do is suck them off  

can anyone recommend where to stay thats near by and not too expensive 

yes you can be aggressive as a submissive but in your case you just want to be fucked raw with cock thats something that should be agreed with the dom top before you play 

what do you mean by aggression though?

if i was the dom top though i would  still finger your ass tease the hell out of you make you channel that aggression till i put you in your place with a few hard spanks on your ass saying ass up time to get fucked bitch then slide my  cock in you  hard 

can happen ive been ass up on a fuck bench and sucked 4 cocks and similar to your experience there wasnt much sex in the whole sauna going on sometimes there are off days depends on the crowd thats in it always hit and miss

im starting to like pouch briefs show my junk off a bit 

as a question how does the meat market differ from Fickstutenmarkt is it a similar idea 

if you have paint program (microsoft standard program) on your pc you can resize it on that 

2 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Avoid poppers containing isopropyl nitrite

thanks for the info on that i will be avoiding them in future. seams most uk ones are isopropyl nitrite 

im the same theres some brands i cant use as they give me a bad chest English for one gives me a bad cough but Amsterdam gold dont, im in the uk by the way 

On 6/25/2019 at 6:51 PM, SuzySissySlut said:

As a total fuck slut & whore this is exactly how i should be treated 

i wouldnt say thats beaten just well spanked to me. beaten to means punched kicked slapped hard on the face ect. spanking is an erotic art form that requires finesse 

On 6/24/2019 at 1:02 PM, MuscledHorse said:

 30 min before heavy play I pop a loperimide (Imodium)

i have to agree if i know im going too get fucked i will take a Imodium as well as douching 

6 hours ago, RawUK said:

That's good to hear as I'm definitely a chub so would hate to spend money going somewhere that I wouldn't be able to attend.

i think you can send them your picture and they will say yes or no 

no good sex is always a 2 way thing and more so if with a partner