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  1. Honestly, I haven't given relationships much thought at all. First thing is that I live in Florida, where I have to disclose my status, makes it a bit difficult given people know so little about HIV. Even if I explain I'm undetectable, they still don't believe it. And given my current going and coming from work lifestyle, I'm not going to seek out a relationship anytime soon. I probably want some dick to tide me over. And honestly I know I love being a fucktoy, so I'll do that for a while. If someone is willing to let me be a cumdump, all the better, especially if they're whoring me out. But I am at the point in my life I'm not changing for anyone just to make them comfortable with me. I've already tried to do that and I've been burned.

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  2. 15 hours ago, alwaysready said:

    I agree with curious dallas. be careful. I would NOT wear headphones. you need to hear what a guy is doing. a pocket mirror carefully hidden would help esp if you think something is not right. 

    A pocket mirror would be useful if you're not like me and using a blindfold hood. Reasons why I wouldn't do this anywhere else but a bathhouse.

  3. On 11/5/2019 at 1:07 AM, ErosWired said:

    Bear in mind that some dildoes are made of materials that are porous or potentially porous and therefore impossible to clean and sterilize sufficiently to be used safely by others. Also, depending on the age of the items in question, some breakdown of the original integrity of the materials may have occurred. I would inspect them very carefully, and look into what they’re made of, before foisting them off on someone else. If any of them don’t pass muster, you can always turn them into edgy modern art... or just chuck them in the bin.

    Pro tip, seems like a great conversation starter, or at the very least make things awkward with certain relatives you want to keep away.

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  4. On 7/27/2019 at 1:01 PM, Faggotuser said:

    good girl. That's exactly what I teach cumdumps to do. The blindfold sends a clear signal that you are nothing but a public use cumdumpster and not only do you not care who fucks you but you EXPECT the dirtiest, nastiest looking old trolls to dump their loads in your sloppy fuckhole. Plus even though you can't see any of them, they still get to see you while man after man take turns breeding you. Everyone knows who you are and what you are. Bathhouse slings are where a lot of pussyboys learn their true purpose in life is taking anonymous strangers loads.

    Thank you sir for expressing how you'd treat us cumdumps and make us useful for you. This is exactly what I aspire to be and desire to be used in such a manner that befits my status as a fucktoy.

  5. 6 hours ago, ErosWired said:

    Bear in mind that some dildoes are made of materials that are porous or potentially porous and therefore impossible to clean and sterilize sufficiently to be used safely by others. Also, depending on the age of the items in question, some breakdown of the original integrity of the materials may have occurred. I would inspect them very carefully, and look into what they’re made of, before foisting them off on someone else. If any of them don’t pass muster, you can always turn them into edgy modern art... or just chuck them in the bin.

    Edgy modern art. Never thought I'd consider doing that to my prostate massager.

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  6. 26 minutes ago, tallslenderguy said:

    i would have had exactly the opposite response, i would have loved Him for it, but that is wholly irrational and i know it.  i know that my desire is not universal, so neither can a Top assume it's okeedokee. It's an emotional response on my part because i associate a Mans piss as an inseminating part of Him, but that's individual and He has no way of knowing that without prior exchange.  

    Part of me wants to feel that it's okay if it's not harmful, but i know that is not true because one Mans pleasure is another mans poison.  i suspect that for me it's a desire to be known in some magical way that doesn't require communication... i.e., the Top 'knows' what i need without asking.  i see this emotional response on both sides (Top and bottom), where a Top will sometimes say: "you know you want it."   i think there is something in many of us that wants there to be that kind of perception, understanding, but it's magical thinking.

     i think the type of experimentation where the Top presumes to 'know' what the bottom needs is more reasonable in relationship vs anonymous encounters, where there is agreement ahead of time that such experimentation is wanted on both sides?

    That's the slippery slope when people decide stealthing is ok, especially if they don't see it as harmful because they want to nut in some boypussy/cunt/hole/ass. I think a simpler way for a top to see if the guy he's fucking wants to go raw is to just ask. You might never know, some bottoms want to feel a cock in them raw after feeling it wrapped. I thing it has to be reinforced that consent is sexy and consent to having sex raw is a part of sexual activity. 

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  7. 16 hours ago, ErosWired said:

    The word stealth derives from Old English steal + th meaning “theft”. More broadly, it denotes slyness or deception. In any context, it expresses the idea of taking some action without the consent of the one acted upon.

    All you guys equivocating about how stealthing is sometimes wrong but sometimes okay - it’s always done without the consent of the person being stealthed, or it isn’t - by definition - stealthing. And since it’s done without consent, it’s sexual assault. You can’t paint it any other color. You don’t get to say a victim was ‘asking for it’ by putting himself in a situation where he might get pozzed, or entering a darkroom, or for taking anon loads, or for being naïve, or any of that other ridiculous victim-blaming shit, because nobody forces a stealther to stealth - that choice is 100% his own.

    Stealth means theft - the theft of another person’s right to refuse, and the possible theft of his health. It’s wrong 100% of the time, in every circumstance.

     I would even go so far as to say that in my  view a superior Top would never think of stealthing - he would consider it beneath him, something only done by lesser men. It smacks of the behavior of intimidated males in a pack who have been denied reproductive rights by an Alpha male, surreptitiously slipping in to inseminate a bitch on the sly; even if successful, it still imparts no honor to the one who does it.

    Thank you!!! That is exactly how I feel about it, especially since I felt violated when I found out I was stealthed and ended up being pozzed as a result. 

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  8. 21 hours ago, hungry_hole said:

    You cannot paint all stealthing situations with the same brush and some stealthers don't qualify as sociopaths.

    In my opinion, which I've expressed here before, anonymous stealthing at a bathhouse or in a darkroom is totally OK. These places are high-risk places and a bottom has to be very naive to believe the HIV status from some random horny guy who wants to breed him in one of these places. It's just common sense. First, why would anybody believe that a bottom who offers his hole to anonymous cocks at a bathhouse is HIV negative. Second, part of the fun of these places being able to live fantasies and for some fucking and breeding a negative hole is a huge turn-on.  Third, in the topic of fantasies, some HIV+ bottoms play the game of being HIV-neg, just another fetish. I have a sign that I use that says "HIV- HOLE" and sometimes hang it on the sling at the bathhouse. A few weeks ago a guy came into my room, he fucked me and bred my hole. He said "You'll have to change your sign" and left.

    In any other circumstances I would agree that stealthing is not OK, even when meeting through Grindr or other Apps. Don't paint all stealthings with the same brush.

     

    First of all, the very fact a guy says he's using a condom and then takes it off to stealth a guy is not cool. Secondly, having sex in a bathhouse or orgy or you being gangbanged carries an increased risk of you catching something, something any of us who considers ourselves cum dumps would realise, but not guys who are having sex with men for the first time and exploring their sexuality. I was one of those guys who was having fun when I got stealthed in an orgy where guys were to use condoms. I know, big fucking mistake to think every guy would agree to do that. But the guy that fucked me without one did so without my permission, and therefore he's a sociopath. And you also validated my point about stealthing. It's not the bugchasers I worry about. It's those young men who were misled into having sex with someone who ends up changing their life dramatically. And for the record, I don't think stealthing in a bathhouse or darkroom is ok. But it's far more likely to happen.

  9. On 2/26/2013 at 10:03 PM, Bttm2go said:

    When I bottom my goal is to please the guy fucking me. My hole is his to use and load as much as he wants. This did not happen overnight. I had to train my hole to be fucked for up to hours at a time. Some bottoms are not there yet. I would tell these bottoms to keep taking it and get your hole used to being fucked as long as the top wants. Long fucks are a lot of fun. As for cumming while getting fucked, I can count on one hand the times this has happened to me. I don't touch my cock while I'm getting fucked. My concentration is totally focused on the cock in my hole. The top can and should keep using me until he is satisfied. When I top I expect the same.

    Exactly, I feel a top fucking me should be able to keep fucking me even if I cum before he does, especially if he is about to cum. I'd rather satisfy him knowing I was useful to pleasing him than him stopping because I came, if I did cum tho, I'd beg him to keep going. 

  10. On 11/15/2015 at 12:52 AM, jtonic said:

    Unfortunately, gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis are easy to catch these days, compared to HIV. As a top, the most common infections are gono/chlam (infected through urethra), followed by throat gono if you perform oral. If you actively seek and enjoy bare sex like the rest of us, the truth is "you risk contracting the same or a new STI every time you have unprotected sex and/or have sex with someone who has that STI" (this is a quote straight from the CDC). Risk reduction methods for gay men like us mostly amount to the following :

     

    - choose your partner(s) more thoughtfully (hard to do if you attend sex parties and bathhouses)

    - openly discuss STI prevention with your partner(s)

    - get tested often, detect early, and treat immediately

     

    I think it's just something you need to get used to.

    It's the trade-off for having really hot/sleazy sex. 

    Whether the trade-off is worth it, or needs adjustment, is up to each person.

    I couldn't have said it better.

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  11. As someone who was stealthed before, I'm going to say fuck no. It's one thing if you're with a bug chaser who's into it and begs you to knock him up. It's another to ruin someone's life and infect them without their permission. And if you think stealthing is cool, then you're a sociopath.

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  12. For me, voting Trump in 2020 is like asking me to kill myself. Do any of you care about the things he and Pence are doing to Ryan White? Or promoting discrimination against LGBT people? Trump and Pence don't give a fuck about any of you, more so you aren't straight and don't follow their agenda strictly. Why torture yourselves.

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  13. 3 hours ago, Faggotuser said:

    Blindfolding is a good way to show a cumdump whore what it is for and that it doesn't matter what the men fucking them look like. Faggots exist to take mens loads and a true whore will let any man fuck it bareback and share its fuckhole with other men, even whore it out. Once a faggot gets used to getting fucked by literally ANY MALE, it can fulfil its purpose as a fuckhole.

    Thank you sir!!! You're right that a faggots' only purpose is to please real men. 

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