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I, for some reason produce copious amounts of this stuff.  In fact, I’ve never needed to use lube to get fucked, just spit and stick.  By copious, I literally mean that the floor will be wet under the sling, and the more turned on I get, the more I make.  And God help us if I’ve slammed, then I might as well have an internal j lube pump running nonstop.  For FF, I do use lube, but that’s the only time I don’t just rely on my mankuntsnot. 

Xanthan gum, melted crisco, clove oil, benzocaine 

I should add that I only use lube for FF, as I seem to naturally lube plenty well fucking.

Trust me, my nephew will never be homeless.  He knows that we will take him in at any time if it’s needed, but that means he has to cut strings with his life there, just as I did.  Not that we’d force him, just that it’s the only way he can be who he is.  I know from personal experience.  Unfortunately, after a quarter of a century, I’m being dragged back into it (family business) even though I fled 900 miles to get away.

I appreciate all the advice guys.  He is safe with my parents for right now, but he also knows that if he needs to leave, it can be arranged within an hour and that he is welcome here.

3 minutes ago, Bbpally said:

You say he can't move in with you and your partner because he has a huge truck payment and no experience....  Why does that stop him from moving in with you?   If it's financially, because you have a paying roomie right now, I get it.  If it's lease restrictions I get it.  But if it's because he won't be able to pay rent AND you two don't really need it.... That's a little messed up.   You may not want to commit to taking care of him, financially forever, but it sounds like you were in a toxic situation before and know what that looks and feels like, and the damage that can cause.  Intervene if you can because if you don't he will remember it.  

Set some guidelines.  Treat him like an adult, but an adult that needs to learn respect and responsibility.  Guide him and help him find a way out of the toxic family business.  And help him eventually find an apartment he will be able to afford on his own.  Even if that means letting the truck go to find something more affordable.  (That is a part of life after all).  And if he doesn't want the help, then you tried.  And he will remember that too.  

It’s not on our end.  We wouldn’t charge him rent at all, but between his truck payment and the insurance it comes to about $900 per month.  I advised him not to purchase said truck at his age.  He has never left the Deep South and we live 900 miles away in a city (where he lives, the nearest neighbor is miles away).  He’s going to have to walk away on his own, I want to help but at the same time I don’t want have all hell break loose.  We have invited him to come and stay for a week when he has some time off and see if he likes it.  If he can figure out his finances he knows he can stay here free.  At this point I just want him to at least have some privacy and to stop numbing his issues with alcohol and weed (both of which he has admitted to using in vast quantities over the last few months).  I guess my hope is that he will come stay a week and realize that he can have a life outside of the bubble he’s in.  Thanks for your opinion, I appreciate the advice.

This is not a sexual prurient post.  This is real life, and I need some advice.  I realize here might not be the best place, but I’ve seen plenty of good advice here through the years.  A few weeks ago my nephew came out, he’s 19 and an adult, so it’s his business.  The issue here is this: first, my brother put him out of the house (my parents are letting him stay with them); second, my brother runs the family business, and my nephew works there; finally, since the family business pays for his phone, my brother goes through it every week (he has no privacy).  He can’t move in with my partner and I because he has a huge truck payment and no work experience outside of the family business.  My question is how much should I intervene?  I’ve thought about getting him an iPad so that he could have some privacy.  Is that going too far?  I remember being 19, scared af, and in that toxic climate.  I hate to see him going through the same thing 25 years later.  Any ideas appreciated.

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Twice the viral load, half the time progress…

Does anyone else have multiple orgasms while taking a fist?  I literally can orgasm as often as every 5 or 10 minutes over and over again (stopping in between).  As in I can go far longer than any top can go… the other night a friend was working my cunt over and after the 5th orgasm he wanted me to jerk off and cum so that we could stop as his hand was wearing out.  And btw, these weren’t prostate based orgasms, he was about 3/4 of the way to his elbow and very little cum actually dripped out.  We’re doing this again next month and I have a friend with top of the line recording equipment, so everything will be taped.  It was a lot hotter than any FF I’ve ever seen in porn.

I usually make my own lube and I wonder if I adding cbd extract would be practical?

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You need a smaller cage… maybe a HT Nub or Nano…

Because it was how I was brought into this world (gay) as a late teen in the late 1990s.  Been barebacking my entire adult life.

This is honestly the most monogamous I have ever been in my life...

I get them pretty much every time the bf fucks me.  It’s what turned me into a cum loving bottom.  However, I was once being fisted by a friend, we were a bit fucked up, but I had what I can only describe as a whole body orgasm.  No load came out, but it went in waves for a good 5 minutes or more.  Even my buddy was shocked as he had never seen that happen, and he has been in the medical field for 2 decades.  Any light that any of y’all can shine on that would be nice.

I have had at least 5 known exposures (including 1 person I work closely with, like 3 feet or less) and have had absolutely nothing.

I would have to say that mine is better.  When we first got together my bf was poz and I was new (he just didn’t know it yet).  When he found out, it really bothered him that we were zero discordant.  So, I went and got myself pozzed.  Now, we fuck and just don’t care and it doesn’t bother him one bit.  I would say that our relationship is stronger now than before.

16 hours ago, tinyclitmuscle said:

Yes I am definitely into the dynamic. obviously from my profile pic you can see I'm a total beta.

Though I will say I have trouble finding guys who are able to truly dominate me. I'm very verbal and always try to encourage the alpha/Top to be rough and degrading with me... call me his faggot, cumdump, whore, slut.... etc

 

Also, I have my dick locked up and actually shrank it quite a bit. I have NEVER topped. I only get pleasure through my pussy.

love the dicotmy of being a total pussy bottom fag compared to a real man who actually gets hard and fucks cum whores like me

Same here.  Other than my bf, I haven’t found a guy who could really dominate me.  Usually, they are intimidated by my size.

17 minutes ago, drscorpio said:

If it would only take out the idiots, that might be a good thing. 

 

I understand the temptation to hookup. We are under stay-at-home in the whole state, but we have only a handful of cases in my rural area. Consequently, all the apps are full of guys ready to hookup - really ready - not waiting to see if a guy 2% hotter shows up in an hour. It's hard to resist when you haven't had sex in a month or more. But we have to. 

I live in the city (Milwaukee), but my summer job is managing a farm in a very rural area.  Since we have been furloughed from my main job, I have been out there doing things that I just never get to.  They have seen almost no COVID cases (20 in the whole county I think) and every damn day when I am there my apps freaking blow the fuck up.  They were ready to hook up like an hour ago.  Yesterday, had I taken them all up (none of which I did), I could have easily had 60 hookups in one day.  It’s absolutely insane!

2 minutes ago, rawTOP said:

Totally agree. It was when I saw him use the word "bitch" to describe the nurse that I knew he was the example of a true COVIDiot and needed to be called out. Every step in what he did just showed a complete lack of concern for other people. I don't really give a shit that it was hooking up. I'm equally upset with the fundamentalists who are still going to church. They're also stupid, possibly even bigger COVIDiots.

And to be clear your mention of "contact" is spot on. I do a fair amount of cycling and I see people online attacking people who are still cycling. Yes, for something like cycling you need to reduce the chance of  crash as much as possible. But done right, cycling can be a very low risk activity. To me it's about risk reduction, and that's the way it's similar to the AIDS pandemic.

I don’t know about going outside to bike in NYC, as your incidence rate as of yesterday was 8.8/1000, but here in Milwaukee it’s not a big deal, just stay 6 feet away.  Also, I agree about the idiot fundies.  It’s probably more dangerous to go to church with 50 people than to hook up with a guy or two every few days (at least statistically speaking).  Although I am advocating neither.

The bf and I fortunately saw this coming a few weeks before it did and stopped any outside activities, even with regulars.  Not that we exactly got around (I prefer our fucking to anything with another guy...  it’s hard to find guys that hardcore), but after the last week of February, we started limiting contact, etc.... Call it overkill ( yeah, we are the guys who bleach the groceries...) but I would rather not deal with this.  If that means no outside dick, then I can deal with that.

Has it not occurred to anyone posting here that absolutely zero (as in nothing) will be done about this that impedes the lifestyles of most people in 1st world nations?  Why?  Because if any legislation to combat "climate change" screws with people's lives ( causes more than a minor hindrence) the politicians that supported said legislation will be out on their asses come the next election, and we all know that a politician loves nothing more than being re-elected.  I say let's pass the "Green New Deal" and let the prices of everything skyrocket (probably more than double here in the US).  And when people are freezing in their homes, can't afford gasoline, and have to get by eating much less, the far left "climate change" lunatics will be banished from power for a generation or more.  We all have seen what happens when politicians willfully ignore a large portion, if not a majority, of the population (see 2019 British election results if you need a refresher).  Sorry, but the majority of us have no desire to live in a shithole country, and frankly neither do the people that do.  Only cheap energy will continue to lift them out of poverty.

1 minute ago, Grey said:

The delusional homos in here talking about how much better off the economy is and how they're personally better off under Trump as if he's not literally trying to protect the right to fire y'all for being gay... Whew!

Thank you coastal elite for telling us how to vote.  Anyone who advocates the Green New Deal, Medicare for All, etc... need to just focus on the coastal elites, cause we will not vote them in.  We may not like Trump, but he is not condescensing af.

On 10/28/2019 at 8:05 AM, hungandmean said:

Oh my god you literally just announced, "I'm white, and generally well off enough to feel like this doesn't and shouldn't affect me - and i've worked really fucking hard SO FUCK THOSE PEASANTS! How dare I have had to work hard while all these fucking losers reap the benefits of my hard work!!"

You literally couldn't have proven my point any more. You're a ridiculous piece of shit... and if you think for a fucking moment that Pence (Who created the largest HIV outbreak since the AIDS crisis) or Devoss (Who thinks gay kids deserved to be bullied in school) or any of these fucking people in his admin are on your side you're as STUPID AS YOU PROVED YOURSELF TO BE.

Futhermore: Identity politics? Youre fucking gay. Youre GAAYYYY. Youre a whole ass fucking faggot on a message board online that is on the fringe. You aren't on fucking Grindr. You're FUCKING QUEER and thats the identity these fuckers are going to see even if you think the house you own or your semi new truck will convince these bigots otherwise.

 

Your absolute hatred for me is pretty typical of the lgbt mafia.  Either toe the line they say, or else.  It might surprise you, but between 25 and 30 percent of gay men regularly vote Republican.  Frankly, your side ( the far left, not regular liberals) has treated those of us who wonder off the Democratic plantation worse than any conservative ever has.  I certainly am not aiming at changing your mind, but a little respect goes a long way.  I would never address anyone like your side does on a regular basis.  I will let you keep blathering, as it's clear to anyone who can read who is the sensible one here and who is the rude, disrespectful, and childish asshole.  

6 hours ago, hungandmean said:

I mean...  I cannot stand Trump... he employs people who want to kill gays and he like supports regimes and shit that murder babies but do you know what I cant stand more than murdered babies?? Fucking socialists. Thats just a bridge to fucking far for me -- a reasonable individual.

Literally you could have just responded with, "I'm white and reasonably well off, so I don't really think all the worst of the shit (Pence, Barr, Devoss, and literally dozens of other people in his admin who hate gay people) will effect me so... like fuck those poor people. Why should I pay more taxes for some peasant to get dental???? Fucking freeloaders. Its just insanity. My hands are tied here guys... 

 

 

 

Love the identity politics you seem to hold dear.  I am a white guy, my husband and I are reasonably okay (not well off, but own our house, new car truck every few years...)  Mr. Trump has no issues with gays at all.  Hell, the man is a New York socialite who runs in circles full of gays.  His policies have increased my pay check and increased the amount of money my side business clears as well.  The Democrats all want to send my taxes sky rocketing, as much as $6000 per year.  I don't have $500 per month to just give away to fund the green dream or whatever it is.  I have worked every fucking day of my life since I was 15 years old for what I have and I will be damned if I am going to give it away to someone who refuses to help himself.  Again, I don't care for Mr. Trump, but frankly the alternative is much worse.

I honestly cannot stand Mr. Trump, but it seems the Democrats are hell bent on nominating a Marxist/Socialist, which I will never vote for, so I guess that my choice has been made for me.  I didn't vote for Trump in '16 (even though I am a life long Republican) but othr than Mr. Biden, it seems that the Democrats are going to force me to vote for Trump by nominating a nutjob like Warren or Sanders.  Its not what I wish, but I will never support a socialist.