jamie6369

Agreed - I hate deodorant/antiperspirant. I love to smell sweaty.

Unfortunately, society seems to be the opposite 😪

I hold my hands-up, this is like 90% off-topic!

I'm looking for football players in the Lincoln area, I organise a friendly, all inclusive, kick about. Currently Wednesday evenings.

We have male/female/trans/young/old/gay/straight with various abilities from crap (me) to quite good.

Just looking for more players - chances of finding someone to breed are fairly slim.

Also Lincoln has a gay rugby team - nothing to do with me, just thought I'd mention it if any anyone was interested.

If we are going to do a group meeting / chat type of thing - what would everyone prefer - a pub, or somewhere more private like my living room?

I wonder if we could arrange a group meeting - not necessarily for anything sexual, more a coffee-morning type of chat, just to meet and make friends.

I'm just going to pop-in here and say it's nice to see that there is life in this County of ours 💗

A little way from Nottingham, but Brough rest area on the A46 near Newark is supposed to be a popular spot

Hiya - nice to hear from someone else in Lincolnshire.

I'm in Lincoln itself.

I've been caned a few times, and spanked.

I would like to experience one of those paddles with the hole in. They look "interesting" 😂

Here in Lincoln (UK) there is one "Gay bar" - it's actually a LGBTQ Night Club although most of the patrons are indeed straight.

It is a great venue, everyone is so accepting, there's an excellent atmosphere and gay/straight/trans happily mix and chat.

Since last March, they have had virtually no revenue, they did open briefly between lockdowns 1 and 2, music was quiet, table service, reduced people inside etc, it didn't really work as a pub, but people went to support them (sadly, I only made it there once).

They have missed their "big" days - Lincoln Pride, Halloween, Christmas, New Year, even Easter they did special nights (giving away Easter Eggs, although weird after several double Vodka and Coke, everyone still ate them!) .

IF it was forced to close, it would probably not reopen as a night club, and Lincoln would lose it's only truly gay venue. 

To be honest, they have made it this far and the end is hopefully insight

Boxer trunks, with footy shorts on top, then usually trackies.

I added the extra layer with the footy shorts, it helps to keep everything warm down there when in chastity.

@JamieWbike

More of an amusing anecdote - I'm actively looking for crabs - yea, I know it's mad, but it's a fetish I have to itch 🤣

Anyway, I've basically stuck it on all my kinky profiles everywhere. I got a message from a lad that went along the lines of

"if you get them, will you sleep with my cheating ex-boyfriend, he deserves them, he'll sleep with anyone"

I was never sure if the last bit was about the boyfriend, or that I'm old and ugly! 🤣🤣

That's weird, the link seems to work on my phone, but not on the PC.

Here is the link hopefully it'll work. :

[think before following links] https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B001BAWCEU/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_A8RHS1ADG48TQKNHZAAG

Being a curious little ****, I was wondering if all the Chinese chastity devices with the hidden barrel type locks all shared the same key (the images on eBay and Amazon tend to have keys that all look the same)

Anyway, I came across a German version of the lock which, judging by the key, looks more secure. It looks like one of the uses of the lock is to put into a standard deadlock type of lock to prevent the deadlock being used. I guess if a house is repossessed or something.

Here's the link:
Amazon

Just thought I'd share, someone might find it useful.

Well, this was taken this week (Monday 25 Jan) and I've been locked since 22nd September.

I've been locked since September, and I am sure mine is beginning to shrink.

I'm not doing anything special - just same cage. I have seen how some keep changing the cages to smaller ones as time progresses, although I have no experience of this.

I did have a lad boot me in the nuts before I sucked him off. 

It was my idea, and he was well up for it, for me (and I told him) it seemed "right" that my balls would be screaming in pain as his were giving him so much pleasure. 

He really booted me, when I got to my knees, he was as hard as a rock (and grinning) and quickly rammed his dick in my mouth. He came really quickly, but pulled out and dumped his load down my boxers.  He made some comment I didn't really hear, but it was something like "here's my cum, after that nutting, you won't be wanking soon"  - I think it was something like that. 

I've been into not really CBT, more just the BT since puberty I think. 

Not really into wax or stuff, but like receiving a good old fashioned kick or knee will do. Had a lad put on a latex glove once and massage a load of Deep Heat (Ben Gay) into my balls - he then ordered me not wash it off for an hour 🙂

I'm quite happy to give as well as take. 

Locked in chastity atm, so daren't take any hits, but am craving a bit of ball pain 🤣

On 12/19/2020 at 1:12 AM, LDNbttm said:

Sometimes they happen to block you the moment you ring on the doorbell. 

I've met a couple of times the same lad, each time he goes, he seems to delete Grindr completely. Then a couple of weeks later he pops up with a new account. 

8 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

I think some guys get off on the fantasy, but when you arrive at their door, it suddenly becomes reality and they're not really ready for it. Sometimes they've popped their load already on the idea.  Sometimes what they describe and project of themselves may not be close to reality, so they act out like it's your fault when they get close to being revealed. I've had Grindr meets give me the address of the house on the opposite side of the street so they can check me out first.

 

I just got the feeling it was some kind of dodgy set-up from the beginning. I always had that "this ain't right" thought in the back of my mind. When things went wrong, it didn't really surprise me, what did surprise was his "verbal" attack - or more accurately, why bother with the verbal attack. 

I guess it's a classic case of, if it doesn't feel right, stay away! 

Probably not the place to put this, but I feel like "a problem shared" (can't remember the rest!)

Anyway, Grindr - been "talking" to a guy - seemed not quite right from the start, claimed he had crabs for a few weeks. They were itchy, so that all added up. 

Finally gave me his address and arranged a time (like 30 minutes ago) he was he was home alone. I got there, not a single light on in the house and two cars on the drive. I sent him a "here" message and hung around like a drug dealer on the street corner for 5 minutes before deciding it was a con. 

I got a message about 5 minutes after that saying he didn't hear me knock on the door. I explained my concerns, and was then met with a ton of abuse saying I kissed kids, was a paedo and a whole host of other crap. I did point out he was acting exactly as I had suspected he would and after a couple more abusing messages blocked him. 

What I can't comprehend is why he invested so much time over several days messaging back and forth??  Perhaps he lives locally and knows his neighbour is a complete nutter if people wake him up, or something. I really can't understand why he went to so much trouble to keep messaging. 

Sorry to have vented all this just here! 

Just a quick update as I've had the odd message asking how things are going. 

Much to most peoples amusement, I am still locked - it's been 12 weeks now without cuming. I am still looking for crabs (even if the fetish disappeared, my keyholder is not going to return my keys until he "sees plenty" of crabs in my bush!). 

Literally all my profiles everywhere in the kink community basically say "gimme crabs" - Grindr is good for a giggle, it appears quite a few have had them (passed tense) and would willingly share - although one user said I should be shot! 

lol - I'm not giving up, I can't get my chastity keys back until keyholder "sees plenty" in my pubes! 

Nope - I've now been locked for over 9 weeks. 

I'm searching and basically advertising. I keep getting guys on grindr claiming they have them, but then asking for money. 

So, I'm still locked and looking. (and willing to travel to get them!) 

I'm not into backsides at all, but I do prefer a sweaty dick to suck - soapy just out of the shower doesn't taste nice, give me just off the footy pitch sweaty, much preferred