jamie6369

5 hours ago, melvin0095 said:

I have just taken the plunge and used my first cage.   Had it on  few hours a day the last week.  So far love it.

Always good to hear - build up your time then try and stay locked for a week. LOL after that, you'll be wondering to yourself "perhaps I could stay locked for xxx" 

9 months is a long time. I did 26 weeks a few years ago. 

Yesterday was my 8 weeks of being locked up. 

I still don't think I am any nearer to being unlocked, but who knows, it only takes one message from an itchy guy. 

I've been locked in this since Sept 22 (2020) and it's staying locked until I get crabs 🙂 

22 hours ago, RubyRoo said:

why do you want crabs?

I really don't know why. It's a crazy fetish that I "need" to do - more so now I'm locked in chastity until I get them. It's been 6 weeks without cuming and I really am horny af 😂😂😂😂

I guess the title of the thread says it all. 

I've probably annoyed everyone for occasionally asking if anyone has crabs, well, it has been decided as an incentive, to keep me locked in chastity until I get them. 

I last cum 22nd September 2020, so it has already been 10 days and I am nice and horny (probably why I agreed to this!) 

Travel - hell yea, to get this thing off my dick, I'll travel to get them! I'm in Lincoln, roughly in the middle of England, but if the donor is in London, that won't be a problem, although it may take a couple of days for me to work things out (work wise) 

I don't care who the donor is, old/young, fat/thin, rich/poor, black/white, male/female - just pull a few off and lob them into my pubes! 

I'm not particularly interested in sex - I'm like 99% fetish driven, leaving the remaining 1% for the odd dick I occasionally suck. 

Normally once a day, somedays two or three times. 

I seem as horny as I was when I was in my twenties (now late 40s) , looking back, I can see I was hornier in my teens (I'd have  wank before work, in the evenings, and quite often an extra one during my lunch break!) 

Having said all that, I haven't cum in about 9 days as I'm trying out a new chastity device. 

I really to turn into a want-to-please-sub after a few days without wanking. I have had this week off work and spent most of it looking at various porn/fetish websites! 

I have been looking for crabs for absolutely ages, I get lots of "I had them" types of messages, but it seems very hard to find anyone with them currently. 

Anyway, I am off work next week - Monday 14th to Friday 18th so will travel to get them (I've twisted my ankle playing football last night, but can still just about drive!) 

I am not bothered if I get them off you, or a mate, or off a mate of a mate. I don't care if gay or straight, I'm fine if the donor just wants to pull a few off himself, stick them in a Maccies ketchup paper-cup thing, then I'll dump them into my pubes. 

I'm based in Lincoln, but to definitely get them, I will travel a decent distance (idk, roughly 150 miles)

I know it is just a "minor" STD/STI compared to what others seek, but I've got to start somewhere

I hate the taste of soap, I don't know what they put in the stuff, but I can smell and taste it like 8pm at night, after someone had a morning shower and been at work all day. 

I'd rather suck his dick after a workout at the gym.  (Even better if he makes me wear his sweaty boxers for a week!) 

I understand nervousness, and in the past have backed out and made excuses when things haven't "felt" right, although when I did back out, it was before anyone started travelling. 

Grindr makes me laugh, loads of I'll do this, I'll do that, then as soon as I say that I can host a meeting, they go quiet or even on occasion, block me! Then again, I use my profile as an advert for my weird fetishes, so probably not getting messages from the most reliable users! 

I now always ask for a face photo. People who will show you what they look like (even in a private message) seem more reliable. 

On 8/7/2020 at 10:16 AM, ftmbristolukfun said:

about an hours drive for me. I cant physically do much longer 

An hour isn't bad, 40 miles, around here (East Midlands) that will get you to several large cities. 

I agree with Ranger Rick - traffic is an issue, tbh, if a mate asks for a lift across town at 5pm, it might be 3-4 miles, but it will take over an hour for the round trip!

Andy - I think you are right with people who have what they want on their doorsteps, I guess spoiled/lazy - I don't want to insult anyone, I'd probably be the same. I have certainly come across people who travel from Lincoln to Nottingham, small city to bigger city, but don't think I have ever come across people flowing in the opposite direction. 

I also agree with you in the old saying "A mans word is his bond" - if I say I will be somewhere, then I will be. I know in the past, I have agreed to meet in fairly public places and the person I'm supposed to be meeting has had one look at me and decided I'm not his type and walked straight past! I am not bothered about someone not liking when they see in person, but don't be rude, just say I'm not doing anything for them! One person a few years ago agreed to meet, and when we did, actually said I was too old for him - which was, in a way nice he took the time to say sorry, but on the other hand, my photos tend to be fairly up to date and my age was on whatever profile he saw. 

I agree with a plan B - I went to Sheffield last year to meet someone, oddly they pulled out at the last minute due to something, but I like Sheffield, I went to Uni there, so it was a good chance to have a wonder around and see how the place had changed over the last 10 years or so. 

On a positive note - many people have done the meet half-way thing, it's sometimes a little "Well, now we're here in the M1 services, where do we go that's a little quieter?" when neither of us know the local area. 

Meeting people is nearly always a positive experience, even if it just for a chat and coffee. 

I guess in many ways, you get out of a meeting, what you put into a meeting. 

As for accommodating a meeting - yes I can, but people seem to go all quiet when I say I can accommodate. It's like many people want to, but get frightened at the thought of going to someones house. 

Idk, I think I've waffled on too much here with my random thoughts! 

I always get the impression here in the UK, that we think 50 miles is the end of the earth and way too far away. 

I live in Lincoln - many people here seem to think it is some sort of massive trip going to Nottingham (40 miles, about an hour drive)

I have had quite a few "it's a shame you're so far away" comments (admittedly, not on BZ) from people that I consider quite close. 

A good few years ago (late 1990's) I drove down to Burnham on Crouch in Essex for a caning, it wasn't a problem (although the seat was really warm on the way back!). 

So, is it distance or time the journey takes? How far would be deemed reasonable. For me, roughly a 50 mile radius, I wouldn't really hesitate about doing. 

Oh that doesn't sound good BottlomLad - I hope things get sorted out soon and that you are ok.  ❤️

So glad you are getting the treatment you need BottomLad - I more coming to the opinion that it was the press running a scare story that the cancer treatment was suspended. It didn't make much sense when I heard it, I thought there should be somewhere they could isolate from the rest of the hospital for such treatments. 

I saw just the lad the other day - dropped a mate off on the local council estate, saw this lad with his hands down his trackies. When I drove past the One Stop shop a few minutes later, he was outside still scratching.  If he was a couple of years older, I would have been tempted to stop and ask! (Now that would be an interesting conversation 😅)

It really did seem a bit extreme to cancel cancer treatment, hopefully it was one of those news stories that was something like a one-off, in one hospital, on one day, then the press blew it out of proportion. 

I guess, all I have to do, instead of stakeout the sex clinic, is linger about the pharmacy in Sainsbury's and listen carefully for the pharmacist recommending Lyclear or Derbac - dam social distancing, I'll be too far away!! LOL 😄😢 

I guess the subject says it all 🤣

I was literally having a chat to a mate about how even cancer treatment was suspended (not sure if it still is), but we then took a tangent and wondered if the Sexual Health clinics were shut. 

LOL - I must admit, I'm half tempted to camp outside and look for lads scratching like crazy - I still have not found anyone to give me Crabs 😢

Wish I knew about Crabs - I've been trying to get some for ages. 

I tried chastity a few years ago (seems like not long ago, but about 5 years!) mainly for my own curiosity. I wanted to experience it. 

In the end I was locked for 26 weeks in a plastic cage. The first 3 months were with an ex as keyholder, but there is a reason he's an ex, we generally piss each other off after a while. So for the last 3 months, I had access to the keys, which was quite handy, as the knock-off CB6000 fell apart and I had to hold it together with zip-ties for a couple of days. 

For me, the hornyness didn't decrease like some report. I was insanely horny - it felt great. I also developed a couple of fetishes which disappeared as soon as I started wanking again. 

One thing I did do, was suck more dick while locked. Several of those I sucked remarked how good it was that they didn't have to return the favour after they had cum (which I never need or want anyway, my dick being in someones mouth just doesn't do anything for me). 

For me a plastic cage was of great comfort - I knew I could get it of if I needed to. I often wonder if metal would have had more of a mental effect on me. 

I did some videos at the time and put them on xTube - they are still there as far as I know, just stick jamie6369 into the search box if your interested in having a look at the 45 seconds it took me to cum once released! 

I do like some spit - it's odd, it tends to vary in taste.

I love to see the wicked glint in the eye and grin after a guy has spit in my mouth for the first time (their first time spitting), its like they have discovered something new, and it's something new that they like doing. 

Very horny - I came in about 45 seconds when unlocked!! 

There's an xTube video of my releasing myself, then, erm, releasing myself 😂

If you're interested, just head over to xTube and put jamie6369 in the search box, I did a few videos when locked. 

I'm now more interested in locking others..... 

Are you still locked? 

I once did 26 weeks in chastity

I've been looking to get crabs for ages. I really want to experience them. 

If anyone in the UK has a few spare ...... 

Not sure I know how to do it properly - I get reactions from "fantastic" to "it's not working. "

But a dick in my mouth and i'm happy!