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On 4/1/2024 at 10:27 AM, EuRawBull said:

It seems that you have already figure out your next move. Good luck then and hope it all turns out an awesome time 😉 

No , no decision and I think it will all eventually remain like that. I didn t write back though he sometimes is connected... I hope it works out for him. His body and cock deserve it 😆

17 minutes ago, EuRawBull said:

Why don't you save all the chats with him and also ask him to send you a clear photo of him, face, full body with a hard cock in his hand. This way you also have a means of blackmailing him if he threatens to expose you. If he is 'straight' or if he wants to pass as 'straight' he would be more afraid of being exposed than you do. If he doesn't send you the naked photos, then you know for sure that he is afraid of being outed and you have the upper hand.  

Try to play a bit coy: 'Yes, master, I will do everything you want me to do but I need to know you are real and not some fake profile'.  You can also, agree to meet him in a public place, preferably by a supermarket where you normally go shopping. You can casually walk by the meeting place with a bag of groceries in your hand and pretend that you are surprised to meet him there. Ask him to sit down for a coffee. But do NOT reveal your identity. And don't take your phone with you. This way he cannot track your location in any way.  Once you sit down for a coffee ask him for his life, see what he's up to. Like good cousins that you are.  You are sub, I get it, but you gotta take control of the situation if you want him badly.

I didn't understand from your posts if your cousin knows that you are gay. If he knows and you are out to the family, then you definitely are in a better controlling position than he is. As I said, he would not want to reveal his identity if he's not out. He may be gay, gay for pay, bi, etc. But if he's offering himself on Wapo he's not str8 either.

At the end of the day, you gotta talk to him without outing yourself or putting him in a position where he feels threatened or exposed.  Try to be good to him. He may be a jerk, he may not be financially successful, he may have fathered thee kids, but he's probably desperate to get some money. If you're playing your cards right, this could be a win-win situation.

But, from what I read on this thread so far, you are still controlling the situation. Don't lose that control by revealing your identity at this stage. Maybe later. 

My family knows I m gay but not that kind of gay... Plus I m not really a family guy... It s more the kind of it all and the fear that he might make fun of me... He won t show his face I ve tried already.

If I decide myself for something I will sett up a meeting at my place and see what happens when he sees me. I have to accept what I am an and what turns me on and that s all.

What holds me back to write to him again is that in the last messages it was like he started to hint he knows me. One of my pics reveals a bit of my face.

12 hours ago, JockstrapBottom said:

I agree with most of comments on here: HUGE red flag and you should avoid this situation. Have a serious self-discussion, rub out a load to get that post-nut clarity, then ask yourself why are you considering this? Is it the [banned word] fantasy of a relative? Do you want to submit fully to a dom top for a hate fuck? If it's the second, take charge tops are around and more that happy to oblige you.

From your original post, we sound similar: middle-age bottom, submissive, successful in our everday life but want someone to take charge of us even for a short time. I've had 2 great experiences with dom tops so far this spring: older guy I've played with on a few occassions who knows what gets me going; and a random 20-something driving a crappy souped up sportscar who hate- fucked my throat and ass while telling me how worthless I was. Luckily he matched that attitude with a huge cock and one of the largest loads I've ever taken.

Walk away from your "straight" cousin, lots of dom tops around without the strings, the risk, or having to pay. I bet blackmailing you to pay for his silence with family or your employer would be his next move.

Thanks for the advice but the first part won t do it foe me as I m into chastity, no full orgasms and so very few ruined ones. I m totally craving to get used like quite all the time. 

I see a lot of similarities between us though. The fantasy here has nothing to do with the family thing, It could have been any other guy I know and despize.

But I m taking all the advices cause I know it s a crazy situation.

13 minutes ago, Iker80 said:

So what's really got you attracted to him? Is he that good at saying the right things to your sub wants? The risk of it? Or because he's a cousin? Or something else? I figure that knowing what's got you so in to him is the thing that will teach you about yourself and what turns you on. If you've got to follow this idea though is a different question. You can learn about yourself from this with or without him from now on. Carrying on talking to him is a type of following this though, even if you never meet. It comes with some risk.

Anyway, sounds like the general opinion here is don't do it. These guys are probably a lot wiser than me. I sometime get in to things and wonder later why I did that. Not saying I don't have fun, but sometimes it isn't as fun as I imagined. All I can say is when I take a chance with something that's part of why it's exciting, but I go in to it knowing it might go badly and I'm accepting that from the start.

It s exactly that : he tells me what my sub self wants to hear. Plus I ve always been the smarter one and succesful one. Know it drives me crazy to find out that a douche like him could basically have me on my knees and begging... 

People are probably right saying don t do it and and certainly won t, but I get what you say at the end of your comm cause I m the same : I didn t always make the wisest modes when it comes to getting fucked.

10 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Nothing good, as I see it.  Unless you have a "Savior" complex (which almost never has the intended outcome), I'd avoid him completely.  I've read and re-read your post, and see no reason whatsoever to maintain any sexual contact at all.  If, in the future, you run across him in some "family-type" situation, and if he makes any kind of comment regarding your online contact, I would deny it, tell him he's mistaken, and move on to some other cousin.  

Chances are virtually nil that you can "save" him, particularly given the family connection.  Look to your own emotional health.  That's something you definitely can do.  Just because you're 'shirt-tail" relatives doesn't mean you owe him your involvement.  Concentrate on your own future, your own goals, what you want out of life. 

My best wishes to you, as you navigate this sorry situation.

Ever the kind, gentle soul, aren'tcha?  There aren't enough guys like you around, and too many like me .... 

No, not pretending to save him at all, I don t eeally care about him. It s just this dom sub crazy situation and the risk of it which turns me on. But you are all probably right:  too much possoble complication ahead for not so much of a good time in the end.

14 hours ago, Opensesame said:

Is there any chance he would start blackmailing you if he figured out who you are? sounds like he’s hungry for money and will do anything to get it. 

I don t think so, but still I don t know him that good. He d probably have a good laugh though...

10 hours ago, WillingRawVerse said:

Instead of a blindfold, how about a mask with eye, nose, and mouth holes?  

Playing with family can be sketchy. Played with my older cousin when I was younger. He probably doesn't ever think about it, but I do quite often. Thinking and wondering how big his cock is and how it would feel good in my cunthole. However, I know that it would be a terrible idea, no matter how hot it sounds. Personally, I'd back away and block him. For your future sanity.

That happened to me too with another one when I was way younger.

I know you re probably right but I still find the whole situation so hot. Can t stop thinking about him though I really used to despise him before all this. It s not like we have any contactbof anything, we haven t talked in years and we re really not close family. Don t live in the same country... 

17 hours ago, Iker80 said:

Sounds hot. Knowing how 'straight guys' are I bet he'd vanish if he found out you know it's him. I'd say come over to my place and I'll be blindfolded and lying face down on the bed waiting for you. Make it clear you want to keep the blindfold on the entire time so he feels more confident there's not going to be some unexpected reveal while he's nuts deep in you. No guarantee he won't scarper when he knows it's you, but I bet he'll top. He wants hole and cash. Well, that's what I'd do if he's just a horny douche, but if you think he's actually sketchy in some way then I'd block him. Sketchy guys might be hot but it's not worth it if they get weird. Anyway, these straight guys are twitchy, you'll probably need to keep up the whole thing like you have no idea who he is so he doesn't freak out and shut everything down. Even if you meet ten times don't let on you know it's him.

Thank you for your answer.

So he d know who I am and that I m a slut who pays to get fucked but I "would have no idea" who he is ?

Sound hot because I didn t like him before and I m tottally obsessed with him and his power now.

Problems : I never did blindfold, don t know if I m comfortable with that, and I m definitely not ok with paying...

But I can t stop thinking about it and him.  I fought the whole day not to write to him.

Quick introduction :

I m 47 bottom guy, I ve told a lot about some life changing experiences on this site but now I have to tell you another story that just happend and which has me wondering about myself.

This monday, on some spanish dating app (Wapo), as I was traveling, I came accross the profile of a guy, nice body, great dick, avertising himself as straight but up to fucking some fag as his girlfriend is not into rough sex. He was quite agressive in his way of talking about gays and was looking for holes, nothing else.

I had a feeling that some pictures looked familiar...

We chatted a bit, he asked some photos. He liked my style and ass, the fact that I was obeying pleased him, too. I sent him a pic were my face appears partly, though not easily recognizable (I never do that).

At some point, I lost interest cause he asked for money as he uses gays only to make some cash but that it'd be worth it as he'd fuck me good, he knows what slut daddies like me want, we re up to anyhthing blah blah blah... We went on chatting cause he was turning me on but I had already made my mind : I was mot paying.

And that s when he wrote : looking at your picture again, you remind me of someone. D you have a clear facepic ?

In a second, it hit me ! The pics that loomed familiar were from Facebook but with a blurred face ! It s a cousin of mine !  Daniel ! The stupidest guy in my family ! No job, no money, no education, nothing ! All he s done in his life are some bartending extras in some beach bars and laying the girls ! He is 37 and has 3 kids with 2 different girls but no money ! 

I was in schock ! I was totally turned on by this douche and affraid he would recongnize me.

I had told him about the cage, me as a sissy, me as a cumslut,... everything in order to convince him I was the right choice for a superior straight guy like him to make ! And there is this photo were my face partly appears ! 

I stopped the chat.

Since monday I only think of him ! Totally obsessed. What can happen ? Can he recognize me ? I d love that and I fear that at the same time ! Would I pay him ? Would he still fuck me ?

I m totally lost...

Anyone ever experienced some similar situation ?

22 minutes ago, Bottom Jim said:

I would have stopped when asked for money. I have had several guys hit me up and after a few minutes ask me if I was generous? When I say no that ends it

I usually do the same. Here the fact that I know him and sslee him in a different way just has me totally hooked 

Quick introduction :

I m 47 bottom guy, I ve told a lot about some life changing experiences on this site but now I have to tell you another story that just happend and which has me wondering about myself.

This monday, on some spanish dating app (Wapo), as I was traveling, I came accross the profile of a guy, nice body, great dick, avertising himself as straight but up to fucking some fag as his girlfriend is not into rough sex. He was quite agressive in his way of talking about gays and was looking for holes, nothing else.

I had a feeling that some pictures looked familiar...

We chatted a bit, he asked some photos. He liked my style and ass, the fact that I was obeying pleased him, too. I sent him a pic were my face appears partly, though not easily recognizable (I never do that).

At some point, I lost interest cause he asked for money as he uses gays only to make some cash but that it'd be worth it as he'd fuck me good, he knows what slut daddies like me want, we re up to anyhthing blah blah blah... We went on chatting cause he was turning me on but I had already made my mind : I was mot paying.

And that s when he wrote : looking at your picture again, you remind me of someone. D you have a clear facepic ?

In a second, it hit me ! The pics that loomed familiar were from Facebook but with a blurred face ! It s a cousin of mine !  Daniel ! The stupidest guy in my family ! No job, no money, no education, nothing ! All he s done in his life are some bartending extras in some beach bars and laying the girls ! He is 37 and has 3 kids with 2 different girls but no money ! 

I was in schock ! I was totally turned on by this douche and affraid he would recongnize me.

I had told him about the cage, me as a sissy, me as a cumslut,... everything in order to convince him I was the right choice for a superior straight guy like him to make ! And there is this photo were my face partly appears ! 

I stopped the chat.

Since monday I only think of him ! Totally obsessed. What can happen ? Can he recognize me ? I d love that and I fear that at the same time ! Would I pay him ? Would he still fuck me ?

I m totally lost...

Anyone ever experienced some similar situation ?

Got a text from Sam last night, out of the blue, more than 2 years since I last sucked him off.

Are you up?

Yes.

Can I come?

Yes.

Less than half an hour later he was fucking my throat, insulting me, thrn jerked off pulling my hair before plunging his dick again down my throat to cum like crazy.

I thanked him and he left.

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On 7/27/2023 at 4:41 PM, Big8Atl said:

I have a big thick cock and have used the apps for many years with great success to find cocksuckers looking for regulars to suck off.  I have lived in hub cities for airlines and believe me there are lots of hot good looking gay flight attendants who are on layovers and are waiting in hotel rooms to suck big cock, also waiters who work dinner shift in fancy restaurants - they are available during the work day, a good many of them looking to hook up.  It is awesome to have a high sex drive, to be able to open the app and see who is looking right now.  And for many many years my work time lunch hour was getting sucked off by some extremely talented cocksucker eager for my big load!  

It s natural you have plenty of cocksuckers at disposal : you re a hung top. 

I know in my town there are far less feeders than cocksuckers, so we re all on call, waiting to be chosen by them.

It s cool and.what matters to me is that the tops get what they need.

To answer the question of the topic I d say the best way to find men who love their dick sucked on a regular basis is to try and be as available as possible, to put you heart into serving them and not to flake out.

There is competition so be the best and the most convenient cocksucker you can.

I wrote a about him a lot in other posts : Mohamed, a 50 smthng arab taxi driver, married and father of 2 or 3 kids.

He picked me up one night in his cab and saw my potential.

He really changed me from the bottom boy next door looking for love that I was to the (sissy) cumdump that I am now.

Forever thankful to him.

I hope he s doing fine.

On 5/22/2023 at 7:13 AM, blackfeeder said:

You're a bottom. How did you become one?

I didn t become one. I was bornes one. Never thought of anything else.

On 5/4/2023 at 2:36 PM, Nutzdeez212 said:

As a Black feeder, I only let white fags suck me off. I've had a couple of Black guys suck my dick and Latino. Idk man something about it just doesn't sit right with me but white men sucking me off just feels right.

As a white cocksucker I would like to thank you

On 5/4/2023 at 9:58 AM, blackfeeder said:

Do you have a racial preference as far as cocks you suck?

I m black and arab only 

On 7/2/2023 at 3:29 PM, Bimarried001 said:

Lol. Nice try but a massage is not sex. A blow job is sex. My perspective is if you have sex (oral, anal, hand job, anything) with the someone of the same sex you are gay or bi. 

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On 5/4/2023 at 2:24 PM, Nutzdeez212 said:

Exactly. Letting a faggot suck you off does NOT make you gay or even bi. By his logic letting a man massage you is gay too. It's the same thing except the fag is massaging your dick with his mouth!

You re totally right. Some of you don t even look at the fag. It s only about feeling good, relaxing and having your balls emptied.

Something similar happened to me...

On 5/5/2023 at 10:26 PM, topblkmale said:

My Grindr app fills up with bottoms sending me random ass pics.

 

I seriously doubt bottoms on Grindr are overrun with dick pics from tops.

You re so right 

As a true bottom per nature, I wouldn t have sex anymore without wearing my cage. I will always be thankful to the man that got me into it.

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