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13 hours ago, ErosWired said:

A couple of things.

A) You’re asking this question on a site whose focus is the promotion of bareback sex, so you should not expect most responses to give your question serious thought. Most are simply going to tell you that bareback is the only way, there’s nothing to be afraid of, once you do it you’ll never want anything else, etc. It’s like walking into a cathedral and asking whether you should worship God or the devil - you’re pretty much going to get one answer (here, people mostly consider condoms the work of the devil).

B) Almost any bareback Top will tru to seduce you to want to go bare in some way or another. This guy is just being refreshingly honest. Get used to it.

C) Your body belongs to you. You are the one who gets to decide how far you’ll go to keep it safe, and how much risk you’re willing to take. If you insist on protected sex, that should be the final word. You do not have to succumb to attempts at seduction. If you stand your ground, a bareback Top may decline to fuck you, and you should be prepared for that. If you stand your ground and he forces you to take him raw, that’s a rape.

D) Bareback sex is not a safe activity, and cannot be made 100% free from risk of contracting HIV or other STDs. Before you contemplate taking someone bare, you should prepare your body to the greatest extent possible by getting vaccinated for all STDs for which vaccines are available, getting on PrEP and using it as directed, and make sure you are tested regularly - this is a necessary part of playing in the bareback arena. Then, if you are infected, get prompt treatment. If you choose to have bareback sex, you will ultimately have STDs. But you treat them and carry on with life.

E) Willpower. Should you meet this man who plans to make you drop your resistance via seduction? How much willpower do you have? Me, I’m stubborn as a team of mules when I set my mind to something, and you can seduce me all you want but it’s not going to change my mind. If you know you don’t really want to go bare but aren’t sure you have the willpower to resist his seduction, then no, you probably shouldn’t go - he may very well prevail and breed you. If, on the other hand, you actually kind of do want to take it bare and you’re only asking this question because you want someone to validate a decision you’ve already made but feel guilty about making (as I rather suspect), then see (D) above, and take responsibility for your own choices.

 

@ErosWired I totally agree with your points. As a site who's main joining interest is in bareback sex, the bias is evident. For those of us still sit astride the fence, as you rightly pointed out - your decisions about your body are for you to make alone, with all the risks and the benefits included. Personally, STD's including gonorrhoea, HIV and syphilis are what give me pause to going BB fully. But as you rightly pointed out - it's also about willpower and our ability to resist the allure of temptation.

I guess @Mojojo the decision is ultimately yours. It's easy to get seduced by the thought of bareback sex. Just make sure you've thought about the risks and whether you're willing to take that risk.

On 3/6/2022 at 4:47 AM, Doccer19677 said:

To be honest I like playing with older straight /married guys.  I met one the other day in a sauna and he had nipples to die for. They were hard wired to his sex drive. I went to town squeezing, biting and generally getting this older guy aroused. I whispered to him I wanted to fuck him but he said only with a condom. That was like a challenge to me…I continued to work his nipples, finger his already lubed hole and really kiss him hard - he particularly got turned on when I held his throat and controlled his breathing. I kept saying you’ll enjoy raw, I’ll only put the tip in , be a good boy for daddy. I think I pushed him over the edge as he turned around and begged for my cock raw. I started to fuck him as I worked his nipples, asking him to cum for daddy. He came everywhere and his arse clamped on to my cock lodged up his backside. It was great. Unfortunately I didn’t cum in him but was quite philosophical as I had converted a condom only guy to a raw fuck slut. I know he will be riding raw cock in the future perhaps not with me but with others…service to our community I guess 😃

Wow, I wish I had been able to convert my fwb into a raw slut. He got scared after I suggested going in him raw.

On 8/1/2017 at 4:54 PM, Ocelot2000 said:

I haven't posted for quite a while on this thread but I need to....

So yesterday I went in to my local STD clinic for my routine check up. I waited a while as they had forgotten about me. Then a guy came out to say Have you been seen yet? Nope, not yet, I replied. He took my file to a room and in less than a minute another guy came out and called my name. I went in to his little office, noticed he was sort of checking me out. He got me to go get the blood tests and to do the swabs and said he would do the questionnaire after I came back which I thought was odd and opposite. Did all that, came back and we chatted. He asked the usual questions and when I said oh I only gutted fucked BB, he asked where. I said at parties or grindr or sex clubs or living where I do I really only have to open my door, to which he replied, I hope I'll be invited in when I walk down your street..... He was so cute too, so I said so, he leaned over and started to kiss me.

I kissed back and I presume when he got up he locked his door but to be honest I didn't notice. One thing led to another and all of a sudden I was on my knees sucking his pretty impressive thick dick. I thought, OK, he'll blow down my throat so I said, I hope you breed me sometime to which he replied, I'm gonna breed you now.... I was like, I'm not sure I'm "ready" for that and he told me to shut up, got me up and pulled my pants down and had me lean over his desk. He lapped up at my hole for a while and jacked himself off and I made note not to make a sound as I really wanted to moan. He tried then to fuck me but because of being nervous I was too tight and told him to get some lube. He used spit instead and still I couldn't take him so he then grabbed some lube a from his bowl of lube and condoms and he pushed in and filled me up to the hilt. He fucked a little too hard since I wasn't relaxed (and didn't have my poppers) and kept ramming onto my second hole, so I kept raising up to make it easier and he kept pushing me down so he could get further in (bad bottom I know). I could feel cold sweats on my back and my heart was racing. I kept thinking I hope the door is locked. After about 10 minutes I relaxed into his fucking a little more and he kept ramming into my second hole and finally pushed in and then he unloaded. First a little as I felt him tense up and throb. Then he fucked me for another minute and he then came hard. As he withdrew, I looked to make sure I was clean, thankfully all was ok, lol.

I told him I should see him when I go back for more tests and should come more frequently to which he replied, you can always request me and it never hurts to check all the time since you like getting loaded.... I'll be back for sure, took his card.... That was a total surprise for the day and I was trying not to smile completely like a cheshire cat walking out of the clinic...... Kept those puppies in me all day too.

That is such a hot story! Wish I had that kinda experience!

6 hours ago, subbottomguy said:

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Fuck year! That sounds so hot! Which sauna did you end up going to?

For me... I'm a pretty passionate fucker - it is the deep connection and feedback as I look to pleasure him while I'm enjoying him. And when I cum he pulls me into him and makes animal like noises as he feels the cum gushing inside him. But I guess it does depend on what kinda bottom you have. A pump and dump or a regular fwb/boyfriend

On 5/29/2021 at 5:47 AM, TwinkSlut24 said:

About 50. Hoping to start going to sex parties as a bottom. Got my cherry popped this year.

Wow that's so hot. Wish I was there to give you a load too!

Definitely. How bout a 3 way? 😉

Definitely interested. Would love to take your virginity 😉

6 hours ago, VersSlut23 said:

Ive been using toys the past few weeks, as I always thought I'd be too tight to bottom, surprisingly I've very quickly managed to get used to my 9inch toy haha, can handle that no problem. It's just when that guy came over for my first breeding, I was tense the whole time... but wanting that load! Guessing it'll just take getting used to till I get more comfortable taking dick and meeting strangers. Just wish I didn't get so anxious, the only thing that got me through it was knowing id be getting bred!

The first time I ever bred a guy it was really hot as we were very into each other. I was very nervous but he kept begging me to cum inside him. I came so hard that he could feel the throbbing. I guess it took a while since I'm a bit thick, but after the first few thrusts he was loving it. Too bad I'm in London now, or I'd breed him every day.

Very hot. How long has it been since your last load