I'm a top. I'm a selfish top. I don't hide it when I hook up with a random. I give my disclaimer before he gives me his address that I'm not going to his place to make him feel good. I'm going to use his body to get myself off, and I don't care if it hurts him in the process. I won't stop, I don't need a safe word because I won't pay attention to it. I've had bottoms tell me I fuck like I hate f*gg*ts. I don't hate them. They serve a noble purpose for men like me. They endure pain so I can feel pleasure. They set their dignity aside so I can bust a nut. And while some gentle guys might say I'm a bad man, if they really do look like their profile pics and we hit it off, I'll give them my number and they always beg for more. I think some bottoms like feeling like trash.