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  1. On 1/16/2024 at 3:09 AM, pervinmt said:

    I'd say you're going to get varied answers based on others personal kinks. Since this is your life, do whatever turns you on the most. You will never please everybody. 

    This.  I know these forums are supposed to be hot and folks get off on fantasy, but these questions of "should [x]" I'm never a fan of because there's no correct answer, do what makes you horny and just have fun.  Even a cum dump session, which is ostensibly about the tops, you're choosing to host because you enjoy being the dump.  Do what makes you randy.

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  2. 11 hours ago, ErosWired said:

    His retort was, “Don’t be a cumdump, then. Do you think everyone is as honest as I am?”

    First, not only am I not obliged to just accept a disease when it’s staring me in the face, as a responsible service cumdump I have a positive duty of care toward every man who might subsequently use my cunt - it’s not just a question of ensuring that I’m not knowingly exposed to HSV, it’s a question of making sure I don’t knowingly become a carrier infecting others.

    It's a bit of a perverse way of thinking about consent, but the unwritten social contract of being an "all loads" cumdump is that "all loads" answers all questions, so don't ask any.  If you do, you run the risk of testing "all" because even though the implied consent is in the invitation to use the cumdump, a cumdump (or someone acting as the dump's handler) always has the ability to turn someone away for any reason, or else the scene has decidedly veered into sexual assault and/or rape.

    The fantasy of "all loads" is hot, but the reality is almost all people aren't actually living out their greatest fantasies, and even the highly tolerant and risk-seeking have limits.  I think a great example are the many barebackers chasing HIV but when they get gono go get treated and take a pause so as to not spread that separate STI.

    Taking it back to this instance, if this top didn't disclose, he would've been able to partake in the fantasy, and you would have been none the wiser as to what he'd exposed you to.  It is in fact a perverse incentive to withhold information to maintain the fantasy.  But once he disclosed, he broke the fantasy and the unwritten open consent, and that's just tough luck on his part.  Reality's a bitch, and at the end of the day people act differently with known consequences, and they're allowed to.

    Which is my way of saying I agree.

  3. On 12/27/2023 at 12:14 PM, Pozguyinchi said:

    If you have cleaned out properly you will not make a mess. It’s natural to feel that urge. It does go away as you get used to bottoming. Once in a while I feel it when a top is pounding me hard but I know it’s all good and nothing will happen. Just go with it and enjoy the breeding.

    Not only that, if you're confident in your clean-out, go ahead and push down and really open your depths up to the cock as it penetrates deeper.  Pushing and releasing adds even more textures to the experience and feels amazing (I've been told on both ends though as a strict bottom I can't really confirm for tops).

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  4. On 7/29/2023 at 11:45 PM, ErosWired said:

    Let’s take a moment to look at what you’re telling us. You say that you feel scared, freaked out, that the situation you’re in is ‘too much’, and that you feel that what’s going on is to some degree dangerous. You characterize what is happening as something that is being done to you, a condition placed upon you - you say the Dominant is ‘making you’ do things and ‘throwing you’ down a rabbit hole. Yet you make it clear that you’re turned on by what is happening, and you think of it as a ‘permanent sub-space’ that you know you’re not going to walk away from.

    Let’s be clear here - the Dom isn’t making you do anything that you aren’t consenting to do. None of this is nonconsensual, and any sense of you being forced is something you’re conjuring up in your own mind as a part of the sexual role that you are playing as a submissive. No Dominant can force you into subspace - that’s a state you enter on your own. So dispense with the idea that your situation is dangerous because it’s out of your control. It’s not. You can say no at any point.

    Let's be clear, active consent is consent, a lot of things that are not consent can be feigned to look like consent.  You can also, in some ways, enjoy things to which you didn't consent (i.e. a turn-on doesn't mean consent).

    That said, in this instance, it appears that you seem to be into the outcome whether or not consent was given, and you wanna move your goalposts or you know your dom wants to but you're a bit freaked, that's what a conversation's for.  Sounds like you two just need to get back on the same page, the far dirtier far piggier one

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  5. I think there's an important feature to successful spitroasting - the tops have to work together to use the bottom, and not act independently.

    Spit roasting is usually less than ideal, and you have to choose whether to focus on the blowjob or the fucking, because once you're getting fucked, Top #2 shoves your face into his crotch without moving or adjusting, syncing up with the rhythm and movement, and just going straight for the deepthroat on the first plunge and holds it there too long.

    That said, when the tops are good together, and not just separately simultaneously, the oral component helps deepen the piggery.  It's cognizant of breathing differently when getting pounded from behind, it's rhythmic, and it syncs well, then I am just in heaven.

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  6. While it's subjective, I think the defining characteristic is approach to sex.  A slut is basically a harsh term for a hedonist that pursues pleasure through sex actively, willfully, and eagerly across multiple partners.  I don't think there's a minimum frequency requirement, other than "somewhat regularly."

  7. It's a combination of things for me, really.  First, it feels more immediate and real without any barrier.  Second, and this of course varies with your (i) status and (ii) use (or not) of PrEP, but there's fun in risk, it heightens sensation and elevates the stakes in a thrilling way.  Third, I like feeling the load being shot into me, and I love the feeling as it sloshes around and slowly tries to leak out.  Fourth, I like that the top, after nutting in my guts, can go in and eat my hole out and I can make out with him and taste my fresh load.

    It's not the penetration that is fundamentally different (yeah it feels a bit different and I prefer the feeling of skin but that's not the end-all-be-all for me), it's everything else that is getting bred, that you don't get when there's a rubber in the way.

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  8. 6 minutes ago, muscmtl said:

    Too many famous porn star, so dont think its the real horsemarket event, but some produced video

    No, it's the real Horsemarket event.  They held one specifically that was going to be fully filmed, and so everyone who attended had to be willing to sign a release and appear in the video, and all of the porn folks just, well, came as themselves.  Horsemarket is based out of SF, so it's not like there's any shortage of porn folks.  But most Horsemarket events aren't documented for public consumption.  is there a skew toward porn folks because of the explicit public-facing nature of this specific Horsemarket event?  Sure.  But it wasn't exclusive to them, wasn't a masscollab or anything, it's just a self-selection bias.

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  9. 4 hours ago, blackrobe said:

    Nice to meet you.

    Lots of guys don't like the smell, don't like the mess, and can't use them for medical reasons. All three are true for me, but there's one other. It feels like cheating to have your hole open up artificially. I like showing breeders how my cunt opens up to them naturally. I want them to know I'll take them whatever size and thickness and I won't take shortcuts.

    Lots of breeders have insisted I'll need poppers to take their cock, they always find out I take their cock and seed just fine without them.

    Hi!  All that makes sense, and I intentionally limited my remarks to bottoms I know for these very reasons.  Poppers should never be mandatory, they just so happen to be a de-facto constant amongst those bottoms I know in person

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  10. 38 minutes ago, Zacksabottom said:

    I wish there were more bottoms with small dicks in porn! I’m tiny and I never see anyone who looks like me in videos and it’s annoying. Why does a bottom’s dick need to be 6”+?! Put a cumdump with a micro dick in a video and watch him get gangbanged and bred by a bunch of hung dudes. 

    This is why I love chastity bottoms in porn where there's a defined top and a defined bottom, esp in cumdump scenes.  If it's a vers orgy, I get it, you want all dicks to be impressive as they dive into holes.  But for defined bottom roles, I love a little chastity nub, the dick's irrelevant if it ain't going in any holes!

  11. 38 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

    I think this comes down to two things: Anatomy and specialty. A bottom might have been able to stretch his hole over time to take those big intrusions, but he can’t unhinge his jaw or remove teeth that are rooted in place. I don’t have a very large mouth, so taking cocks over a certain size orally is out of the question. So, what’s a guy with limited oral capacity to do? Specialize in ass, of course. And while there may be those rare specimens out there gifted in taking huge things in both holes, I’m betting that when a videographer is looking for a guy to take something really outrageous up his cunt for the camera, he’s going to look for a specialist.

    100%, but, counterpoint as director, if the bottom is only gifted in one hole, don't make the first 20-55% of the scene all about bad (in the porn sense, not that it's not fun or enjoyable outside of performance) oral.  I agree with all of your observations wholeheartedly (hole-heartedly?) but take them to what I think is a fairly logical conclusion of focusing the performance/scene on what the performers do well, and not a tortured obligatory nod to the studio days of yore where every scene had to follow the exact same pace/checklist and a VHS strung [X] number of scenes together to fill an entire tape.  So if you suck at sucking the massive cocks you ride, great, then move on, explore other avenues of foreplay, or just dive right in.  Anyhow, that's how I feel about it at least haha

  12. For tops:  Too much grunting.  It's sex, it's physical, we get it.  But there are tops who can literally just grunt for 45 min, and it gets old once you notice it.  For bottoms:  Learn to moan something other than "oh fuck" or be quiet for a minute.  But, like grunting, listening to "oh fuck" on loop nonstop for 45 minutes gets old quickly.  Basically I'm just pleading for some verbal variety (or, gasp, sometimes refraining from saying anything).

    Also, bottoms who can ride MASSIVE cocks (and DP and huge toys and everything) but can barely manage to suck the head of a cock.  That level of anal commitment is a skill to be commended, but it's a bit of a peeve that the oral sucks so much given the edit always has 5-15 min of oral foreplay that is just bad in those instances.

  13. For me, one of the best fisting films of all time was Dark Alley's Fisting Underground 3.  Just the opening shot of a bunch of sexy guys in a vinyl pit, when one walks in with a full-ass tub of lube, they all slather up basically, and it's a piggy free-for-all fisting brawl.  What's not to love?

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  14. On 7/8/2023 at 2:16 AM, Johnjohn said:

    Any thoughts on Axel Abysse? Carnage 1 for example in which Axel and Trent Bloom take it in turns to fist each other's rosebud.

    Or Swine with John Thomas & Bulrog, it is one of the touchstones for my inner sense of piggery.

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  15. As someone who has wound up with a severely bruised inner sphincter from the way a hung top was fucking me (not the size, I've taken bigger for SURE, was the technique), sometimes you just need a hard stop that has to be respected.  If it's "oh I came already" I never stop the top since I easily cum hands-free and keep riding through it to hope for secondary or tertiary orgasms as top works closer to cumming.

  16. On Monday night, a friend I haven't seen in a while and I linked up.  He's almost exclusively a #BBBH bottom, but I've been trying to convince him for years he can top.  My being in chastity, plus 2 bottles of wine, made it happen.  We started getting naked and fooling around, I sucked him off until he got hard, and I swiped a few pumps of lube and was riding him before he knew it.  After about 20 min, he couldn't keep it up due to the wine, so he jerked off onto my awaiting tongue.  I spat his load all over his face,  licked it up, and we snowballed and swallowed together before I drank his piss.

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  17. 46 minutes ago, muscmtl said:

    Rating saunas is pointless. Rate yourself instead

    Very true.  It's not that you should be cruel to yourself or anyone else, just know what's likely going to net you fun and chase that.  Also, the same bathhouse is drastically different daytime v evening, weekday v weekend, special party v general... So if you're seeking something specific or know you appeal more broadly in certain markets, try and align for that.  Adonises gonna Adonis, but there's plenty of dick for the discerning pig.

    It's just how these things go at the baths.

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