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On 5/10/2024 at 12:32 AM, topblkmale said:

 

Hoping none of these spouses are gun owners. I would never.

 

Yeahhh not worth the risk at all

On 5/4/2024 at 4:49 PM, blackrobe said:

It's not at all surprising that a defining difference between gay men and others is that we can be highly focused on sex. After all, I heard sucking someone's cock referred to as "the gay handshake".

When someone has historically been vilified for gay sex, is there any wonder that doubling down on gay sex was the response? As a result, we tend to start with sex and work our way to other things. I've lost count of the "hookup to friend" and "hookup to boyfriend" stories I've come across. I think we tend to do things in a different order, but I think we tend to go through the same stages as other humans in relationships.

But we also are less likely to be slaves to the myth of romantic love, a relatively recent invention historically. 

This. I think we as gay men have relationships and friendships just like any other community, I just think the path there is a little different 

This was me a few years back.. . Had a girlfriend I planned to marry and loved her...but preferred being with men. After a while I couldn't take it anymore, broke it off and just been with men exclusively ever since. Best decision I ever made. I'm sure it's easier for me being we weren't married, but def make the best choice for your happiness 

Wow! I haven't used Vaseline since I first started fucking. Was always a great time with it. I normally use coconut oil nowadays though 

A good bottom should be willing to submit and please. A good bottom should do more than enjoy taking dick, they should crave it. They should need it more than the food they eat, they should give up everything in their cock lust

Bottom here

On 1/20/2024 at 11:55 PM, topblkmale said:

 

Breeding means receiving male sperm DNA that's different from your own.

In my case breeding means accepting this strong ancestral Sub-Saharan African DNA.

 

Agreed, breeding is taking another mans DNA inside you. 

Same here with having more fuck bud contacts...find more sex parties as well

Make sure you're thoroughly cleaned out and you should be fine. It's really a mental thing. You have to get used to it and over come it

Okay, yeah bad on them... But am I the only one that thinks the idea of fucking there is kinda hot? Maybe not going through with it,,, but the idea? 

Being watched while I take dick has gotta be the hottest thing in the world! I love it

I've sucked a guy off in a public park before....  

We've been chatting for weeks, just getting to know each other. And we finally met up and were supposed to go to his place but he had an emergency so I just decided to give him a quick parting gift instead 

Started In HS and never stopped lol

Def bent over on all fours! Or missionary 

I consider a big dick 8in or bigger...of course guys are going to lie of course...i don't mind as long as it's not tiny

Same!! If I don't get fucked after a day or two I start dreaming about it. 

5 hours ago, topblkmale said:

Try and have your tops get in the habit of giving you a 24 to 36 hour advance notice. I mostly fuck my few regular bottoms who are usually pre-cleaned and ready to take me long and deep. For instance, I will start contacting my weekend bottoms on Thursday evening to see if they're available.

But short notice fucks are a recipe for mess and an embarrassing situation.

Love a considerate top. We can't just be clean at a moments notice. It's a process 

On 9/20/2023 at 3:46 PM, Sfmike64 said:

Can I /Rant for a moment?

Someone saw my handle on this site and chatted me up on Telegram. Fine, I'm into that. We were chatting a bit and he laid out what he was interested in talking dirty about and I said "yeah, I get why people are into that, but that's not really my thing."

And he disappeared without a word and deleted the chat.

Seriously? At least be an adult and say "ok, that's really what I'm into. See ya later."

Have some fucking manners, ya'll. We're all human beings and need to be treated with some respect. If you hit me up FIRST don't just disappear when it's not going to be a match. BE A MAN.

OK /rant.

Prob not gonna be a popular opinion here, but I don't see a problem with what they did. I think ghosting is wrong when there's some emotional investment and y'all been talking for a while...but thats not the case here, y'all were speaking briefly. sexually., he's wants something you're not into. Clearly, that's not gonna work for him. Why waste time with formalities? 

Personally....I'm maybe 10% top and 90% bottom.

Although I started off topping, I always found it so boring and when I finally got a taste of dick....I couldn't leave it alone. So now I normally go years just bottoming, and here and there get the urge to top...do so and end up hating it and going back to bottoming. 

On 10/19/2023 at 3:56 AM, MuscledHorse said:

"Cheating", like sexual monogamy, is a concept manufactured by religions like Christianity, Islam and Mormonism. It has zero basis in reality or nature. The sooner males embrace this and live by it, the better their relationships will flourish without a cloud of jealousy that hangs over most monogamous relationships. Sex is the ultimate male Pleasure sport in my view. My other half and I both play and he not only encourages my promiscuity, he is often the camera guy on my porn shoots. There's none of those toxic behaviors of  going through each other's phones when the other isn't looking and so forth. It's just sex. We can focus on our commitment to each other without having to worry if the other might be "cheating" sexually with someone else because the concept is rendered null. 

Completely agree. I truly believe monogamy, like most things is a social construct. 

Def happened to me, back in the day I really was strictly into more twinky hairless fem tops, trans tops even.... As I've gotten older I've become super attracted to more bearish husky men. Like that's all I've exclusively been attracted to the last few years

Those are the only reasons I could see denying him. And even the condom I wouldn't deny him. I have no hangups about condoms at all, I just prefer raw. Maybe if he wasn't that attractive I would deny him, but then again if he has a nice dick we're still good to go. 

Id more than likely deny him if he had bad hygiene...but I can't see any other reason 

Hell yes it is. I love the pain that comes with taking a huge dick ..it makes me feel like such a slutty bitch as well. The biggest I've taken is about an 11. You just need a lot of lube and a lot of patience to take it. But once your hole is opened enough it's amazing 

I've never had to ask a guy to fuck raw...most are already down lol

Well sex is about attraction lol so if they're not attracted to you it's prob not gonna be as pleasurable no? You gotta find the men that are into bigger and older men.

Definitely my muscular arms, my fat ass and my nipples for sure