Blatinobttm

Are there any good spots in Sacramento? Any hotel recommendations?

I go to the gym 5-6 times a week even had a personal trainer for a couple of years. Having a very limited sex life(once every few months) it helps me blow off some steam. Despite all of the eye candy it’s a space where I can just be one of the guys. It has paid off both physically and emotionally.

On 1/21/2023 at 9:34 PM, topblkmale said:

Lidell had the best parties that attracted some very fine sexy black men. 

 

I've heard Nubian Dukes has parties still. 

I loved Lidell’s parties. They were always FUN. I experienced being gang banged for the first time at his party. The guys were cool no attitude guys. Sorry to see it go.

I personally hate the term ‘BBC’ for many reasons and when Caucasian men approach me with that I play dumb and ask about the British Broadcasting Network. It’s insulting - just because I have a big dick and black doesn’t mean Im a TOP! Usually pushy bottoms try to impose their fantasies on me.

I love the feeling of cum in my ass that’s enough for me to bareback !

I love getting fucked cummed in having his dick stay inside and getting hard again.

I have never tried anything beyond poppers and alcohol….not even weed. I have been extremely curious about Meth, X, G and other stuff. I have been warned not to go down that path because it could be dangerous. Still curious… definitely but don’t want to become a junky. Thoughts?

First time I got fucked in the park a couple of days ago! The guy pounded me rough. There was another bottom that shared poppers with me while getting fucked beside me. Held on to the tree to keep balance. So fucking hot!!! All of the men watching made it even hotter!

Most of the time I can cope but once I thought I was going to pass out. He was super long (probably 12+) and thin . If felt like he was going up into my lungs. I think I cried 10 minutes in. I let him fuck me until he was done went TOTALLY soft.

13 hours ago, BlackDude said:

I think all that sounds good if we are living in a world where people were just politely “scroll” or ignore if they are not interested.
 

Part of the problem is that some of these preferences are not part of some and conscious bias. Many are very calculated and I’d say about half the guys it’s not just about the actual preference, it’s about letting everyone know you have a preference. For example:

 

1. I’ve been message before out of the blue and called “monkey faggot,” among other things

2.Guys messaging other guys chastising them for BB, on a BB site and for not being HIV negative

3. Asking for pics just to shame the guy

4. Messaging X type when your profile states “no X type”

5. Starting a convo with a guy, with the full intention of letting him know he’s not your type. 

All this stuff happens. Folks like this are very aware of what they are doing. To a lot of these guys, it’s about ego gratification, and not being able to discreetly troll or cast down the men they don’t like takes away their power. 

That’s why I like an upfront approach. I state right up front in my profile names what your a getting. 

(BTW, I had fun with quite a few rednecks/southerners in my time. It’s those “liberal” SF/WeHo/Midtown types who tend to be more biased…just saying….)

You make SO MANY good points!  I have had guys HMU on apps just to call me the N word. 
 

Others that just HMU with “BBC”?. Which can be as insulting in its own way. 
 

As someone who can see beauty  in every race and color. I tend to prefer MOC because they see ME as a person and ME sexually not as some novelty. It also doesn’t bother them that I am a big dicked bottom and feel no need to top.

I get ‘preferences’ but no that when some use that word they really mean bias or fetish.

23 hours ago, blkboibtm said:

I'm a blk btm that luvs wht tops.  My first crush was a wht dude at a summer job, and I would fantasize about him all the time (I never got him though).  I think that's what originally got me into them and then the first nut i took was by a wht top, and  the first time I really subbed and was bitched out.  Those really drove me for a while, but before I went to college it was rare to find wht tops, and even more rare to find wht top/blk btm porn, if I found it I was shocked.  When I went to college I started experiencing that there were more wht tops that luv blk ass than I knew.  When I finished school and was working it felt like I either found more tops or that there were more wht tops out there, not complaining either way.  I def feel that their is better wht top/blk btm porn out now (still not enough as far as i'm concerned lol).  I think the myth of the dom bbc topping only, is sum what fading a bit but still way to high.  If I'm out, online, crusing etc.  I have to go out out my way to make sure it's known I'm a btm only, cuz I have run into numerous times were it's assumed I'm a top or at least a verse, I have to disappoint when I tell em I'm simply a big dyck btm lol.  Luckily it has become easier through work, online and such to get my wht nut fix when needed (which is a lot lately, gotta make up for COVID)

You bring up so many points! One that is especially true .....just because someone has a big dick and black doesn’t make them a top. Completely can relate! It is especially frustrating when guys see my color and dick size and expect a dominant top dude. I’m also athletic and into ‘traditional’ guy activities and socialize well with the straights. It doesn’t mean I wanna top.......stereotypes are a bitch! It can complicate things for ‘non-traditional’ bottoms

20 hours ago, NEDenver said:

If he goes in dry for me, I almost always bleed.  If that’s going to freak the guy out, I'd prefer he lube things up and stretch me out properly.  If it’s not going to freak him out, I can be game.  

I can go dry when I’m really horny. I think it’s kinda hot when I bleed a little especially when it’s mixed with cum. If the dick is too thick it’s really hard to go dry or with spit but one really dominant guy with a super thick dick coaxed me into it - he kept teasing me with the head and pushing a little more. I guess it’s really mind over matter! 

On 6/6/2021 at 11:42 AM, breakland said:

Any other bottoms have high anxiety issues that cause ibs or gut issues? How do you handle that?

Sometimes the moment I get excited or anxious my gut gets triggered and I instantly have to go, even if I douched out. It's been worse lately and is a pain for bottoming.

I had that issue but have developed a system to deal with it.

1. The day before I regulate my diet. No greasy foods or sweets and no meals after 6pm.

2. Fiber supplements like PURE and a natural shake with chia seeds 72-48 hours before. Drink LOTS of water.

3. Douche the day before deeply.

4.The day of fast, douche, use a butt plug in the shower and make sure the butt plug is squeaky clean. No food only water.

5.An hour or so before butt plug deeply one more time just to be sure. Take an Imodium to close the pipes.

When I follow this procedure meticulously I’m squeaky clean exhaust down and I have no accidents. Even with huge thick guys.

Sounds like lots of work but it’s worth it!

In my experiences with Middle Eastern or Arab men they have always been been rough and dominant. I remember meeting this Arab twink that I thought I was going to top boy was I wrong. He went in bare with no lube and pounded me till he came. Hot. An Iraqi daddy fucked me rough no lube or anything- I squirmed and even bled a little but LOVED it. I’m sure that not all Arab men are the same but the ones I encounter always turn me into a bitch.

Would love to go as a mare but wondering if there would be any interest in mares of colors? Most guys in the real world seem to prefer black stallions. Don’t want to be disappointed if I go. I love stallions of all colors and ages!

I had a white daddy fuck me really hard last week. He pounded the hell out of me. Love being submissive to older men! He wants to DP with a bud (it will be a first) a little nervous but curious! He is a great fuck!

1 hour ago, Tanbbottom said:

Lots of young guys wanting to receive my loads and thankfully many willing to pound my old hairy ass and leave their cum inside where I love it. 

Given my age I am probably more of a ‘daddy’ even though I look a little younger. I love  getting fucked by older men especially when they are bigger and stronger than me. The power dynamics are intense! When I was in my 20’s I have had men as much as 50 years my senior. Now men who are 15- 30 years my senior still wanna fuck me and I still love it. EXPERIENCE MATTERS!

On 5/3/2021 at 1:33 PM, Muscledadbod said:

It gets worse as you get older hate to say, so get it all while you can.

I am not photogenic in the least so I am very picky about the pics I will post, nor do I  show my face in my profile pics. I have a decent gym body for a guy my age, I even made the "Most Woofed List"  but when I'm asked to unlock, there's then crickets. Recently I was told by a 25 year old on Scruff that I have a sexy body but not a sexy face. That hurt. Guys can be very catty online, their true colors come out when they are not face to face.

I do much better at rest areas, book stores and baths, Online hooking up simply does not work for me.

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I totally relate to your experience. Baths, Bookstores etc... is more efficient for hooking up. The only disappointments I would have from those experiences is it would only go as far as oral or no load which is much better than staring at a screen. Lol

6 hours ago, Inekdi21 said:

As a blatino bottom with a big juicy ass I appreciate guys like you 🥰

 

It's very frustrating because I do tend to gravitate to white tops and it's hard to find any porn along those lines lol

Rawstrokes.com and timtales sometime give that combination.

Preparation is key!

#1 - Make sure you are super clean for big ones (puts the psyche at ease). Fiber, Fasting and a douche.

#2 - Butt plugs really help especially those that get wider gradually. Practice with it at least an hour before and closer to the event.

#3 Use the right lubes something slick and something that lasts (Vaseline or something similar).

#4 Slow at first if the top allows it otherwise have your mind made up that you are going to take it. Mind over matter really works! I remember taking a thick and long dick with only spit because he really wanted it and got into my head space. Nothing gets a bottom to open up like a dominant top!

I totally get the white guys looking for BBC *yawn* but I have found plenty of white guys that wanna breed me. It could be that I’m into older guys in general because they know how to fuck and are usually strict tops. I’m also on the east coast so that could have something to do with it?  My advice try older men on the east coast!

2 hours ago, mikeboi1 said:

The experiences of rape in my youth,  I have to admit i did hate the rape situation but loved the Adrenaline rush I had the struggling of rape against my will and struggling, and being over powered, the feeling of losing control the feeling of forceably having my clothes removed against my will, now I crave it, crave that forced sex, that Adrenaline of rouch sex. Perhaps its not rape any more if one desires it, but i desire that same sensation, perhaps im craving that same Adrenaline rush of struggling and men over powring me, its perhaps what i love about being fucked, and enhance i also love being fucked by bigger and stronger men then me. Getting fucked only hurts, and i can be walking around with a sore ass after it and certainly there is no pleasure in that, but that Adrenaline and brutal force of being handled and forced fucked is at least for me what gives me pleasure and even excites me at the thought of it. Perhaps the cheer feeling of being under a men full control and allowing him to do as he pleases with me is what excites me.

I can fully relate to these feelings. Sometimes when I remember I feel all of the fear combined with the sexual energy.  I would get emotional and horny at the same time. When it happened to me I clearly didn’t want it but now I like being manhandled and roughed up. I still haven’t been able to make sense of it but relieved to know I am not the only one with these types of feelings.

Elbow grease. 

3 hours ago, CumLvr80 said:

I’m always flattered when a sexy older masculine white top shows interest! Although I don’t have any ethnic/racial preference, I do find that they excite me the most. Maybe because I’m always so surprised that they’re even interested in a black bottom. 

I am flattered by ‘straight’ guys being interested.  Powerful well-connected seen are also a turn on and they tend to be white. On a purely physical level MOC are hotter to me as I connect better. Dominant and powerful is sexy no matter the race.

6 hours ago, Xtraglazedonuthole said:

Nice,  it's totally the opposite here. U from the east or west?

East