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On 1/28/2021 at 4:52 PM, PigBoyDallas said:

I'm uncut but then again I'm Latino. I came up playing with other Latino guys who by and large were uncut and prefer uncut probably because of that. I think age may be a factor too as I primarily play with younger guys under 30 or so and more younger Anglo guys seem to be uncut versus older Anglo guys. If its just blowjobs an uncut dick is always my top choice. For fucking its not a dealbreaker like barebacking versus wrapped is. I'll move on if a guy wants safe, but cut versus uncut isn't as big a deal, a loads a load.

Exactly my sentiments! I’m uncut too and had some top guys not like it though.

Naturally smooth in most places. Most tops like my hole smooth so I do a little manscaping to keep them happy. On the rare occasions that I top I prefer smooth holes.

3 minutes ago, BlackDude said:

Now I have been debating for quite a while about whether this was the correct form to make this post, but I am going to use the “just about whatever you want to talk about” description as my license to go ahead as maybe this may help someone, especially younger. 
 

At a very young age, there was always a group of guys who knew I was gay before I did I guess. Although I honestly had no interest in men until probably my early 20s they saw something and use this to tease me mercilessly. I was teased of the route my school years damn near to the point of persecution. For years I was angry, bitter, vengeful and upset even after I figured out my attraction to men. 
 

I have recently seen one of my old classmates. I played it cool. Well needless to say he is not doing well. He is on his fifth kid with his fourth mother, a very unattractive and overweight woman who was accompanying him. He was telling me about some of my old classmate two were also not doing particularly well. After our conversation he got in the passenger seat I have an old beat up minivan, with yet another newborn. This guy was the school jock!

That’s when it hit me I have finally won. While his life is basically over, I have my own home, I own my car, I own a business I am doing quite well for myself with lots of potential to do more. Although they hurt at the time, his words and the words of all the rest really meant nothing. I can fuck any guy who I please, and not reliant on a woman for my room and board.  

 

I guess I am saying all that to say that if you are younger, gay and have pain in your life caused by others, just keep working hard and living your life free. Doing well, and fucking freely, is the best revenge. 

Exactly! It’s funny how shitheads in high school tend to have shitty lives. I don’t celebrate their calamities (some of my old foes are doing life!) but time has made it clear that bullies are the ones with the shortcomings not the bullied. They bully because of their own insecurities and can sense that they are the inferior ones. 

3 hours ago, BlackDude said:

I understand what you are saying to a certain extent. But I wonder if you would have taken your extent a step further and created another profile with a black torso, what would have happened?

I guess my point is, I don’t think he’s that hot. Yeah he’s okay/fuckable. I think the only reason a lot of guys think he’s “hot” is because he white and being a white supremacist is icing on the cake because deep down they believe what he believes.  

You make a great point! I wonder what kind of reaction would a faceless pic that said “gangsta BBC ex-con thug” would get. The other side of the coin is being exoticized because of your race/ethnicity. 

1 hour ago, barefootboy said:

I was also raped in a similar environment, at Flex in Atlanta years ago. Raped by a guy who insisted on fucking  with a condom of all things.   I had just gone on PrEP and was there to take loads but it’s up to me to decide who fucks me, but not that day. Three hot Latin guys approached me and I thought they would take turns loading me. It was a concrete area near the main area where the snack machines are.  One asked me to fuck but he wanted the condom. I politely said more than once that I was bb only. That’s when  he pushed down on the concrete (hurt like hell) and his two friends grabbed my legs, held my arms and covered my mouth. The guy put on the condom and rough fucked me. When he was done and I was able to get up, I started yelling and cursing at him. They just laughed and went on their way.  They knew it would be hard for me to explain how I was raped while whoring myself in a bathhouse. That seems like an oxymoron but NO should have meant NO. I have not suffered any emotional effects from that experience except for a lot of anger at the guys.  I did continue to go back from time to time but didn’t run into them again. 

I appreciate guys who have shared similar experiences st sex venues/clubs. Seeing this thread actually got me to become a member. It’s been years since my  particular incident but I have always felt like I was asking for it or of the mindset that well....I’m at a sex club I guess that’s how it goes sometimes. What was and is still hard to process is that so many guys watched it and helped it happen and they seem to be more than OK with it even th ‘apologetic’ one. It is a real mind fuck! 

1 hour ago, Bimarried001 said:

I was raped a few times. The first time was an older boy having his way with me when I was about 8. He did not force me but I sure did not know he was doing something wrong. 
Then at 10,11 my uncle use to rape me. I’m not sure if the first boy got it in my ass but my uncle sure did, and it hurt a lot. He would do it for about 2 years. 
And finally at about 14 or 15 2 men attacked me and raped me in an empty lot. 
Looking back I don’t have any regrets at this point. Not sure if I’d be living this lifestyle if I’d never been raped. 

I wonder if being sexually assaulted makes some individuals more promiscuous. I personally am all conflicted about the whole thing. When it was happening I felt absolutely violated and not in a hot way. After it was done immediately was turned on and wanted more violent/aggressive sexual encounters and have been drawn to that. Isn’t that fucked up?

Getting bred is a feeling like no other. Knowing that I have another man’s cum in my ass makes me so hard. The fast pace and then the uncontrollable pulsing especially when the top man handles me and holds me down and makes sures his load goes deep in my ass is so fucking hot! 

6 hours ago, BlackDude said:

This post is hilarious for many reasons. One of which is the entire “he’s hot (which he’s really not) and I don’t care what his beliefs are he can fuck me senseless.” You guys must not get out much cause this dude is a 6, on his best day. Not saying I wouldn’t fuck a 6, but all this fawning is ridiculous.

Meanwhile, dudes like me have to answer a damn near survey about my housing situation, relationship status, where I work, medical records, etc plus have six pack abs all the while having a 10 inch dick with a thug personality before most guys will even consider a casual hookup.

I wonder why that is.....?!

Thank you for pointing out the obvious! I know exactly what you mean.....

My first time was when I was 19 the guy was 29. He was 9 inches and thick. It started off wrapped but he kept losing his hard on because I was so tight and it took us a few dates before he could get his dick in my ass. He eventually asked if he could try it raw just to get it in and he said he would wrap later(we were monogamous so I was a little worried because I was taught always condoms!). I let him go in raw and I screamed like hell. It burned and hurt so bad but he made it in and fucked me barely. He didn’t cum and I bled a lot and was sore for a week. I guess a 9 inches was a bit ambitious for my first time. I got used to it and bigger over time!

Definitely deep inside!

On 1/15/2021 at 12:44 PM, Close2MyBro said:

If I run into a guy who's too big, I usually try to take it anyway so at least I've made an effort. I've often surprised myself and I've been able to take all of them but two that were too large. Sometimes after sitting on it a while I'm able to ride it well or he can fuck me but a few all I've been able to do is sit on them and rock back and forth and most of the guys don't mind that.

I am usually able to cope with big dicks and have never refused (I bled and cried a little a few times) . I only had one guy that was too long (and thin)for me to go all the way down on. The condom could only roll down halfway it look like he had a ruler for a dick! I did my best and we fucked for about 20 minutes before I had to stop I could feel it way too deep and never got it all the way in. Felt bad about it but he was totally cool.

3 hours ago, Xtraglazedonuthole said:

You're right the fetishism runs deep smh. Unfortunately I'm in a small city with a small gay scene and I'm not good at picking up straight guys, so its looking like my sex life is gonna be just out of town bathhouse trips in the near future 🤦🏾‍♂️

I feel your pain! For me unexpectedly lucky circumstances cum up and some aggressive tops have found me usually in search of a big dicked bottom. I also am a smaller guy which also helps a little but the stereotype of BBC top is hard to overcome in small cities. 

3 minutes ago, Xtraglazedonuthole said:

Lately its been almost impossible for me to attract tops. I'll have btm or vers btm in my profiles but bottoms still ignore that an hit me up and there's NEVER a shortage of interested bottoms. I might be bias of could but I'm not ugly so atleast for the most part I don't think that's the problem. I also find that with white guys there's almost no point in bothering, if its not "bbc" they're not interested. Should I dress more feminine? Write my bios a different way? Any suggestions?

Funny enough I have the same issue. I think if you are ethnic, particularly if you are black you could be the most fem queen on earth and many guys want you to fulfill their BBC fantasies and won’t give you a second thought as a bottom unless they are also ethnic. If you like being masculine like me it compounds the issue. However, I meet guys that like nice asses on more masculine guys......these guys tend to be ‘straight’ but wanting guy play or guys that are more edgy. My advice is be you don’t go girly orden unless you want to and enjoy there are guys that will like you for you.

I sort of tried it...both guys were wearing a rubber and so only one made it in. So curious to try it raw. Will that make it easier? Definitely want to try again. 

Back in the day I took lots of loads and have never been reinfected but.......HEP C is a possibility and can be VERY hard on the body especially being poz.

On 11/10/2020 at 8:32 PM, Swampboi said:

I do like white cock

 

(but I truly love all cock)

I’ve had my world rocked by black dick, brown dick, and mixed dick. There are still a few that I haven’t had yet, but here’s hoping those opportunities present themselves. 

 

My first time getting fucked and raw was with a white guy with a huge dick I was 19 years old. Had a lot of older white men breed me but love ALL races.

Before I was poz I was very conservative. Used condoms all the times limited partners . I had one accident with a condom in a bathhouse and didn’t think much of it until I found out I was poz. Now it’s all raw all the time love to get bred. So yes it’s changed me....Think about getting bred all the time definitely more slutty

New here but been visiting and reading. Finally joined because a topic really hit home for me. Poz 90% bottom.

Believe it or not it actually happened to me st a sex club. I wanted to get fucked but not by him. I said no to the guy. I was certain that I wasn’t interested and he kept trying to pull my pants down and I kept pulling them up he eventually pinned me ( he was very over weight)down over a bench and other guys grabbed my hands and told me to relax or it was going to be worse. There was a crowd watching.I fought for a little while and even squeezed my ass cheeks together but he kept poking and I couldn’t move. I eventually stopped resisting and let him fuck me(thankfully he had a small dick). The guys who were helping him hold me down seem to enjoy what was happening to me. I felt terrible and turned on at the same time. I still wonder if this really was rape given the fact that I was at a sex club. Did the guys just think it was part of some scene. He also made me suck some other guys dicks that I wasn’t interested in (he slapped me in the face until I did).One guy even said he was sorry. To this day I don’t know what to make of it. I know that getting fucked rough turns me on even though I have this trauma associated with it. Anyone out there with similar feelings?