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2 hours ago, hntnhole said:

Not with a hatpin - that's for damn sure !!! 

I don't have any hatpins, and I don't know where to buy one if I were so inclined.  Maybe I can borrow one of yours .....

I didn't go into the other negative behavior, because that would be extraneous to the purpose of the post.  Suffice to say while I was gently declining the unwanted advances, I missed out on one I did want to fuck.  Sure, I could have just pushed the guy down to the floor, but that's not the kind of behavior I want to project or indulge in.  I'd rather try to set an example, than indulge in aggressive behavior.

The whole point of the post was to remind guys to be considerate of each other in general, and particularly in places where we fuck. 

I agree with avoiding the negative.  I believe in a calm, kind (sounds corny I know), and firm approach.  It is being the better man and considerate of the other men who are behaving appropriately.  I was playing with a guy who I had only known briefly  boathouse when a third wanted to join and kept persisting despite our saying no.  My playmate became visibly angry and told me he‘d deck the guy if he tried again.  That disturbed me enough to go say a few words to the other dude who stayed away for the rest of the time.   

34 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

May one, at the least, inquire how you managed the situation?

If men try to back up onto you in an unwanted fashion like that, I imagine you might find it useful to carry a hatpin somewhere upon your person… 😏

I just roared laughing out loud when.I got to the end.  That was brilliant man!!

On 3/25/2022 at 9:53 AM, DiaperedToiletFag said:

Don't forgot pumps!

Yes, I purchased a specialty butt cylinder from Mr. S.  Very cool and feels great!

3 hours ago, 11bi11guy said:

Totally. I had a couple good hookups through Scruff when I was getting divorced a few years ago, but I had to wade through a million long conversations to get there. Once I was fully divorced and more free to let my slut flag fly, I started using Sniffies and Grindr and completely gave up on Scruff.

Had a couple meet ups through Squirt. Squirt is kind of a hybrid hookup site/community board/social media. Not a great hookup site and not great design, but good for checking out cruising traffic, good options for posting videos and stories, and the best adult gay video chat room I’ve been able to find (which isn’t saying much).

Never been on Recom. A4A sucks and is full of bots and flakes. BarebackRT/BBRT is intriguing, but it doesn’t seem like there are that many guys on there. Grindr has been alright. Better hookup percentage than Squirt, but definitely lower than the last….

Sniffies is my favorite. I’ve found a lot of good quality dick there, and I had a semi-successful gangbang organized through Sniffies. A lot of guys in major cities all along the West Coast and Chicago. You can see where other guys are on the map, check out cruising traffic, and post an event like BBRT.

Interesting comments about your successes on Sniffies.  Here in South Florida, I find the crowd very strange and more often than not Ive seen guys change their stats and pics where it seems on the surface they are a different person when they are not.  Mind fuckers!

On 10/14/2021 at 1:19 PM, hntnhole said:

The patio used to be the place where guys fucked/sucked/whatever, but now it's inside the main bar, to the left as you first enter, by the pool table.  There's a fairly dark corner at the end of the patio bar where Cocks get sucked off, occasionally in one of the johns (the south one), and cruising outside the bar, in the surrounding blocks goes on all night long.  Usually, it only dwindles down when the sun comes up at dawn.  I've also heard that at the N end of the bridge between Ft.L. and WM (east side) there's an area along the river where guys fuck/suck.  No personal experience with that one though, but it would make sense - the high-rise apt building right across the street is almost exclusively gay. I've fucked guys over there many times - even in the elevators.

What night of the weekend is it the busiest?  I’m getting up the courage for my first experience of taking lots of loads in a night.  

On 4/1/2022 at 8:21 AM, hntnhole said:

The question was, "what does the gay community think of cumdumps?"

I don't care what the "gay community" thinks of cumdumps.  I only care that there are men who offer up their raw Holes in every conceivable situation, every possible place, any time we need them.  

These men - "cumdumps" - are hero's in my book.  They need to take raw Cocks, they need to have Sperm pumped up their Holes, perhaps even more than we Tops need to fill them.  They feel a duty to accommodate our Cocks "on demand".  They thrill to our Lusts, having their own Lusts sated by our raw Cocks pumping loads up their guts.  They deserve medals - the DSC comes to mind, with one minor substitution.

Where would we Tops be without cumdumps ???   

If I hook up with one again (the last one did me in) I’ll be sure to Thank Them for Their Service.  Lol 

On 3/8/2022 at 11:51 AM, viking8x6 said:

Maybe you don't. Everyone's emotional and sexual response is different. It's quite possible that for you, sex and love are strongly connected and it's hard to have one without the other. That's fine! There are plenty of men out there to choose from, and many won't find that trait objectionable - some may even prefer it. Hence the need for communication.

100% agree on the communication.  And in several of my long term relationships, we opened up for threesomes and small groups but always together.  It was a huge turn on for me to see my partners playing with another and to see the pleasure in their faces.  I’d want that again without a doubt. As for fucking around on the side, maybe I need to experience what it’s like to fuck say a bunch of different guys during the course of a day or night.  Perhaps then they become just another dick or hole that provides physical satisfaction but no emotional attachment.  To that end I’d want an empathetic guiding hand or buddy to take me through that journey.  Anyone in the Miami/Lauderdale area interested in pimping me out or lining up a gangbang?  Lol

On 10/9/2021 at 2:57 PM, Guest letsbreed said:

I would be so happy in an emotionally monogamous but physically slutty relationship, both of us encouraging each other to fuck as many men as possible but coming home to loving cuddles and the stability of that kind of deep connection that is only made stronger by sharing our bodies with any men we desire

On 10/9/2021 at 4:54 PM, beefyinkedguy said:

sounds perfect to me

But how to separate the two I.e. love from sex?  I’m brand new to the scene, recently met a guy who I had mind blowing sex with and then started developing an emotional attraction.  While we both met up through a hookup site and I knew he had had a lot of guys, what shocked me is learning how many guys he’d do in a single day or over a weekend.  I wasn’t prepared to handle and lost my shit.  He, undeservedly bore the brunt of my reaction and I buried my feelings for him and my sexual desire went the same way.  How do I successfully decouple and compartmentalize emotion vs. sex?  Be a sex-bot for meaningless hookups but come home to my partner and a warm loving relationship?  Seems like living two separate lives.  

25 minutes ago, Flipnipig said:

Exactly my sentiments.  Recently a buddy implied that I might be lowering my standard on look/type for a better chance at getting laid.  I’ve been told my look is handsome daddy/military but I don’t get off on it…certainly not raised to think that way.  I told my buddy “no” and besides, the good looking guys on certain sites are far less responsive.  And I wholly agree there are a lot of narcissists out here.   I go for the average joes, blue collar, blokes because the sex is waaaay better, more primal and piggy.  Best man-sex for sure.  And the mental connections are easy and natural. 

Sorry about the duplicate replies.  I tried to edit the first entry but when I was done it would not save.  Weird,

Exactly my sentiments.  Recently a buddy implied that I might be lowering my standard on look/type for a better chance at getting laid.  I guess I’d say I am decent looking with somewhat of a daddy/military look, get called handsome, but guys aren’t clamoring to get in bed with me.   In told  my buddy “no” and besides, the good looking guys on certain sites are far less responsive.  What I didn’t say out loud is I find them all terribly narcissistic and mind-fuckers.  

In average joes/blue collar/blokey guys their walk/talk/energy/experience is sexy as hell.  And the mental connections are easy and natural.  The sex is waaay better:  primal, piggy, sweaty, and vocal.  Oink!

8 hours ago, WelshBBCigarFuck said:

For me it’s not down to looks, it’s the situation and how horny the guy sounds.

Whilst I do have “types” who really turn me on, finding them is few and far between. If a guy sounds horny, is into sexually the same stuff as me and is looking to bareback then I am more than happy to meet and fuck.

I’ve never been narcissistic and find that just going by looks is a little shallow and you also miss out on a lot of good sex. Some of the best fucks I have had are guys with “rugged” looks, and some of the worst has been with “pretty boys” (no offence to anyone, as but just from my experience). I consider myself distinctly average at best, so when it comes to playing with guys I tend to be very open as to looks, ages, builds etc.

Exactly my sentiments.  Recently a buddy implied that I might be lowering my standard on look/type for a better chance at getting laid.  I’ve been told my look is handsome daddy/military but I don’t get off on it…certainly not raised to think that way.  I told my buddy “no” and besides, the good looking guys on certain sites are far less responsive.  And I wholly agree there are a lot of narcissists out here.   I go for the average joes, blue collar, blokes because the sex is waaaay better, more primal and piggy.  Best man-sex for sure.  And the mental connections are easy and natural.