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I think many guys can separate their emotional sexual orientation from their physical.  I am 100% straight when it comes to love.  I am not attracted to men in a romantic sense at all.   But I am definitely bi when it comes to sex.   Perhaps the guy mentioned in the first post identifies as 100% straight when it comes to emotional attachment.

On 4/12/2024 at 8:20 AM, partying.hard said:

Laguna del Sol?

Yes

im here a lot in warmer weather.  

It’s been a few months since I’ve been fucked.  Im a member of a clothing optional resort. It’s mostly hetero but more and more gay guys are coming. I came out here as it’s finally over 80.  I have a trailer I keep here, so I pulled it out to camp for a few days.  Didn’t expect any action as most people come on weekends. I’m also usually here with my wife but she stayed home. 
 

I get set up and look on the apps and found two HOT guys on sniffles that are here. One I’ve chatted with before but never hooked up.  I started chatting with him and mentioned that I’m around if he wants to go for a ride. As he was about to leave, he said he’d stop by and fuck me and his buddy, the other hot guy on sniffles, would watch. They come into my trailer and I got down on my knees to suck them hard. The guy I’ve been chatting with has a thick 8” cock and his buddy is average thick and about 7”. He lubes me up and has me bent over the table and shoves his big cock in my ass. I haven’t had a cock in my ass in a few months so it hurt a bit. He goes beast mode on my ass while his buddy watches and jacks his cock. After about 10 minutes, he blows a big load up my ass.  He pulls out and his buddy shoves his cock in, unexpectedly, and pumps me for about 30 seconds and blows his big load up my ass.  They towel off and head out. Now I’m sitting here with cum oozing out of my gaping ass onto the towel I’m sitting on.  

I was fucked once by a hung coworker with a big piercing. It was hot but I felt some pain when he went deep. I don’t know if it was the PA or not. I occasionally just feel some discomfort at times.  I’d definitely love to take another PA again to see how it goes. 

Neg, not on prep.

My last big cock.  

Maybe not quite the same, but I was fucked and bred while on a zoom call for work, but my camera and mic were off.  It was still hot bending over for an anon guy who was pounding me while folks were blathering on about some work related stuff.  

@Tommy Tank's stories never fail to get me so horned up!  I've jacked off so many loads to this story.

I still use Vaseline to jack off, and to pre-lube my hole.  Sometimes I use coconut oil, which may be a better option for those who like to rim and felch but don't like the vaseline taste.  

I started man on man sex in the late ‘80’s when I was in my mid 20’s and recently married to a woman. It was condom only for many years. In the mid 90’s, I discovered a bareback story website (I forget the name now) and found it a huge turn on.  So was bareback porn. I got to where the porn had to be bareback or I couldn’t get off. Using the website barebackcity.com, I hooked up with a hot bear for the purposes of getting fucked raw and bred.  I was immediately hooked.  We hooked up a few more times after that but I started to get fucked raw more than wrapped with other guys.  I hooked up with this hot bear years later and he told me he found out he was poz around the time he was breeding me. He had a hot flip fuck session, bare of course.  
 

I continued to mostly fuck BB until I got on prep in 2014. Luckily, I never got HIV before then. Now I only fuck bare.  I stopped prep during the pandemic and haven’t bothered to get back on it.  

I had a guy once fuck me with a piercing.  He had a big dick.  I'm not sure if it was his piercing or I was just sore inside (which occasionally happens), but when he went in deep, it was a bit painful.  Luckily, he didn't take too long to pump his big load up my ass.  I'd love to take another PA and see if the pain is still there.  

I started off getting fucked with a condom, but was finding bareback porn a huge turn on.  This was around the mid 90s.  I really wanted to try to get fucked raw and take the tops cum up my ass.  I think I used a site called barebackcity.com to find a local BB top.  Him and his partner owned a bear porn company.  He was a super hot hairy bear, maybe a few years older than me at the time (I was ~30).  His cock was a thick 7" or so.   After the usual foreplay, he lubed me up and stuck his raw dick in me.  It felt SO good knowing he was raw.  He fucked me for about 15 minutes and announced he was going to cum in my ass.  That was such a turn on.  He fucked and bred me two more times after that before moving away.  

We crossed paths about 20 years later and hooked up.  We had a hot flip fuck session and swapped loads.  I learned he was Poz undetectable.  He's not sure when he got pozzed but he may have been when he bred my ass years earlier.  That was so fucking hot thinking about that.  

After my initial BB encounters, I started taking it raw about 50% of the time, slowly working to 100% in a couple of years. 

11 hours ago, gingerdaddyG said:

can relate to that!  My mother used to get a catalogue twice a year from some company or other which sold everything (this was in the 70’s/early 80’s) and the first section I looked at was the mens underwear section.

Wow - I had forgotten about that!  I used to love to look at the JC Penney catalog, usually at girls and women's bras and panty section, but I did like looking at the bulges in the men's underwear section, too.  I didn't think much of it at the time, but it's making sense now.  🙂

Mine came in my 20's.  I'm not really attracted to men and never thought of gay sex.  My best friend came out to me and I was fine with it.  One evening when I was alone, I went to the local ABS and rented a couple of gay videotapes out of curiosity.  I became incredibly turned on.   I had already played with putting things in my ass since I was a teen, and now wanted the real thing.  I eventually found another married guy on one of the old net news local groups (this was before the WWW) and we rented a hotel and flip fucked with condoms.  It was both our first times, but it was hot.  I was off to the races after that.  This would be in the late 80's.  I eventually tried bare in the mid-90's and haven't used a condom since.  

I finally got bred last Friday after an 8 month dry spell.  My wife and I moved to a new town and she no longer works, and I work from home, so it's been difficult to get away to hook up.  Last Friday, she went to visit a friend for the afternoon, so I cleaned up and got on all the hook-up apps.  I found one guy who wasn't a flake and he agreed to a quick pump and dump in my garage.  He shows up and parks and walks into the side door to the garage.  He was a cute latino chubby guy with a decent sized uncut cock.  I drop to my knees and start sucking him hard.  I turn around and bend over the work bench.  He shoves his cock up my ass and fucks me for a good 10 minutes.  It felt so good having a raw cock up my ass as it's been too long.  He finally picks up the pace and slams in me hard and unloads.  I clean him off and he's on his way out.  Right at this time, my wife calls and asks who is at the house?  Apparently, my neighbor wasn't sure anyone was home and texted me and my wife about a stranger at the house.  My wife was furious when she got home as she knew what the guy was there for.  I gave her a lame excuse but she didn't buy it.  She has since calmed down.   Looks like I won't be hosting again. 

I always had crushes on girls and women and never felt that way about guys.  I still don't.  I was a horny kid, though. Through a set of circumstances I can't mention here, I found that I loved having things in my hole at age 11.   In college, I became good friends with a fellow car guy and he eventually came out to me. I didn't think anything of it as it wasn't any big deal to me.  I think that planted a seed in my brain as when I went into a porn store, I picked up some gay porn mags out of curiosity, and found I was very turned on.  It wasn't until after college when I was married that I tried sex (with a condom) with another married guy.   That started my down low hook ups, in which I eventually dropped the condoms.  Both my ex-wife and my current GF know that I like sex with guys on occasion, but not how much!  Given my experience as a teen (that I can't mention here), it should have been obvious that I would have liked to have been fucked by guys, but it never entered my thoughts until my friend came out to me.    I sure wish it had and wonder what my life would have been like if, like many here, I hooked up with men as a teen.  

I've had a some success with sniffies.  I've had about 5 different guys over for a quick pump and dump in my shed when my wife is away.  Being an older chubby guy, I don't appeal to that many on sniffies (or grindr), unfortunately.  My last success was a couple of weeks ago at a nudist resort I frequent.  It's mostly straight but some gay guys, and closeted married guys are there.  I'm usually with my wife so hooking up is not very common, but I was there without her this time.  I found another married guy - big bear of a man, who had only fucked once before and wanted to try it again.  He came over to my trailer and I sucked him hard.  He was about 7in.  He slowly pushed into my hole and fucked me for about 3 minutes before shooting a big load up my ass.  We didn't manage to hook up again before our wives arrived.  

2 hours ago, NudistBBBLK said:

Before the days of PreP, going BB was a very hard decision. You really had to make up your mind and decide if it’s worth the risk. I always advised guys that once you go down the path of BB, it’s going to get increasingly hard to stop. It always starts the same for everyone. You start sometimes going BB and you just begin to do it more and more and more. Even when you say that you’ll stop, you find yourself being good for a little while until you find yourself just not enjoying sex as much because you like the feeling of raw cock but also because you’re now conscious of fact top is rubbered up. 
 

BB SEX is a feeling like no other and as good as being fucked feels, getting fucked with a covered cock just doesn’t feel as good/natural/excited   

 

I agree.  I insisted on condoms for many years.  About 20 years ago, I decided to try taking a guy BB.  That was it.  I rarely got fucked with a condom after that.  Being married, it was a bit stressful, but I couldn't stop.  It is addicting taking a stranger's raw dick and especially their cum up my ass.  I didn't do it very often, maybe once every couple of months, and mainly through hookup apps/sites, but I couldn't stop.  Luckily, I never got pozzed before PreP became available.  

I much prefer a dirty pussy.  As long as she doesn't have an infection, I LOVE the scent of an unwashed pussy.  An unwashed uncircumsized cock, not so much, at least not the one I sampled.  I"m not one for strong "man scents".  

My first time was with a condom but in retrospect, I wish it were bare.  Bare feels so much better and the feeling of the top pumping his cum in your ass is a real mind fuck.  With PrEP nowadays, there's no excuse not to fuck bare.  

My first cock was many years ago when I was about 23.  I was newly married.  I don't recall how I found him - maybe through the old newsgroup thing, as this pre-dates the www (in the late 80's).  He was another married guy in the closet and was also his first time.  We flip fucked each other with condoms.  I enjoyed bottoming more, but did ok as a top.  I was off to the races after that!  A few years later, I think I found a bareback website (I forget which one - but it's not around anymore), and hooked up with a hot bear who gave me my first load.  I didn't use a condom after that.  A few years later, I hooked up with this hot bear again and he was poz undetectable.  We flip fucked then and gave each other our loads.  I wonder if he was poz when he first bred me.  

I’m the same way.  I can’t imagine having sex with male friends, only strangers. Maybe it’s because I’m not emotionally attracted to men.  Only love the sex.  I also only watch anon breeding porn and pozzing porn.  I’ve yet to bend over in a dark room and take everyone’s cock and cum but it’s at the top of my bucket list. 

A few years ago, I arrived at my wife's sister's house for the Christmas holidays in New York but everyone had gone to the city to see a show.  I used this time to get on the hookup apps to find a guy to breed my ass.  I was messaging with a guy who was about a mile away and he said he'd take an Uber over.  It took him a long time to arrive and I thought he was going to flake, but he did make it.  I think he walked as he was sort of sweaty.  I let him into the basement and we got busy.  He was a hot younger african american guy a little bigger than me.  Unfortunately, he couldn't get hard enough to fuck me, but I managed to get hard, so I asked to fuck him.  He agreed and I lubed up and slid up his tight ass from behind.  I fucked him for a while and was about to cum.  It's pretty obvious when I'm getting close and he attempted to stand up and move off of me but I was having none of that.  I hung onto him tight and managed to keep my cock in his ass while I exploded inside him.  I thought that was hot breeding his ass even though he was trying to pull off me.  

I love that point of no return, both as a top and a bottom.  

On 11/25/2021 at 9:14 AM, norcalraw said:

I’ve met men in parking garages at apple’s headquarters in Silicon Valley for car play. Those techie men are honey fuckers. I’ve got a car with tinted windows so it’s pretty discreet. The top sits face forward in middle of back seat, I’ll face forward and slide down his cock reverse cowboy and ride him until he cums.  Usually it’s pretty quick and it’s very comfortable for the top. 

That’s funny! I’ve been fucked by an Apple employee in an Apple garage the exact same way.  I wonder if it’s the same guy?  

I had a hung guy with a PA fuck me once.  It was hot, but I did experience some pain when he went in deep.  I don’t know if I can blame it on the piercing, though, as I occasionally felt similar pain with unpierced cocks.   Sometimes I’m tender deep inside for some reason.  I”d love to try it again.