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  1. It's insane that guys expect to do OnlyFans etc as a living. Just insaner the money they make not even escorting as sort of work. Crazy even in the 80s and 90s actors knew they would make money from escorting and/or dancing etc at bars. In most cases had regular jobs be it bartending etc. These days they expect to live off 2 20 minute "collaborations" a week or month, nuts how entitled they are. But that's Gen Z in general 😞 in my opinion.

  2. 4 hours ago, BaphometNocturne said:

    If you are protected, you are protected. It does not matter if that person has a rare strain that is resistant to those medications. That simply means that those medications dont work for them. It does not mean that he can transfer that strain to people that are protected because theyre on ARV's or on PrEP. Ill trust my specialist and the pharmacist that handles the clinics medications on this one. They went through years of schooling for this and have been treating patients with HIV for decades. What I said came straight from their mouths.

    No that is NOT TRUE!!!! That is for SURE. BootmanLA is correct NOT what you think or did hear from your local Doctor. YOU really should google the scientific data for yourself. Although I think it's much more the case for a PrEP person with only 2 meds and I think re-infection with a stronger virus from what I've seen in studies is rare.

  3. Members of ANY Race CAN be racist, that’s obvious. It’s wrong to say otherwise. Have I been a victim of racism, of course, you go to into a restaurant and are ignored by the staff while they bend over backward for those of their race. 

  4. 7 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

    I pointed out that Biden's use of "inshallah" wasn't a coded signal for support of Shariah Law or anything else the nutball right wing seems to think it was, and you called me "intolerant" in response. You were, as I read it, effectively endorsing the position of those nutcases that one can't use an Arabic phrase without it being a sign that one is secretly controlled by some Islamic cabal.

    If that's not what you meant, fine. I still don't see where I'm intolerant of anything except other people's intolerance. Being a tolerant person does not mean accepting other people's intolerance, especially when it's based strictly on religious bigotry.

    I said nothing about Muslims nor did it have to do with them just your reaction to those who disagree with you. You seem intolerant of ANYONE who doesn't support your political view. 

    You also seem intolerant that Gays would prefer our neighborhood still be Boystown. You can think the name should change FINE!! but you can't seem to be tolerant that the majority gay/straights/everyone in the survey said keep the name and the vast majority like 80% did not think the name was a problem. And that people feeling that way is a valid point of view.

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  5. 18 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

    ChiBtm2Breed is one of those seriously intolerant people who thinks gays and lesbians have to reject all Muslims because some of their leadership in some Muslim-majority countries are highly intolerant of homosexuality. And laughingly, he has the nerve to suggest that if we object to that broad brush-painting, we are the intolerant ones. He's just another bigot. 

    You are the Intolerant one Obviously. You are making things up, where did I say anything about Muslims being bad at all? I didn't you imagined something out of thin air.

  6. On 10/5/2020 at 5:29 PM, BootmanLA said:

    Ahem. I said that was what "Inshallah" means in Arabic and Farsi. I did not say people here routinely say "if god wills it".  That said, I hear "God willing" (which is exactly the same thing) all the time. Maybe where you live, there aren't a lot of people who believe in a god, I dunno. But it's not an uncommon phrase.

    In any event: you've been told what the word means in both Arabic and Farsi. What do YOU think he meant by it? Do you think it's like "420" as code for pot, or "Tina" as code for crystal meth? I'm curious what your deranged mind "thinks" (used in quotes since there's no thought apparently involved).

     

    Feeling triggered yet?

    Says the supporter of the candidate who has actual allegations of pedophilia against him. Says the supporter of the candidate who cavorted regularly with a known pedophile. Says the supporter of the candidate who bragged about how "stacked" his daughter was and how "if she wasn't my daughter I'd probably be dating her".

    Projection is a terrible affliction, buddy, but there is help. See a therapist.

    Seriously, dude, you're becoming (okay, not becoming, just "are") unhinged. You're Baker Act material.

     

    Wow, Sad you are intolerant.

  7. 19 hours ago, drscorpio said:

    It happened pretty quickly and without a lot of apparent push back. Hopefully, that means it is for the best. If the name had only been around 25-30 years, it is hardly a big loss of history. 

    Actually there was a HUGE PUSHBACK. The Turds on the Board ignored initial petitions that wanted the name kept. They did their own survey and admitted they went AGAINST OVERWHELMING sentiment. 58% said Definitely keep the name and 80%!!! said they had no problem with the name. We will see how much business and Donation money they get from festivals. Those donations go straight into their organizations pockets. I certainly won't ever pay the $10 donation again. And in Chicago since they are held on streets I pay for it is strictly optional.

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  8. Hi planning to do the Cumunion at SW tonight. I went once before and though they say 3rd floor didn't get much attention. Is third floor best or aam I better off getting a room on the main floor? Bearish bottom guy here and was wondering if the folks attending at Jackhammer Cumunion are same mix or maybe older and bearier?

  9. I contracted meningitis back in 2007 in South Florida; it had the exact symptoms of Hiv; i ignored it as a regular flu and it literally almost killed me! 8 gay men died in NYC from menengitis last year; i dont know if we are a prone to it due to anal sex (which is amazing!!!) or just having a weaker imune system by trying to stay thin like i did back then, howerer take one final Hiv blood test; they have the 3 week window period one that is very accurate, are you having any other symptoms other than a high fever?

    I have had a stiff/sore neck last couple, days shoulder/upper back soreness comes and goes, last couple days had mild headaches

  10. Are you really having a fever everyday? Could it be like a meningitis type infection? Usually a continuous fever can indicate your body fighting us a rare infection.

    Yes everyday it hits at least around 100+ for awhile. A few years back, I got the vaccination for whatever meningitis version was going showing up in the gay community.

  11. Just keep us posted for those that are new to this like me

    Sorry haven't posted still no answer still have fevers every day. Went to clinic 5 wks-1 day post exposure for the 1 minute HIV test no antigen negative. Next day, 5 wks post exposure went in doctor ran a whole bunch of tests including what is listed as a 4th generation with antigen w/RFL hiv test and it came back negative. From what I have read those tests with antigen for a majority maybe big majority would be positive by that long after exposure? Would you rule HIV out as the issue?

     

    Tests included Hep B/TB/Chlamydia/Gono all neg and I'm vaccinated for A&B. I was Hep C negative in Feb test. Also comprehensive metabolic panel all good a couple liver enzymes just above reference range AST/ALT but doc wasn't concerned. Any ideas?

  12. I don't understand the need to disclose the guys skin color - risk taking isn't race based. sounds highly unlikely to me that you've got fuck flu.

    In my city, the hiv prevalence rate is much higher in non-white population and they on average are less likely to be connected to care/undetectable, that is all.

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  13. Safe is his choice, you as an anonymous bottom who he or anyone can't trust saying on PrEP or negative etc wanted bb. Neither is wrong, and both should be respected, and condoms do help with other stds too. As a top, he has more choices to pick from. It's not "stigma", it's respecting each person's choices and if they don't match, you either agree to safe or move on hoping to find another top.

  14. I know it would seem unlikely by the stats but am concerned. I am experiencing symptoms that could be the "fuck" flu. I have been on PrEP for a year and a half. Have not missed a daily dose in over 6 months. To my knowledge have never gotten the regular flu.

     

    Only recent encounter, Wed July 13th had unprotected sex with 2 guys at the bathhouse, one I'm not worried about because we have played before is strictly top says he's neg on PrEP himself and have exchanged contact info etc. Other one was a black guy, I let him fuck me, I got bored after 5-10 minutes and said take a break not sure if he came but he didn't tell me. No talking, no idea of his status.

     

    2.5 weeks later threw up late evening after afternoon brunch, I never throw-up. For the last 2 weeks been more tired, feel like I have a fever (confirmed yesterday and today 100.5 or higher) and some body aches mostly shoulder/upper back etc. Had one night a few days ago where I woke up and had a nightsweat by my head.

     

    How likely is it conversion? If it's happened would it show up on a rapid hiv test yet? Any thoughts would be appreciated. Any idea of other things it could be?

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  15. On PrEP have taken some loads but want to be a real Cumdump at the upcoming party.. Haven't been to CumUnion, their party posting suggests a room on the 3rd floor. It usually is not as busy up there on the few regular days I've been there as the main floors. For those who have been to the parties is the 3rd floor the best on that day to maximize loads??? .Beefy, bearish guy here. Any other advice on maximizing getting bred? Also are the "lights outs" better than regular days?

  16. Longtime lurker here sorry for the long post. I have been on PrEP for almost 9 months. Trying to decide if Truvada could be responsible. I'm so exhausted/achy in lots of places/icky and keeps getting worse (could never have the energy for a job at this point its that bad). I don't even feel like the hassle of sex lately. Also since being on Truvada I have had unexplained weight gain of 25 lbs. (and was quite overweight before that). I also swear that on Truvada alcohol affects me much more and less pleasant. Btw, I have been on other meds for blood pressure a longtime.

     

    My old doctor had been trying figure this out but I lost her and have seen a nurse practitioner who ordered lots of tests (she's not familiar with PrEP) everything so far comes up negative. Normal metabolic panel - liver, kidney, blood counts; thyroid, Stds, B12, borderline low D treating, testosterone, EKG. All normal including my total cholesterol though odd in past been at around 200 this time came in at 128. The new nurse basically doesn't have any ideas what to try/consider, does anyone here?

     

    I have read its rare but seems there is a separate test for lactic acid which to knowledge has not been run is that worthwhile though I see weight loss with that? Would it show up in any other counts? Any ideas?

     

    Thinking about taking a break from Truvada (never missed a dose so far). Last sex was 40 days ago so should be good on risk? How long if it's the problem to know it is or is not the Truvada, a few days, a week or (out of my system and feel better without it)? If I stop how long do you think I need to get back on it before risky sex?

     

    Any ideas either related to Truvada or not would be helpful. Thanks.

  17. Yes, I am in Chicago. I have not had a bareback encounter in many years (despite my screen name) but is damn hot and love BB porn and watching. I had read NYC does offer free PEP but did not see anything searching online for Chicago, I am trying to call around. One HIV community organization say they do not know of any help with the medication costs gave me another organization to call and am waiting to hear back.

    I have the vague feeling that if someone has hiv they can get their meds real cheap here (if no income etc) but not helpful in prevention. Maybe I could have been more confident in his telling the truth before but maybe not. It was going to be condom anyway and thought it was a good sign he went for the condom without being asked.

  18. I went to our local bathhouse that had their Cumunion party last night. I am much more of a voyeur for bb fucking so far and though a very hot idea, I always end up using condoms. The "party" goes on along with the regular bathhouse business in the same space, so probably a mix of party people and regular business. I got a room.

    After sucking one guy for awhile, the guy fucked me (who by wrist strap indicated top) partway through the condom was intact but at some point, the condom broke.

    I am trying to judge my risks. We had not discussed status or condoms before hand. He was the one who went to put on a condom before I had to say anything (though it was on tight). After it happened, I asked him if he was neg and if he came. He said he was neg and he did not cum. As far as I could tell, there was not cum in my ass either.

    I know there are a number of scenarios. He did it purposely being positive assuming I'd ask for a condom at some point and then made it break, he is positive and was trying to protect me, or he is neg and did not want to catch anything himself.

    I am trying to figure my risks. I have seen averages quoted on thebody of 5 in 1000 with a known positive partner. I know there is PEP but don't have the money for it (guessing $600-1000) and no insurance.

    Since he grabbed the condom without asking is there a good chance he's told the truth about being negative? What is everyone's thought?

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