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7 minutes ago, LthrRaw said:

I can understand their reluctance to allow parties.

All well put! Having a couple of trusted fuck buddies there is great, but 20 guys off the street ain't a good idea.

13 minutes ago, barebackbro said:

That would leave just Sydney Sauna and the Den as the only serious sex venues anywhere near the city.

I forgot Trade, but that hardly counts ...

I'm so sorry, @BredByJ. What a terrible blow.

I hope you can take some comfort from all the pleasure you gave him this year.

57 minutes ago, POZBB84 said:

I wish Sydney had somewhere but as a city it sucks for anything sex related. I always get a lot more whenever I'm in Melbourne 

I live in Melbourne but am in Sydney a lot. When I'm there, I get plenty of fucks from plenty of hot guys, but I agree Melbourne is much better in terms of venues and approach to sex.

It's so sad for Sydney. Bodyline has gone, as has Signal, and years ago, Ken's. 357 is next; the building has been sold and it's hard to see the sauna relocating. That would leave just Sydney Sauna and the Den as the only serious sex venues anywhere near the city.

29 minutes ago, POZBB84 said:

Might have to book in a stay at the gatehouse then. Thought it would be gone with 80s demise.

It's still being run by the same people.

The one problem is that they seem to discourage big parties, but if you're a bit discreet, it should be fine.

If you're coming from interstate, there would be nowhere better to stay. If only Sydney had an equivalent 😞

6 minutes ago, Cubbtm4poz said:

Hey @barebackbro hows this?

That is hot!

It's much more enticing. Of course, as other people have said, online hookups are inherently unreliable, but I think the new profile will boost your chances.

Make sure you report back in a month or two.

9 hours ago, Bffme said:

My fantasy is to be blindfold on the sling and have guys come in and breed my hole

For that, I'd set up in one of the slings at Wet on Wellington -- before or after the gangbang at the Gatehouse!

6 hours ago, Cubbtm4poz said:

Do i need to rewrite it?

First, it's not you.

I'm not criticising your profile, but I wonder whether you could emphasise what you're offering. Your first sentence is positive, but the next two explain what you don't want. Rather than putting the exclusions up front, maybe you could say more about yourself first.

17 hours ago, Bffme said:

I’m planning to stay there next month. Is it a good place to take loads? 

If you’re heading down from Sydney, it’s definitely the place to stay. It’s in the hardcore gay part of town and the sling and other facilities make it perfect. Hope you catch some big dicks and loads!

On 10/5/2022 at 7:08 PM, daveinkent1 said:

True. However, my question was to the people who have been in bot situations. I have cheated on my partner, but never with his knowledge or permission. I have never been on an open relationship,  and I was wondering to the the people that have experienced both, which they found most exciting. Clearly, my question was poorly worded, but that's where I was going. 

Great question.

My experience is:

• in an genuinely open relationship without loads of rule, it's easier to fuck with other guys, so you get plenty of action
• when you're cheating, there are fewer opportunities and you can sometimes be rushed BUT that bad boy sex is usually amazing

On 8/24/2022 at 8:19 AM, SFCumdog said:

And I really miss that cute guy from Texas that wrote all the great stories about his adventures. 

Do you mean @curiousdallas? Damn he was hot, and made the most of it!

It seems his profile is inactive 😞

8 hours ago, KylerIsTrash said:

Cumcicles are fun. I think I have a vid somewhere of a guy filling up my ass with some. The frozen cubes are hard for me to get in because of the shape. I like the cold but I can’t relax my hole to the temperature 🤣. One of my regular fuck buds has a bullet ice cube tray that he freezes loads in for me. They go in a lot easier than the cubes.

@KylerIsTrash, this is all super complex, so maybe you could upload a video of you using the cum bullets, purely for educational purposes ...

It does strike me as a little weird. I've never seen a "toy washing sink" specially advertised. All the same, I think you might be reading too much into it.

It might be a local health department requirement, or an odd throwaway line to describe a random sink. I don't think it's a major encouragement to bring toys.

Last weekend, I was at a sauna and kept cruising a super-hot twink. He was about 20, 6'3, blonde, thin ... He ignored me, and I would have done the same if I were him.

Then he wandered into the darkroom, maybe by accident. My towel was over my shoulder and I brushed my hard cock against his leg. He grabbed my cock (which is a decent size) and instantly bent over. I fucked him for a while and it was great, but someone had knocked over a bottle of poppers and I eventually needed some air.

He immediately followed me out. His gorgeous eyes were practically begging me -- and he dragged me back into the darkroom. Damn I blew a big load in him!

We would both have missed out on that awesome fuck if he hadn't wandered into the darkroom.

4 hours ago, NudistBBBLK said:

Overall it’s kinda sad and makes sense why HIV is so prevalent in poor areas.

Thank you, @NudistBBBLK.

I had the sheer luck of being born in a country that has world-class publicly-subsidised health care. Even here, I'm sure that many guys outside the big cities don't know about PreP, don't feel comfortable visiting the one doctor and pharmacist in town, or would struggle to pay for the medication (which would be about USD30 a month). I'm sure the same is true for STI testing.

Thanks for reminding me, and I'm sure others, about the privilege of the options I have.

4 minutes ago, BootmanLA said:

I think what I find confusing is how PrEP figures into this. Other than the fact that someone on it can't contract HIV, every other aspect of this is identical whether either party is on PrEP or not.

I think it's very disingenuous to claim "bareback sex" (or a devotion to it) isn't real if there is PrEP involved. 

I agree that not using prep isn't an essential condition for being a dedicated barebacker. (Eager bareback fucking without prep is probably a sufficient condition, though!)

Apart from the fact of not using a condom, the distinction seems entirely mental.

On 9/13/2022 at 1:58 AM, PigBoyDallas said:

I have got hit on by Lyft and Uber drivers here in the US and I've taken them up on it. Meter wasn't running and I guess it was a "tip" of sorts. Last one I did it with was this tall cute blonde guy in his early 20s. ... wound up him barebacking me and pumping two loads in my ass. 

Man! Now I'm tempted to start Uber driving, but only late on weekends near the gay clubs ...

In some English-speaking countries, male-male anal sex without condoms is now overwhelmingly the norm. Most of the people posting here are probably from those countries (though there are plenty of exceptions and everyone's welcome!). Given that, we might question why the site still exists - yet it seems to be thriving!

We are all struggling for precision, but I think what @amanwithaplan333 has identified is a devotion to bareback sex.

Some of the signs might be:

• barebacking without prep
• refusing hot guys if they want a condom to be used
• feeling there is something sacred about bareback sex
• obsessing over bareback sex
• enjoying the risk of bareback sex
• and as @amanwithaplan333 mentions, 'a particular lust for cum'.

On 9/12/2022 at 8:36 AM, Stiff14me20 said:

 Ethically I know I shouldn’t be offering my ass for use until after treatment

We've all been there and you have my sympathy.

As I'm sure you know, whatever the treatment is, the cure isn't instantaneous. The period after you've been treated but before you've been cured is the toughest. I find the best option is to jerk off more than usual. Start first thing in the morning!

On 8/22/2022 at 8:32 AM, Barebacker831 said:

I like to be sucking on his head so it fills my mouth and I can taste it and enjoy it before I swallow.

I totally agree. I don't love sucking and always prefer anal or anything kinky, but I love the taste of a good load. If it goes straight down my throat, I miss the best part!

Just now, barebackbro said:

I've always loved pissing, especially in public. My 'first time' that was vaguely sexual was pissing on myself in the bath, with a raging hard on.

I should add that when I come across guys who are interested in piss play but nervous about it, my advice is always that they try pissing on themselves in the shower. If that turns them on, they'll love watersports. It's never failed yet!

I've always loved pissing, especially in public. My 'first time' that was vaguely sexual was pissing on myself in the bath, with a raging hard on.

I went to the next piss party I could!

Am I the only one wondering why (or where) all these piss-filled condoms are lying around?

On 9/2/2022 at 6:06 PM, BareLover666 said:

I'd like to add that if the rest of the world had helped earlier outbreaks of monkeypox in the parts of Africa where it was already endemic, we wouldn't be in this mess we're in now.

I'm sure we can all agree on this.

Like most people here, I take it as a compliment if I make a guy blow fast. That's especially true if it's at a bathhouse, sex club or beat, where a longer fuck might be ten minutes away.

If I'm topping and blow really fast, I usually offer to fuck him a second time once I'm hard again. That's partly generosity and partly greed - if he's that hot or his ass is that good, I want back in!