Those who have HIV how do you really feel? there is a disconect....

[norefusal]

i don't understand where all of this is going. of course poz guys are going to say they have no regrets because it's the only healthy and productive way to move forward accepting facts. regrets over things you can't change is counterproductive imho. it's "normal" to feel pride about who you are. 

we all waste time thinking about what we'd do differently if we had the chance to do it all again and the truth is we all did what we did because that's what made the most sense for us at that time. do overs would make us different people in both good and bad ways. not better, just different. 

but at the end of the day, chasing is a 100% personal choice. no one can tell you to chase or not to chase. we each do what works for us.