POZ TOPS, do you always tell a bottom that you are poz ?

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never! ...opposite: i look like a sane guy i always look for neg guy, possibly young, just to try to poz them! and if they ask me something i always say NO, SURE. I'M NEG ...and even if they ask me to put on a condom.... i always pull it off while i'm fuckin i love to poz the world! ))

I personally find this terrible and hearing stuff like this is one of the reasons why I'm always hesitant with hooking up with people. I personally have no problem with hooking up with poz guys willing to wear a condom (I'm not at a point in my life that I feel comfortable about opening myself to becoming HIV+). It's fucking awful that gay guys have to worry about this kind of shit. I had this happen to me before and it really has made me very nervous about hooking up with guys. I've had a guy take off the rubber during sex before when I was 18 and was one of the first people I ever hooked up with. I'm not sure if he was HIV+ or not but thankfully I didn't catch anything.