Administrators rawTOP Posted February 27, 2010 Administrators Report Share Posted February 27, 2010 Click here to see Defiant HIV+ Bareback Fucker's original blog post... I had a guy on adam4adam write me today to scold me and tell me that I should be ashamed of myself. Ashamed of myself for basically looking to hook up with other guys while being HIV positive. Never mind that I declare that status in my profile to let others know what they are dealing with should they decide to hit me up. I guess I am supposed to be celibate for the rest of my life... I suppose, in his thinking, it would be far better if I did not state my status and just said that I wanted to fuck bareback. Should I have lied and said that I am HIV negative? Would that have made him happy? Perhaps he was interested in what he saw in my photos and would have seized on the opportunity if I had only avoided telling the truth. Perhaps he likes to fuck bareback and was startled to find that someone he thought was interesting was actually out there and playing, even with an HIV positive status. If a guy tells you he is HIV negative you are no safer while taking his raw cock in your hole than if he had said he was HIV positive. The words do nothing to protect you from the potential outcome. The only thing that can protect you is YOUR decision to not engage in condomless sex. Many of us that are HIV positive state clearly that we are, and you make your choices when YOU decide to play with us. Others choose not to state their status and some choose to lie. If you want to take raw cock or fuck raw hole this is the reality you face. Who are these freaks that want to stick their head up their ass and pretend that anyone they hook up with must be negative. If you are HIV negative. If you also like bareback sex. Please do not pretend that you have no risk, if and when you engage in this gloriously awesome behavior. I was strictly a top and also choose to never ever use a condom and here we are. I am now HIV positive. I am okay with my HIV status. If you wanna fuck raw, you need to come to terms with your risk and not blame anyone other than perhaps yourself if you find one day that you are on the other side of that line. It would be better, though, that you come to terms with the risk to the point that blame is understood to be what it is, a fucking waste of time and energy. All of this is said to come down to this: In theory, everyone that reads my posts is an adult. This means we are each responsible for our own actions. I am not responsible for you and you are not responsible for me. I don't mean this in a cold way (I am not a hard core Libertarian but rather quite liberal, bordering on Socialist). Instead, I am talking about decisions and choices. You make yours and I make mine. The consequences or rewards of these choices are also each our own. This is true even for my little friend on adam4adam. In spite of his judegementalism and naivety, at the end of it all, he is responsible for only himself and really should mind his own fucking business. Me? I fuck raw with any willing guy, as long as he is hot and in full control of his own destiny. More... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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