Ask to pull out! Just at t monent of cumming

[Fuckmesl]

I went the sauna to find some great holes to breed. When I met this sexy Italian guy. That as soon as we found a free cubical he spat in his hand to lube up my cock and push it up his arse! Had a hit of poppers and we were in ecstasy! He had the arse becomes juicier as you fuck! Then at the point when I'm about to cums! He pulls my dick out like it was the most shocking thing in his life!! It was like an alarm bell went off!! Left me feeling disorientated.

Please someone help me understand the pulling out technic? Lol. Personal as a versatile guy, there's nothing better than giving or receiving a load deep inside!!

[bb1991]

Pulling out is a way to reduce risk from barebacking. There is still risk from precum and from accidents obviously. Guys bareback but not everyone wants HIV (or at least are trying to put off catching HIV for as long as they can).

I think there was even a HIV charity a while back that was telling people "cum like a porn star: all over his back". Sort of a message that said, we know you are going to bareback - reduce your risk by not taking the load.

Interestingly in the UK sometimes doctors won't give you PEP unless the guy cums in you; some docs wont give PEP (even if they came in you) unless they suspect the guy was poz.

[HungLatinDom]

Completely absurd, as a risk lowering practice.

[savagecharm]

Pulling out just before cumming kills the experience for me. Like i had this hot 24 y/o jock that wanted to get pounded. So after setting up our rendezvous on a4a he asked if i was poz, i was honest and he said just pull out. I kindly declined the hook up. Maybe once he's taken the plunge

[Fuckmesl]

I must admit mine was a brief encounter in a sauna. So he was riding the like his life depending on it! With no words about pulling out! I felt like someone just nicked money out me wallet! Really unexpected! Yea I do feel cheated!! Robbed even!! Lol

[bb1991]

Completely absurd, as a risk lowering practice.

Yes and no. It's obviously lower risk than having a huge load of cum sloshing about up there.

But if you're not wanting to catch anything, you shouldn't really be fucking anon guys bareback in saunas...

There are guys that bareback, accept the risk of HIV and who try to hold off catching it though. -not everyone is a bug chaser wanting to catch it as soon as possible.

And it does make sense to avoid it for as long as you can. HIV isn't nice to live with; the meds are a pain and have some very nasty side effects. I know poz guys that haven't have sex since converting because the meds have destroyed their libido. Others that have had to give up their jobs because the side effects made work too difficult for them. Some countries don't have free healthcare , so even getting meds could be an issue; and most places don't class HIV as a "disability" that you can give up work for.

And ultimately HIV still kills; the average person with meds lives 20-40 years after infection. Considerably less if the meds don't work or opportunistic infections get the better of you.

So really, even if you are a committed barebacker and accept that you will eventually catch HIV, it still makes sense to try and avoid catching it for as long as possible because it means you can go on having sex and being healthy for the longest time possible.

[HungLatinDom]

How lower is the risk? Sounds like getting a triple burger with extra cheese and bacon, nachos, ice cream and a then ordering diet coke because you are watching your weight.

Probably negligible. People get HIV all the time without getting cum in the ass. As a top who got it topping, I can tell you that

[bb1991]

I agree; its not a way to avoid it totally. But is a way to reduce risk (as a bottom) and hopefully put off catching as long as you can

The two big Gay/HIV charities in the UK both say that it reduces risk for bottoms. But yeah - you will still catch it eventually if your fucking bareback.

"What about pulling out before cumming

Pulling out before cumming will reduce the chance of HIV transmission for the guy who's getting fucked, but not for the guy doing the fucking. There is more HIV in cum than there is in pre-cum, in terms of both the quantity of the body fluid and the concentration of HIV in that liquid. However it is still possible to get infected from pre-cum, although it is less likely than if the guy doing the fucking cums inside the arse.

Withdrawing before cumming makes little difference to the chances of catching other sexually transmitted infections. It also makes little difference if the negative partner is the person doing the fucking."

*http://www.gmfa.org.uk/sex/hivandaids/unprotected-sex

"If a man with HIV ejaculates inside his partner, this raises the risk of infection. Pulling out before ejaculation lowers the risk but this can be hard for men to control so shouldn’t be relied on. Also, HIV is found in pre-cum - so even if a man manages to pull out before this happens, he could infect a partner when his pre-cum gets inside his partner."

*http://www.tht.org.uk/sexual-health/HIV-STIs/Sex-and-risk/Unprotected-sex

[bbzh]

I had this happen a lot to me years ago but not so much nowadays. I also used to let guys bb me but told them not to shoot inside. I think it does help reduce risk (somewhat). But hey at least you got to feel his hole without a rubber. :-)

[Guest slobbvers]

I'm neg. Just had a fb over, probably last time. As I start to fuck him he asks me not to cum in him. Odd that the times before he was OK with my cumming in him.