How do I cum faster?

[Scottop]

For years I have had a problem of taking too long to cum or not shoot at all when I am fucking a guy. It happened again this afternoon. Fucked a guy, 34 year-old with nice body I found very attractive, fucked him for ages in different positions....then jerked off....but that took forever. Eventually came but I was covered in sweat due to the exertion. I'd welcome some tips on how to actually cum when I am fucking. Has happened once a few months ago, but otherwise it is torture. Any suggestions?

[atlfukbud]

I think it's a mental thing -- My main top guy and several fuck buds CAN penetrate for over an hour without cumming, but being verbal or fucking somewhere more "risky" from the balcony to beach to the neighbors yard -- they can cum very quickly when necessary. Spice it up and see what happens?

[Scottop]

I certainly find it helps if there is some bareback porn on too. It's definitely some kind of mental block and I have to find ways of unlocking. The problem is I start fucking with the expectation that I'm not going to shoot properly and that doesn't help.

One of my recent fucks that wasn't quite as tortured was with an older bottom, not usually my type, but I almost shot when he sucked me - and that was unusual. Most bottoms aren't great at oral - he was great. Then I slid into him and I came sooner than usual. It was almost public as it was near a window in a tower block in Manchester, technically Salford,- but the dawn was rising so there wasn't anyone about. I suppose the risk was there.