What Am I?

[Guest diapbttmboi]

How would you describe me?

 

I like to take cock and cum like most bottoms here. I like anonymous cock and cruising, especially glory holes.

 

The issue though is explaining this to guys I'm looking to hook up with. No I don't want to kiss or cuddle. I don't want to be friends after and I don't want you to get me off when you've blown. My desire is the cock, not the guy. It's getting worse trying to explain this, guys just don't get it.

 

I'm thinking if I lived in a big city I'd have no issue but I don't.

 

I don't exatly 'need' a label for it, but it's frustrating me.

[Guest diapbttmboi]

Thanks lads I feel better.

[Guest PozGoat]

I'm no advice guru but I'll take a shot at answering..

 

1. Its always best to set boundaries with a potential sex partner right from the start. When I'm at a bath and whether I approach someone or someone approaches me, the first thing out of my mouth is that I am HIV poz for full disclosure, then I ask what they are into and that I am a vers fucker/ffister and am looking for something along those lines but I'm also very open. I then ask the dude what he is into, looking for etc.

 

That way I/we set boundaries before any play happens. Noone time gets wasted and we end up playing like horny depraved pigs or we go our seperate ways due to finding out we arent into the same things.

 

No harm, no foul. No one's time gets wasted and we move on to the next conquest..

 

2. Find a hot gloryhole and put your ass up to it. That way you are only there to bottom.

 

Nothing wrong with telling a guy that you're only wanting to get fucked. Setting boundaries or telling the guy what you're looking for is nothing new and it won't hurt anyone's feelings.

 

Hope this helps..

 

Oink

[Pig Bottom]

Set boundaries before hand if it's a set up hook up.  You just want dick.  Try to move to a big city where you can find a place with a dark room so you don't have to deal with guys other than their dick.