Overcumming Ejaculation Issues

[topstud127]

Guys with problems ejaculating, have you figured out how to overcome them? Whether you cum too soon, too late, irregularly, only one way, just topping or bottoming or jerking, whatever.

 

I mentioned a couple days ago, that I was very hit and mostly miss when it came to cumming and topping. I read some stuff on tantric breathing throughout the body, channeling energy, relaxing, and staying in the moment and its helped a lot.

 

I still can't cum while bottoming. I've NEVER cum from head. I'm not that great at pulling out and aiming. I tend to fail under pressure (with an audience or I feel rushed).

 

Any tips or similar experiences?

Edited February 24, 2016 by topstud127

[BrockTop1973]

I have never bottomed, so nothing to share on that, but as I mentioned in the other thread I do often have trouble coming when I top. These days I tend to warn guys in advance that it often takes me a long time, and that it may not happen at all. Some take that as a challenge, bug I've worn out more than one guy and it's frustrating for all involved.

I tend towards anxiety generally, and I think I'm getting stuck in an analytical/observer mode instead of losing myself in the emotion and sensation of the sex. I wish I could figure out how to flip that switch.