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About topstud127

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  1. How often do you see particular fuck buds? Once a week, once a month, multiple times a week, every few months? Why
  2. Turning potential fucks away

    Just left one as he was blowing me. Clearly older than stated, pics are no where near a reflection of his current looks, could smell that he just used the bathroom and cleaned out. I wanted to leave as soon as I saw him but went along with it for a few minutes and then politely said "I'm not feeling it, I'm sorry" and we got dressed from there.
  3. Absorb Or Push Out Cum?

    Keep it in for a little bit but out when I go pee or if I have on clothes I don't wanna soil. If it wasn't much or got in dep enough, I'll let it absorb.
  4. Best douching techniques

    Pure For Men. Check Amazon. I take it for regularity and shape
  5. How do you respond when your top has an issue keeping a firm erection? This tend to happens as I commonly go for guys in their early 50s. If they bottom, no problem. Tops, if its a first time hook up with not much pre planning or chatting there won't be a second time. If its a long term bud or someone I know a bit better, I'll take the top bunk. In my head, I've knocked them down a few pegs on the fuck bud list. I have one guy that I'm seeing next week and I plan to mention it and will provide a Cialis or Viagra if he's comfortable with it. He was a great tight when I first got to know him. Good size, passionate, connected, but can't keep wood these days so I end up topping or limited his top time and then flip him over. Messy bottoms: unless we hit it off really well, there won't be a second time. I'll normally rinse off and excuse myself. Later on in the relationship, once or twice, no biggy, go clean up and we'll finish another way. If it consistently happens, I demote or remove people down my mental fuck bud hierarchy. One guy I don't see anymore because he's made a mess and shown that he doesn't clean or know how to (guess the first clean time was a fluke) AND he suffers from ED. Sucks cause I'm quite attracted to him. Btw, as a top, I can tell when you didn't make an effort to clean out or when you "missed a spot" or put too much water up there. Either way, I have no problem with you saying "you're unsure" or "not today."
  6. advice on being very clean bottom

    Use the 4.5 ounce enema bottles when your rectum is in its rested state (not stretched/extended). Just water and one full squeeze. This way, over the bulb and hose, you don’t suffer from too much water and rinsing things that weren’t ready to come out for awhile. Therefore, quick and consistent rinses.
  7. Quantity or Quality?

    Indeed. We all love casual sex, but there are some people where your bodies, personalities, sexual styles compliment each other and its the most connected experience. Those are magical.
  8. How to enjoy bottoming?

    You guys hit the nail right on the head... aligning my brain with my hole... I’ll check out the book, any other suggestions or personal tips? Ive previously had luck with tantric breathing and channeling my thoughts/energy but no dice when bottoming.
  9. How to enjoy bottoming?

    How to enjoy bottoming. Not just taking the dick or being glad someone's pounding you, but to really connect your mind and body and get lost in euphoria.... how do you? I can do it topping but bottoming, its great when my prostate is getting teased but general strokes feel... disconnected.
  10. Married but wanting to bareback

    ^^^ and "you're gay and have been deceiving me all these years" is another level of hurt, deceit and shame to put on them. It easily invalidatws all you've ever been.
  11. Deep Dicking is overrated.

    Full length, balls deep fucking is overrated. Physically, you only feel the pressure. More sensation comes from short and midrange fucking. That's where the prostate takes you to cloud 9 and you tingle from a mushroom head sliding in and out. As a top, and one who gives p-gasms and hands free ejaculations, thats where then sensation and overloads comes form. My more limited bottoming record, I only drift off into physically pleasure when my hole is teased and my prostate is struck, rammed, and methodically rubbed. Thats where I'm nearly getting off until a top decides to repeatedly bottom out. I love being stuffed, feeling pressure, fully stretched, and someones pubes on my ass, but that alone doesn't do it.
  12. Great story, great writing. Thank you!
  13. Bottoms: Your Cleaning Regime?

    Going back to the 4.5 ounce fleet bottles. You don't have to deal with the issue of too much water which always happens with me.
  14. Thinking that most average or smaller dicks don't get me off as easily, what's it like to realize your dick isn't big enough or you aren't a great enough top to get your bottom off? Or vice versa as a bottom.
  15. Introducing the Squatty Potty

    We have one that was a gag gift but it helps when using the "potty." Makes a nice stool and keeps your legs from going number if you're sitting for bit. I prefer to keep my feet on the floor if I'm expelling water, though. I get a better feel of if the water came out that way.

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