Help cumming

[topstud127]

I need to control when I cum

I  take too long, lose it if I hold off a bit, or don't cum at all. Its a chronic issue thats frustrating for me and my bottoms. The sex can be great but whether I cum is crapshoot these days.

How do you let your load build up and shoot when you're ready? As specific as you can be; physically, mentally, any and everything, please.

I created a similar thread awhile back in regards to cumming while bottoming. I still have the same issue but I bottom so rarely, its not as important. Tantric techniques helped me when I couldn't cum at all, but I seem to be regressing and it never fully solved the issue.

Thanks a ton.