situational anorgasmia

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I used to live out in the californian high desert where it was particularly difficult to find a bb bottom sex mate. I bumped into this guy at a threeway. We hit it off mentally, and since he was neighborhood close. I proceeded to fuck him regularly over a year period. In maybe 20 fucks, I only came once.

Now that I have moved to los angeles, I fuck defferent bottoms all the time, I have found that what I once thought was a major problem with my cock is only a minor problem with the chemistry I have with the sex partner.....Some guys can suck a load out of me every time. Some guys do shit while Im fucking them to distract me and I will never cum, some bottoms start off hot the first couple of fucks and then the situational anorgasmia appears and I know our relationship is doomed.

I get jealous of tops who can cum every time with any bottom. Just wondering how many other tops find that its more mental to achieve an orgasm than just physical? The term is situational anorgasmia. Means u cannot achieve orgasm in certain situations. and those situations should be determined and eliminated....