Loose/Tight bottom's ass and hung bottoms

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A lot of guys nowadays seek out bottoms with tight and and hung cocks. However when asked to define tightness and hung they are unable to answer.

My experience last night with a really hot 🔥 guy. He was looking for a tight and hung bottom. Even though I use dildos to practice my ass grip and I am 8inches cut with low hangers, the guy could not fuck me saying that I have a pretty tight ass for him to pound. He tried to open me up with almost a fist and my dildo but still could not fuck me. I finished riding on his fingers and he blew down my throat.

My question is what is the definition for tight ass and hung cock? I understand that its very subjective however there has to be some standard. Also do any of you bottoms out there face similar dilemma while hooking up?