Cutedelicategay
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Tested positive for Syphillis....
Cutedelicategay replied to Cubbtm4poz's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Just so you know your Titre once they decrease by 4 folds that means from 1:64 to 1:16 after penicillin shot you are considered cured. Usually any rash or chancre cures within 7 to 10 days. You should be OK with sex in 10 days or so. Titre drop takes at least a couple months however doesn't mean you are infectious after 10 days. Titre is a medical indicator that you are cured. You may take almost 5-7 years for titre to go 0. Also your RPR will always be positive indicating you have syphilis antibodies. However your titre will indicate that you are treated and cured. -
I find this discussion a bit redundant. It's not about the norm set by big "people". It is very common sense. When in an intimate relationship one not only shares sex but also psychology. Stay committed to the individual. If you aren't able to get what you want from that person then you shouldn't be in a relationship with them. I would rather stay single and enjoy whoever I want without open relationship discussion and more stressor.
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Do you refuse tops that insist on condoms
Cutedelicategay replied to jcklvrga's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I find that gay community itself is it's worst enemy. With medical science progressing so well and with newer preventative medicines available asking to bag up is nothing but a woke virtual signal of holier than thou. A repressed mentality and internalized homophobia. It's pathetic when Bareback gays are judged as sluts and looked upon as infectious promiscuous people. However in our quest to find all sorts of BBC or BWC or middle eastern or so-called straight men we ourselves have made us not in-charge of our bodies. A couple weeks back I was getting fucked at a bathhouse with a beautiful cock and all of a sudden I felt burning in my ass. I knew that the top has entered me with a condom. Although I was high on poppers I pushed him out and got off the sling. He was close to cum and requested a few pounding to which I refused and he got really upset. But it's my body and I am in control of what cock enters me and how. If you insist on a condom then my ass is not for you. I am not scared of any infections and I treat them as and when. If you are so scared then you shouldn't be even at a bathhouse. It's high time bottoms start asserting themselves and their roles. I am in for sex on my terms and if you are not into it we have no meeting of minds and there is no consent. Attempting to fuck me after that is against my will and considered sexual assault. -
A cock that is 6in plus is my preference along with trimmed bush and fresh smell. I do not prefer Asian cocks unless they are 6in plus and thick. Altough There are quite a few Asians that I have sucked. Black cocks are just glorified myth. So many fit black guys have small cocks less than 6in.
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First anal - safe or bareback?
Cutedelicategay replied to a topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I don't know what a condom feels like. I am happy with my choice of sex. The intensity and the connection are something to be experienced and can't be explained in words. If you are referring to HIV positivity as sickness then I have never given it a thought and I was going to accept it with grace. It was a matter of time for me. Trust me don't ruin the first time moment with a stupid rubber. There is always one first time and never a second. Sex maybe a physical act but the mental relaxation and satisfaction too play a big role. If you are mentally not ready to experience the physical act my suggestion is don't do it just for the sake of it. -
Bathhouses were a need for the community to get together when the community was marginalized. That's not the case any more. The bisexual community is worst affected by such closures as they normally have opposite sex partners at home. Other than that new generation has a lot more options than bathhouses. Bathhouse generally promote body shaming and they are very expensive nowadays. A lot of illegal activities go on in the dark corners of these places. Besides commercial licenses for such places are opposed by the community. While I enjoy a visit or two to the bathhouse in Toronto which has 2 24/7 bathhouses sex is always a hit or miss. People tend to like ABS where only cock and ass are seen and rejection and body shaming are avoided. Bathhouses and other exclusive sex positive venues are indeed a thing of the past and I won't be surprised if these go out of business.
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I am from Canada and I have never voted Liberals forget the NDP. As someone said being LGBTQ doesn't mean having to support wokeism. Social justice is good to an extent however social justice will not feed us. Social justice tends to create a state dependent society and that's what Liberals and Left wants in Canada. Strong fiscal policies and fiscal constraints are required to generate income and attract investments. All that Canadian Liberals have achieved is divided society. Canada has become a doormat to criminals. We have gangs operating without impunity. Worst housing crisis. Worst corruption. Worst immigration policy. This is the legacy that Liberals have created. Literally everyone is tired of woke Liberals and Leftists. The under current is strong for a change. This is coming from a person of colour, a visible minority that's how I am identified in Canada.
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Should we care or should we not?
Cutedelicategay replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in General Discussion
I have already made my intentions clear when I posted this question initially. No matter how we all collectively think in countries like Canada where health care is universal there is a huge divide in the society in order to bring some sanity to our health care system. Health care never becomes an election issue however changed done after leads to a lot of issues. Case and point I hear no clear policy from the Armed Forces whether a member on Prep is deployable or not. It was very clear however now it has gone into Grey area. Again I apologize if this question is something that shouldn't be discussed here. Health care has been discussed a lot in Canada nowadays. I request the moderators to lock this question and/or delete it. I do not want to make members here agitated for no reason. I asked the question in the appropriate LGBT politics however I would like to get this closed so noone can answer. -
Met a young 22 yr military soldier from the military base near my town. Picked him up from his barracks and drove to Toronto to a sex party. A joint and poppers with weed laced lube and I was ready to rock. Got to the corner of a semi darkroom and bent over to suck him. Felt a finger probing my ass, first one then second. Satisfied that I was sufficiently relaxed and lubed a hard cock 8in got up my ass. Got my first load within minutes. Got another one before taking a break. Round 2 I was bent on a soft bench and I got 3 more loads. Round 3 my buddy exclusively used me and gave me his load. I was delirious ad flying high due to weed and poppers and all those internal orgasms that I got. Lost count of how many anal orgasms I had last night. I still haven't orgasmsed with cum since last night but feel like my ass is gaping for more cocks tonight.
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My intention was to emphasis on the need for 3 months testing WITHOUT FAIL (capitals) and seriously consider using DoxyPep. I mean look at the breakthrough we have in Prep. Widespread use is bringing HIV infections down. The same applies to the relaxed attitude towards STIs. I have heard many say that STIs are bacterial and 100% treatable. That's not a healthy approach. Then my profile stands out "never refuse a load"
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I know this maybe a touchy question for some but that's not the intention at all. My question is specifically for the western world where medical science has progressed and preventative medicines are now widely used. Should we as a society still need to take the burden of providing HIV medications to new HIV infections? I am not talking about the ones already on medication. This is specifically for new infections when Prep and DoxyPep are widely available and prescribed to men at risk. Prevention is always better than cure then why encourage spread of infections by providing care post infection? It's a burden on tax payers for someone's risky behaviors and choosing not to use Prep. Most insurance companies pay for these nowadays. Please be respectful in your responses.
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Do you bottom with guys that have small dicks?
Cutedelicategay replied to Iker80's topic in General Discussion
I tend to differ from the general opinion. I do prefer cocks more than 6inches. Being a bottom all my life I have learned a few things about my sexual pleasure. Although sporting an 8in cock myself I never get hard during sex. For me my cock is good for piss and cum dripping. I don't jerk off a lot either. I trained myself to assgasms and most of them are dry but very very powerful ones. My spot is about 4.5 inches inside my inner ring is about 6.5 inches. In order for me to achieve my assgasm I need a cock that can constantly pound on my spot or open my inner ring. I am a demanding bottom and I do not believe in just giving my top their pleasure. Sex is always mutual and I too need physical satisfaction apart from mental and emotional satisfaction. -
You are playing with fire and your life unless you know how to carry your positive status with grace. My honest suggestion is don't do it. Use Prep if you want to be liberated sexually and still bareback. Try DoxyPep for STD prevention. When medical science has made so much progress to slowly liberate the gay community from the AiDS scare of the 80s why not make the best use of these miracles. What's the logic in taking a pill afterwards when you can take a pill before and save yourself from other complications. Such decisions are made through the brain and nor dick.
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I have had a couple of men who could go back to back however it is in an environment which is like a home in proper bed etc. Saunas and gloryhole I hardly find anyone who either wants to fuck or cum. Besides saunas and other dark gay places are full of drug users and I have seen so many men can't even get or stay hard despite all that sucking. IMO happens when the environment is correct the age is correct and how engaged both men are in their sex.
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What Makes for a "Good Bottom"?
Cutedelicategay replied to TaKinGDeePanal's topic in General Discussion
I am a total submissive bottom and my cock is just good enough for me to piss and drip cum. I treat my cock as a clit and rub it accordingly. Although I prefer assgasm over overgasm. I define myself into 3 categories - mental, physical and emotional. Mentally I know that my existence is in the shadows of alphas. I am someone who is to provide sexual pleasure to these men. I also feel proud of my role as a bottom bcoz without me these alphas may not get the ultimate pleasure that they deserve. Physically I keep myself clean and ready. I eat a lot of fiber so I am naturally clean. I also take Metamucil everyday. I have trained my mouth and ass muscles to please a hard cock. I have trained my ass muscles to milk a cock. Besides I use dildo to stay in practice during a lull. My body is always groomed. I exercise regularly and work my glutes a lot. I also do Kegels. I invest in fashion especially sexy underwear and proudly show them at the gym locker room too. Emotionally - I make myself feel the woman in me. I feel honored to be inseminated and sometimes impregnated by alphas. I prefer my ass to be loose enough for penetratration but tight enough for a pounding. I tend to relax quickly so when I bend over I am able to accommodate any size.
