I need tips for keep going after cum

[cxar]

Hello guys, I'm new in the forums. I want to start by asking you something: My refractory period is too long (about 1 to two hours) and when I cum being penetrated everything immediately shuts down and I feel bad with my partner because sometimes we really want to keep doing it (I can last half an hour to cum usually). So please, in your experience, how can I do or what can I try to become multiorgasmic or how can I relax to do it again in a few minutes without the pain or the little annoyance and without giving up the cum???? thanks in advance for your answers 

Edited August 11, 2021 by cxar

[bb-btm]

I have the same problem. My solution is to not play with my cock if I’m not ready to cum… if I do while I’m getting fucked by a good sized dick I cum literally within 10 seconds and I’m done.

[snake1800]

I wish I could help with this, as this is a huge problem for me too. I too try hard not to cum, which isn't always easy. I don't mind if I don't cum at all, I am fine with that, but hate it when I cum and its all over for me for some reason

[Kimberley]

This why i love to be the bottom.. i can fuck all day long with men as long as i don't cum. the one after another, how more loads how hornier i get. i only edging myself while searching for loads. but do i cum, my horniness drops to zero and have need a hour or more to be horny enough again for take cocks. so i care i just don't cum during the day. but as a versatile i can understand that's a problem

[FunCheerSlut]

Is it safe to say that you either genetically have "IT" or you don't have "IT"? The "IT" being the ability to quickly reset and benefit from a short or reduced refractory period.

In other words, I do not know if there is any "training" you can do to teach yourself to recover more quickly. I know someone who has a short or fast refractory period and can be ready to go again within 15-30 minutes after cumming. I on the other hand, cannot. Like most bottoms, I find that cumming is like kryptonite and neutralizes my horniness.

 

[cxar]

That is an interesting point of view, I honestly have never tried not to cum while bottom and fuck again more times a day. I will try it.

[Guest]

I don't cum when I am with other people. I save that for when I'm alone. When I am with people, I am just a hole for their pleasure.

[Deepslickhole73]

I with the other guys...I usually don't cum until I know the top(s) is completely spent.  I will say that one thing I have found gets me hot again after I've shot my load,  is the taste of cum.  That lingering taste of seed will have me ready to be fucked again in 20 minutes verses an hour or more.

[inactive]

My refractory period is around 1 hour, yet I am still able to get fucked after I cummed, even I this is less pleasurable for me during the first minutes. Anyway, normally I never cum when being a cumdumpster.