What makes a "good Top"?

[VersatileBreeder]

On 10/5/2021 at 3:24 PM, hungry_hole said:

It would be interesting to hear from men reading this discussion and who enjoy topping and consider themselves a top or versatile.

I’ll bite.

I am technically vers, but the past couple of years have almost been exclusively topping. I love to top and it’s where I feel most in my element.

I would say objectively, I am a good top. Naturally, I’m a bigger guy with an above average dick. 6’2” 220 lbs, 7.5 thick cut cock if you want an idea. I find that I rarely find bottoms larger in size than me and it seems that most bottoms tend to prefer being topped by a guy bigger than them if they had a choice.

I’m 37 now and though getting hard isn’t a problem usually, staying hard for a long time can be an issue sometimes. So I take half of a Viagra and I get and stay rock hard for hours. I think bottoms appreciate the perpetually hard cock. I can also go multiple rounds, which many bottoms like.

I maintain a good rhythm when I fuck and I mix it up. I like to read my bottom to see how he likes getting fucked. If he likes getting pounded, I put all my energy into slamming my cock balls deep into him as hard as I can. I know how to hit and penetrate that second ring, which drives bottoms wild. If he likes a slow, sensual fuck with lots of body contact and kissing, I’m all in for that as well. And when I’m ready to cum, I drive my cock in balls deep and hold it there, letting him feel every pulse of my load from the base of my cock. I love hearing them moan things like “oh my God I feel you cumming, that feels so amazing…”

I top like I’m running a business. If your customers are treated right, they’ll come back for more. If I treat my bottoms right and give them what drives them wild, they’ll be back. And I take pride in a job well done. My philosophy is “it’s way more than just sticking it in and giving them a load… it’s the whole experience.”