VERBAL FANTASY OR NOT TELLING ALL

[ParejaCasados]

Especially with an onset of Covid, using devices like WebCams and telephones to satisfy sexual desires have increased in use  exponentially.    Let’s be honest,  thank God, what the hell would we do without then.    During these conversations I can attest  one of the topics that literally gets me rock hard is when the boy start begging to become POZ. (please check with your healthcare provider before committing to any changes in your healthcare status) 

This can be fantasized with just two people or in my case, I feel is best  to plan and event, party or celebration. These events generally consist of about 10 or more participants and of course the guest of honor  

Why not tactile iMessage talk is noncommittal at what point or is there a point that since I have agreement occurs to move it into while the real world?  You’re having these conversations, on the web with the telephone  and the verbalization is beginning to become very specific very personal and there is some sort of outline to an actual event taking place.  The boy keeps begging , and it’s getting very, well, tempting
Now, to throw another wrench in there. When  the person who is looking to be POZ begins to verbally requests for the  other to take steps so the event can actually take place, our new rules and expectations put in place??   Should either party have any expectation of commitment if the conversation gets this point??
My opinion, each person is responsibility for their own healthcare and for the decisions they make for themselves   basically own your own shit.  Ironically I Found myself in this very situation and my understanding based on the premise A person would be honest and forthright with something that serious   His interpretation of the events was different   Unfortunately for me It turns out  I suffered significant complications, including but not limited to, the inability to walk for almost a year.  Should the other person feel any type of responsibility?  Give him my personal experience what I found inside of the person has morals  and does take some responsibility. Or they could not.   But again the responsibility for me so we fell in my shoulders because it’s my decision. 

I just feel if there was some sort of social protocol or etiquette in this  situations it might’ve diverted a lot of my negative consequences.  Or am I just really old expecting something that just probably can’t happen??  lol 

I really just don’t want anyone else to have to go through what I did all over how old is expressed to me, “.it’s just cloud talk”!

[BootmanLA]

10 hours ago, FFPISSPIG said:

Especially with an onset of Covid, using devices like WebCams and telephones to satisfy sexual desires have increased in use  exponentially.    Let’s be honest,  thank God, what the hell would we do without then.    During these conversations I can attest  one of the topics that literally gets me rock hard is when the boy start begging to become POZ. (please check with your healthcare provider before committing to any changes in your healthcare status) 

This can be fantasized with just two people or in my case, I feel is best  to plan and event, party or celebration. These events generally consist of about 10 or more participants and of course the guest of honor  

Why not tactile iMessage talk is noncommittal at what point or is there a point that since I have agreement occurs to move it into while the real world?  You’re having these conversations, on the web with the telephone  and the verbalization is beginning to become very specific very personal and there is some sort of outline to an actual event taking place.  The boy keeps begging , and it’s getting very, well, tempting
Now, to throw another wrench in there. When  the person who is looking to be POZ begins to verbally requests for the  other to take steps so the event can actually take place, our new rules and expectations put in place??   Should either party have any expectation of commitment if the conversation gets this point??
My opinion, each person is responsibility for their own healthcare and for the decisions they make for themselves   basically own your own shit.  Ironically I Found myself in this very situation and my understanding based on the premise A person would be honest and forthright with something that serious   His interpretation of the events was different   Unfortunately for me It turns out  I suffered significant complications, including but not limited to, the inability to walk for almost a year.  Should the other person feel any type of responsibility?  Give him my personal experience what I found inside of the person has morals  and does take some responsibility. Or they could not.   But again the responsibility for me so we fell in my shoulders because it’s my decision. 

I just feel if there was some sort of social protocol or etiquette in this  situations it might’ve diverted a lot of my negative consequences.  Or am I just really old expecting something that just probably can’t happen??  lol 

I really just don’t want anyone else to have to go through what I did all over how old is expressed to me, “.it’s just cloud talk”!

I think as long as things remain "cloud talk" that's fine. The moment it crosses over into "let's meet up" territory, in my view, it's time for a reassessment.

Because all of your talk, so far, has been just that - talk, whether it's on camera and vocal, or through IM/chat, or whatever. It's impossible to get a real feel for anyone under those circumstances, and a face-to-face meeting, non-committal in nature, where each person can feel the other out and get a sense of what he's like, is (to my way of thinking) essential.

It helps separate the wheat from the chaff, the purely-masturbating from the seriously interested, the fantasizing-but-going-to-freak-out from the thought-this-through-and-am-committed.

That is, if those things are important.