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[GuelphGuy72]

Hi all.  I am new here though I have been looking around the site a bit over the last couple of months.  I am bi and started having sex with men as a bottom a few years ago.  I really enjoy being a bottom and having guys inside me.

I have always used condoms for sex but as I have gotten more comfortable as a bottom I have started getting curious about taking cocks bare.  I get asked on hookup sites if I bareback and I say no.  When I am at bathhouses I have insisted on condoms.  Some guys agree others move on.  However this just makes me more interested in trying.

I started taking Prep last month and have been vaccinated for hep.  I understand the risks around other STIs.

 I am curious how bare sex feels as a bottom versus using a condom?  What will it be like when the top starts to ejaculate in me?  What happens afterwards with the load(s) inside me?  Is it messy?  With a condom there is no mess.  Based on my experience with women, they do leak cum afterwards.  What do you do to clean up afterwards?

Looking for advice and help from experienced bottoms.  Thank you.

[BootmanLA]

31 minutes ago, GuelphGuy72 said:

Hi all.  I am new here though I have been looking around the site a bit over the last couple of months.  I am bi and started having sex with men as a bottom a few years ago.  I really enjoy being a bottom and having guys inside me.

I have always used condoms for sex but as I have gotten more comfortable as a bottom I have started getting curious about taking cocks bare.  I get asked on hookup sites if I bareback and I say no.  When I am at bathhouses I have insisted on condoms.  Some guys agree others move on.  However this just makes me more interested in trying.

I started taking Prep last month and have been vaccinated for hep.  I understand the risks around other STIs.

 I am curious how bare sex feels as a bottom versus using a condom?  What will it be like when the top starts to ejaculate in me?  What happens afterwards with the load(s) inside me?  Is it messy?  With a condom there is no mess.  Based on my experience with women, they do leak cum afterwards.  What do you do to clean up afterwards?

Looking for advice and help from experienced bottoms.  Thank you.

There are probably half a dozen or more threads on how bareback sex differs from condom sex, but for quickie answers to your questions:

How it feels - to read some people's posts on here, you'd assume condoms were made of 40 grit sandpaper and everyone's hole was like the princess sleeping on 40 mattresses atop a pea. More realistically, with sufficient lube, there's not a huge difference. The key different *I* notice is that with a bare cock, you feel certain things more - for instance, the head of the cock, which inside a condom may not seem to be as pronounced as a bare one, given that the condom, if sufficiently tight, "compresses" things. Lube sometimes has to be added in the middle of the act if the fuck lasts a long time, but that can be true with a bare top who doesn't precum a lot, too.

Starting to ejaculate - again, unless you're the princess on the pea, you may not feel anything, or you may feel the slightly warmer temp semen, or (if the top shoots rather forcefully) you may feel the spurts. You may also feel him "spasming" overall, but again, that's dependent on the top. The fact that some stealthers can cum un-noticed by the bottom should be evidence that it's not always obvious when someone has cum.

Afterward - if it's a particularly voluminous load, it could get messy. When he first pulls out, your anal sphincter will be somewhat stretched and looser than it normally is, and it will take a while to tighten back up (that's why it's easier for someone on round two). So yes, if there's a lot of cum, it may begin to leak out, especially if you stand up right away. You can either go sit on a toilet and let it pass back out; you can take a shower and hope most of it seeps out there so you can wash it away; some tops will actually want to eat it back out of your ass, though I wouldn't count on that as a disposal mechanism. If you stay prone long enough, most of it will just absorb into your system and/or be expelled with your next bowel movement.

If you need to be "up and about" shortly afterward, there are options. You can, for instance, fold a wad of toilet tissue and press it between your cheeks at your hole, so that it doesn't all leak into your underwear (or pants). Those with a kinkier streak can have a small butt plug ready to go, pushing it in after sex is over, until you can get to a shower/tub and clean up.