queer city breaks etc in the uk

[Dandy]

I've been living back at home since quarantine , me my mother who just retired and our dog lucky.  I went from living in a major city (Leeds) with plenty of gay bars saunas and cruising spots to living in a small village (1 shop, 2 schools, 3 pubs and a boujie golf course), also I don't drive so its  tricky to find local fun. my friends and some family including my mother know I'm pansexual but I  don't feel comfortable inviting too many guys round too often so I go on regular trips throughout the year to various cities that have good gay scenes my favourite's being Liverpool, Brighton, Manchester and Leeds, London is too expensive. I book a hotel/Airbnb/caravan or campsite ( or preferably glamp site) for a few days and let myself indulge in the local scene. I visit bars and clubs and put ads on grindr etc  and  spend my time servicing guys, getting drunk/high and watching porn people fucking and bringing people back to my room for a proper session.

 I know I'm not the only guy that does this and was wondering, what do you guys pack/bring with you to a hotel your spending a week or so partying and fucking. what clothes/toys/accessories do you bring with you.

I personally am a very chubby bear with tatts, piercings, thick glasses, beard, reddish purple undercut, dress kind of emo/hipster/rock n roll. for clothes I pack a lot of black,  army boots/converse, black jeans tight round the arse, black vest/sleeveless under dark/patterned shirt. sometimes I wear boxer briefs, sometimes a jock strap or a pair of panties and tights/knee high stripey socks studded belt, wallet chain, stainless steel rings and chain, leather cuffs/sweat band, bandana 

any suggestions for outfits you would like on a big hairy submissive kinky bastard like myself would be greatly appreciated.     in fact will take some pics next time i get the house to myself.

I also travel with a laptop or tablet with a flash drive of my favourite porn, lube, condoms, several butt plugs and cock rings as well as a large realistic suction cup dildo, poppers ( and other party supplies) as well as various fetish gear, restraints, spanking paddle, blindfold, masks etc,.   what do you guys take with you/ get together for a wild night/weekend.

also any uk members that can suggest a city to visit or campsite that caters for single gay men and adults only. atm I'm trying to decide where to go for pride this year, and also planning a weekend away, somewhere not to far away with a decent gay scene.

wish me luck

 

Edited February 19, 2023 by Dandy
fixing spelling errors

[Spunkinmyarse]

Have you been to Rosebay campsite in the East Midlands? I haven’t tried it yet, but am interested in checking it out one weekend this summer, at least as a ‘day’ visitor…

Also, I wouldn’t write London off. I should imagine there are reasonable airbnbs outside the centre where you could base yourself. I’ve always considered the Victoria line the best transport link for connecting all the gay dots (Vauxhall, Soho, Warren Street/Kings Cross), so you could look at staying somewhere fairly cheap at either end (Walthamstow or Brixton), and use it to get around.

Edited February 19, 2023 by Spunkinmyarse

[UKFFBBBtm]

Nottingham and come and play with me and my hubby? Lol.

In seriousness, no idea other than travelling to the cities you've already mentioned 

[VersGuyAnon]

27 minutes ago, Spunkinmyarse said:

Have you been to Rosebay campsite in the East Midlands? I haven’t tried it yet, but am interested in checking it out one weekend this summer, at least as a ‘day’ visitor…

Also, I wouldn’t write London off. I should imagine there are reasonable airbnbs outside the centre where you could base yourself. I’ve always considered the Victoria line the best transport link for connecting all the gay dots (Vauxhall, Soho, Warren Street/Kings Cross), so you could look at staying somewhere fairly cheap at either end (Walthamstow or Brixton), and use it to get around.

Anything on the new Elizabeth Line is good too. I'm not sure if there's a late night service on it yet, but it certainly makes it easier to stay further out in a cheaper place, but still have easy and quick access to Central London/West End.