Do you refuse tops that insist on condoms

[Rawjack87]

On 8/4/2023 at 1:26 PM, jcklvrga said:

Are there others here like me? As a sub bottom on the one hand I don't like to turn down an interested top. But, when a top insists on condom use honestly I lose all interest in sex with them and turn them down. Do you let tops that require condoms fuck you? And the whole time someone with a condom is fucking me I cannot stop thinking the condom will come off and get stuck up my ass...have had that happen where I have to pull a condom out of my ass..hate that.

It's a hard choice. But usually I say raw only. Only if I really like the guy I'll go with condom. It's tough, especially where I am you lose a lot of fucking opportunities going raw only.

[S2S]

Yeah, I let them know it’s not my thing and that I’m sorry.  Happy hunting! 

[RawSlutAms]

No. 

My purpose is to serve. Naturally I prefer for the top to spurt his load deep in my gut and to taste it when it trickles down my thigh later, but if he needs to cum then I need to accommodate that. 

If he is fucking me with a condom I ask him to withdraw squirt his load in my mouth when cumming or to let me eat the sperm in the condom after he has cum. 

Sometimes my master sends tops to fuck me - and I cannot refuse how he chooses to fuck me. 

[cockfun69]

As this is BZ, condoms don't feature 😄 

[Blueguard]

I always make it clear from the start that I only bareback, so if they don’t want to do that they can just end the conversation. Equally, I’m happy to have a wank and suck session. I would rather not fuck than fuck with condoms.

[TaKinGDeePanal]

On 11/14/2024 at 10:32 AM, JeffreyBrisbane said:

I am a Dom Bottom.  I refuse condoms.  I am into PNP, I blast/slam and I insist on only playing with guys who blast/slam.

 Everyone who blasts/slams will fuck raw.  It's the guys who puff that can insist on using condoms.  I explain that I can and will administer a blast/slam to them.  Once they have had the blast/slam the idea of using condoms is totally removed from their thoughts, they are now insisting on raw. 

as it should be

[sluttyjimmy]

If a guy insists on wearing a condom, I will let him fuck me, with the understanding I get the condom full of cum when he is done.  If that does not work for him, then I respectfully decline. 

[tbone69rimmer]

On 11/14/2024 at 8:36 AM, Londoncumdump10 said:

Always prefer raw/breeding but if they insist then the compromise is they unload the cum from the condom near my hole and push it in my hole. 

Yes, stuff the open end of the filled condom in me and empty it where it would have been best to shoot it bareback. Get that cum where it belongs.

[POZLOADTAKER]

YES I do

[Hole4u]

As much as I’m “raw only” I don’t refuse if I or he has lube. Then they can definitely fuck me. 
 

Because once they’ve getting close I can get them to take off the condom about half of the time. The remaining times usually result in one of the following: the condom will break and I get the load; I can get them to pull out and just come on my hole and then work it in (amazingly, many guys will dip the tip in) and I get the load; let them finish in the condom inside me and ask them for the condom and I’ll work that load in me or on me; or just ask them to pull out and leave the condom in me. I’ll push it in and squeeze the load out. 
 

Last but not not least the just pull off the condom and just shoot their load all over me like in a 90s porn movie  🍿 🎥 Who doesn’t t want to be a prom star once in a while? lol  

 

[bbslutuk]

Shortly after I started barebacking in 2022, I would still allow a top to wear a condom if they insisted, bit I'd insist on them not cumming in the condom. They'd have to either finish in my mouth, on my face, on my arse or if I could gape my arsehole I'd ask them to aim their dick into my arsehole so I still got their load. 

 

However, in the last 18-20 months or so, I haven't allowed any condom to be present during sex and there's been a few men that I've refused to let fuck me if they want to play safe. 

 

I tend to get 99% of my sex in gay saunas, and most of the men that go are bareback only, particularly in the dark rooms or in gloryhole booths, so I end up getting that seed inside me anyway! 😄

[AlexLondon]

Always did bb.. 

 

a nice role play is fucking with condom and break it half way through or removing it entirely while fucking .

[VersGuyAnon]

On 11/14/2024 at 2:36 PM, Londoncumdump10 said:

Always prefer raw/breeding but if they insist then the compromise is they unload the cum from the condom near my hole and push it in my hole. 

I've asked some guys to do exactly that. One did the other day, but others seem to think it's weird. 

[SydneyUncutPoz]

I refuse them and block them if possible. I would rather watch the news than waste my time with safe sex

[Slzybtmldn]

Yes! I want to feel that cock raw. And feel it throb pumping a load deep inside