Question for married bottoms and vers

[Room4ustwo]

17 hours ago, fantasyreader said:

I got the full array of STD tests and started PrEP and DoxyPEP with 3-month follow ups at my doctor. I typically play with people who are on PrEP or poz undetectable, where I'm able to select. DoxyPEP users are also preferred.

I've got a couple of regulars I see (2 promiscuous tops, 1 promiscuous bottom) and we all always bareback. My main top, who was my first and who I see the most, is an older guy who is HIV positive on meds with undetectable viral loads. He's taken me to a sex party in Memphis called Blackout where I topped twice and bottomed a heck of a lot. Next trip is likely going to be to Flex Spa in Atlanta. Can't really figure out status at big parties, it's just a case of going for it, enjoying the night, and trusting in the pharmaceutical precautions I have in place.

I still bareback with my wife, our main rules are that I'm not to bring home any drama and she's the only woman. I did accidentally bring oral gonorrhea back from Memphis, but we fixed that with antibiotics and carried on. She did tease me quite a bit about the STD but she wasn't actually bothered by it. We'd accepted that occasionally picking up a few bugs was inevitable when we embraced this lifestyle. She has permission to play around too, although hasn't done so yet. We only live once and we intend to enjoy ourselves.

It's great you have that sort of wife.  I was interested that she wants to be the only woman.  I was 100% true to my wife for 18 years, then cheated a couple of times with women. Then I fell in love with a married woman but we decided to stay with our spouses.  I never wanted to fall in love with another person after that.  My involvement with men now is purely sexual which is just how I want it.  Do you think your wife is jealous? Or is she just turned on by fucking and being fucked by men?

[fantasyreader]

On 1/17/2025 at 9:52 AM, Room4ustwo said:

It's great you have that sort of wife.  I was interested that she wants to be the only woman.  I was 100% true to my wife for 18 years, then cheated a couple of times with women. Then I fell in love with a married woman but we decided to stay with our spouses.  I never wanted to fall in love with another person after that.  My involvement with men now is purely sexual which is just how I want it.  Do you think your wife is jealous? Or is she just turned on by fucking and being fucked by men?

We're child-free and want to stay that way. She's infertile so there's no danger there, but we don't know and don't trust the fertility status of other women. Accidentally bringing a kid into our lifestyle or as a financial drain on our lifestyle would wreck our marriage so it's a hard red line. Anything else is either not an issue at all or something easily manageable.