Tipping Point - What got you to your first encounter?

[YourNoLimitsBottom]

Another question on here took me down memory lane and made me reflect on what got me here.

This is mainly for those of us that didn't know from the start what we ultimately wanted. I was like a lot of guys, into women from the early years and through the first few decades of my sex life. I watched porn like most everyone else and masturbated to it just like most everyone else.

I had friends that were gay. I met guys in the day-to-day that were gay. I never thought about them in a sexual way, they were just the standard friends and people you meet going through life.

And eventually I started to realize that I was watching porn and masturbating to not the thought of fucking that woman, but masturbating to what she was feeling. What was that guy doing to her to make her feel that way (yeah, she is acting, but what if...)

Standard story. You think about it, you jerk off, you are done and no longer thinking about it. I started going to online chat sites and talking to and eventually cybering with guys. Jerk off and done.

Eventually jerking off wasn't enough. I still had the "want" after. The libido was still there. That was a tipping point for me. I just plain fucking needed it. I jerked off and was still horny and fucking needed cock.

This was back when Craigslist had the "M4M" ads. I drove to the nearest city and picked an ad and sent the email. I was nervous as hell but the horny overrode it enough to get me to his door. He let me in, pulled out his cock, and it was like I was made to suck it. No hesitation. I dropped to my knees in his living room and the best years of my sex life were off to a start.

So for you guys out there that started out not even thinking of guys sexually, what was your tipping point? Top or bottom, what made you realize you were made for sex with men?