What's your type?

[yoursinmine]

I seem to be striking out. I approached a hot, older, hairy bear at a club. We talked for a bit, he was polite, but he wasn't into it. When I got direct, he said he's partnered and only fools around with older men like him. 

Do you find that you're mostly attracted to guys who look like you? I suppose it might make sense that one grooms himself in the image of what he finds attractive. 

Reading this forum for me so excited. Everyone seems to want to fuck everyone, but that isn't my experience. 

[Sfmike64]

Interesting question. If you asked me "my type," he would be 5'3", 180, thick, as hairy as humanly possible, uncut and a pig. But people are complicated and massively varied. My last two serious relationships (including current one) were/are 5'11" and not thick. Personality and vibe are as important as looks to me. I find that I have a wide variety of types, even though that little furry hobbit would be super fun to play with.

I also think that people here are expressing fantasies and talking about what turns them on which isn't necessarily what they're actually going to do.  I also find that I'm far more attracted to men younger than me now that I'm 60 and look like a Daddy. I embraced it when I realized it wasn't going to change.

You're going to get turned down sometimes, and it can hurt....trust me I know this, I was very shy and introverted when I came out at 16, it's why I liked cruising adult bookstores. You just have to keep putting yourself out there and be clear about what you're looking for. Put it on your profiles online (if it's not already there) and try not to take the rejection too hard. 

Lots of guys will have a hard time turning down your great ass. 🙂

Edited April 1 by Sfmike64

[Tavros]

My type is an old man with a nice cock who wants to cum inside me!

[VistaCaBB]

Younger submissive bottoms 

[yoursinmine]

4 hours ago, Sfmike64 said:

Interesting question. If you asked me "my type," he would be 5'3", 180, thick, as hairy as humanly possible, uncut and a pig. But people are complicated and massively varied. My last two serious relationships (including current one) were/are 5'11" and not thick. Personality and vibe are as important as looks to me. I find that I have a wide variety of types, even though that little furry hobbit would be super fun to play with.

I also think that people here are expressing fantasies and talking about what turns them on which isn't necessarily what they're actually going to do.  I also find that I'm far more attracted to men younger than me now that I'm 60 and look like a Daddy. I embraced it when I realized it wasn't going to change.

You're going to get turned down sometimes, and it can hurt....trust me I know this, I was very shy and introverted when I came out at 16, it's why I liked cruising adult bookstores. You just have to keep putting yourself out there and be clear about what you're looking for. Put it on your profiles online (if it's not already there) and try not to take the rejection too hard. 

Lots of guys will have a hard time turning down your great ass. 🙂

Not in my experience but, admittedly, I don't have a lot. Rejection does such, and I certainly could have gotten some from a couple of guys my age here at school, but I'm just not into them. I'm doing to them, what older guys are doing to me so I can't be too sore about it. 

3 hours ago, VistaCaBB said:

Younger submissive bottoms 

Where are you guys? Haha.  That's me, someone who just wants to get manhandled. Tell you want, the first guy who says yes, is going to have one hell of a motivated slut on his hands

[jd13]

I don't have a type anymore. I mean, yeah there are a varying set of guys I'll jack off to in porn, depending on my mood, but when it comes to sex and being fucked raw, honestly these days, if you have a cock and you want to breed me - anywhere from a cruising area, public toilets, sauna dark room or play area, or just a Grindr fuckdate who's nearby - then yeah, you're my type. For today at least. I'm literally 18 to 70, and pretty much any body type. Just fuck your cum into me, give me the jizzjoy, mark your territory and you're my type.

[londaybaaz]

Young slim docile only

[yunghungtop]

My type is slutty eager bottoms who offer hole in the first social interaction. 
 

To me there’s nothing hotter than a bottom who says “by the way, I take loads” and gives me a little cock rub on the dance floor. 

That’s the fag I’m gonna breed later in the back room.

[BarebackedBear]

I definitely have a type that always catches my attention. Older, some form of facial hair, husky / heavyset, black.

But sex is too much fun to get hung up on only playing with certain types of guys. I've been bred by older guys, younger guys, guys of just about every race and body type.

Pro tip: Guys who are in it to breed / get bred and are just looking for a willing partner have more fun than guys who are in it to only breed / great bred by a particular guy.

[SashaTS]

1 hour ago, yunghungtop said:

My type is slutty eager bottoms who offer hole in the first social interaction. 
 

To me there’s nothing hotter than a bottom who says “by the way, I take loads” and gives me a little cock rub on the dance floor. 

That’s the fag I’m gonna breed later in the back room.

Hi. By the way, I take loads. 

[norefusal]

there are two types of people. 

unfortunately there are times when the gay cruising scene seems to be overrun w basic bitches who only have the same type of sex w the same type of people over and over again like groundhogs day. 

it's sounds like hell on earth to me only because i'm the opposite: i crave trying new and different things. i move a lot, have lived in dif countries, eat a wide variety of food and love trying new dishes, travel often, have been to over 30 countries, etc and some of the best sex i've ever had was with people i initially said no to but was glad i changed my mind as they proceeded to rock my world. 😜

i've got this friend who now when he points out a hot guy i don't even bother to turn my head to look. how many gen x latin bears can you check out before it all becomes one big blurr like he's literally cruising the same dude over and over again 🤣

live and let live i guess 

[URS2USE]

my type?  Easy answer...a kinky Dominant Top that likes to breed...age and body type are somewhat irrelevant... recently on PreP so status is irrelevant now as well...

[Sfmike64]

10 hours ago, norefusal said:

i've got this friend who now when he points out a hot guy i don't even bother to turn my head to look. how many gen x latin bears can you check out before it all becomes one big blurr like he's literally cruising the same dude over and over again 🤣

live and let live i guess 

I try to use the BDSM adage..."don't yuck someone's yum." Various friends of mine love guys with big bushy beards, which I don't care for. Those guys are just not for me. Which is fine. 🙂

[ffabbian]

I had a FB that looked like my twin and a bf that looked like my younger brother.  It turned on a lot of men and we let them believe that we were brothers. Otherwise I'm into men that look different to myself. I love my men hairy af

[Erik62]

Arab or Latin, very Dom Top, body of a God & Tattoos. The kind that are always described in E-books (yes I read Werefolf stories, DON'T LAUGH 😂😂). 

C'mon WTF, I'm a piggy slut, legs open & cunt ready to be filled with piss, cock, cum, toys & fists. My perfect man just became a very Dom pig Top who just wants to slam me, fuck me & leave me hungry for more.