Disappointing hookups

[Tiboer]

I had the biggest crush on a guy—ex-military with a handsome face and deep voice.  For years, I wished I could get into his pants, but he would either have a BF or be out of town for long stretches.  Finally, after about 5 years of lusting after him, I found him single, on the apps, and I invited him over.

Our clothes came off in seconds.  I leaned over to kiss him, and he interrupted, “I don’t kiss.”  
 

WTF??  Lustful, deep kissing is one of my favorite sex activities.  He was hot and I had waited so long, so we still had sex, but, for me, it was terrible. Most of the time, I just wanted the sex to be over.  My crush on him completely died that day.

Have you had any such disappointments?

 

[ffabbian]

Kissing is essential. If they won't kiss they have to many hang ups and issues to be a good fuck and if they're bad at kissing they will be  bad at fucking. 

I had a disappointing hook up with a couple two years ago. They had already been playing for a couple hours  and I tried to give them both equal attention but I was more into one of them than the other and he waa really into me. After 10 minutes his husband said he wasn't feeling well and before they could say anything i suggested that I should leave. The guy I liked messaged me as soon as I left and we messaged each other dozens of times and hooked up a couple days later without his husband and have many times since.