Disappointing hookups

[Tiboer]

I had the biggest crush on a guy—ex-military with a handsome face and deep voice.  For years, I wished I could get into his pants, but he would either have a BF or be out of town for long stretches.  Finally, after about 5 years of lusting after him, I found him single, on the apps, and I invited him over.

Our clothes came off in seconds.  I leaned over to kiss him, and he interrupted, “I don’t kiss.”  
 

WTF??  Lustful, deep kissing is one of my favorite sex activities.  He was hot and I had waited so long, so we still had sex, but, for me, it was terrible. Most of the time, I just wanted the sex to be over.  My crush on him completely died that day.

Have you had any such disappointments?

 

[ffabbian]

Kissing is essential. If they won't kiss they have to many hang ups and issues to be a good fuck and if they're bad at kissing they will be  bad at fucking. 

I had a disappointing hook up with a couple two years ago. They had already been playing for a couple hours  and I tried to give them both equal attention but I was more into one of them than the other and he waa really into me. After 10 minutes his husband said he wasn't feeling well and before they could say anything i suggested that I should leave. The guy I liked messaged me as soon as I left and we messaged each other dozens of times and hooked up a couple days later without his husband and have many times since.  

[NordicBtm]

I’ve had many times where the chat online was way hotter than meeting up in person. It can either be the lack of chemistry or the guy is just a lousy kisser / fucker / in his head a lot. Each of them for me is a mood kill. It’s why I stick to my fuckbuddies that I have good chemistry with (and they got big dicks) and why I now spend less time online and only when I can meet right now.

[phillygwm]

If your body count is in the hundreds or thousands, it's inevitable that you've had disappointing encounters.  Probably many.

I've had guys who were paranoid the entire time we were together.  One guy came out of excitement before I even touched him, then it was game over.  Others weren't clean (not just a little mess, which is an occupational hazard, but they didn't even try,) still more with whom I was sexually incompatible, and many who were just selfish.  On the whole (hole?) I've have many more good experiences than bad but a certain percentage of guys are going to be duds, for various reasons. 

Edited 4 hours ago by phillygwm