Open Relationships

[a2nudist]

Good morning guys,

I have had a question on my mind that I wanted to ask some advice.   

For those in an open relationship how do you schedule hook-ups?    This might sound like a weird question but let me see if I can explain.   My husband is a voyeur and likes to either watch me fuck other guys, or hear about my fucking or come up with a dirty cock or smelling of piss.    However, I am feeling very guilty about going off and leaving him at home.    Although I have noticed that our sex life is greatly improved when I am off doing another guy and then come home.   Apparently he really needs the voyeurism to get him excited when we are having sex.

For those that are in an open relationship do you just announce that you are going off to fuck and you'll be back in about 30 minutes?   I know of two guys locally.  One often hooks up when he goes to the grocery store.  Said he's actually played in his car in the grocery store parking lot.  The other guy tries to find a hook-up on the way home from work.    In my case since we spend so much time together (we used to work together as well) it would be hard to sneak away.  And, sneaking away isn't really the goal.

When we have been at the gay resorts in Palm Springs it has worked well because he will encourage me to go walk around (like at CCBC).    However, at home I am really struggling saying I'm taking the car to go fuck some guy.   

How do you guys handle it?   Do you talk about it?  Announce it?   Or do you just cheat on the side?

I'd appreciate any serious advice.

Thank you.

 

[Eagerindayton]

Just do it. It sounds like your husband has already okayed this by watching you with other guys. If you hook up without him let your husband know that you'll talk to your hook-up and see if they want to play in front of him. Have fun .