Opinion about Neg4Neg

[Chuckybb]

I was in a sauna in Mexico and I went into a cabin with a guy.  He said to me, wait, are you neg?  I said yes, I'm on prep which is true.  He said I'm neg but not on prep yet, so I wanted to make sure.  

 

So, firstly... Does he truly think that someone is going to tell him the truth?  Secondly, I might think I'm neg but may not be.  This was a sauna for gawds sake.  

One of the things I love about prep and the medication for hiv is that we are back to a level playing field again.  Almost noone talks or needs to talk about status.  

 

But, let's try and keep a bit of realism in the conversation when it happens.

[ballerva]

If I'm on a barebacking site (like BBRT) and I see neg4neg, I find it incredibly offensive. First of all, lots of "neg" guys probably have no idea what their status is, so it's delusional to think that they are "safe" to fuck. Secondly, the overwhelming majority of poz guys are on meds and undetectable, so U=U is a total reality. Being undetectable myself (and going for complete checkups every four months) people like me are probably the safest guys to fuck with. I've blocked countless "negative only" profiles on bareback sites.

[Spermchute]

1 hour ago, ballerva said:

If I'm on a barebacking site (like BBRT) and I see neg4neg, I find it incredibly offensive. First of all, lots of "neg" guys probably have no idea what their status is, so it's delusional to think that they are "safe" to fuck. Secondly, the overwhelming majority of poz guys are on meds and undetectable, so U=U is a total reality. Being undetectable myself (and going for complete checkups every four months) people like me are probably the safest guys to fuck with. I've blocked countless "negative only" profiles on bareback sites.

I was once guilty of this until I took a poz load and everything immediately changed 

[verbalBTTM]

39 minutes ago, Spermchute said:

I was once guilty of this until I took a poz load and everything immediately changed 

If you don't mind me asking, what changed for you mentally that is?

[TT2025]

If someone wants to BB, I actually do that also.. but it needs some context, I think:

First: HIV is not much prevalent in my country as a whole and since I'm far from the capital I can only guess what is the incidence in my region.

Second: I've had some horrific experiences with medical establishment concerning even testing (like asking for the test in front of full waiting room and then consult results in hallway. - Yea, these 'professionals' won't see me again unless I think I REALLY have a problem..). So the PREP is available just in the theory.

Third: Guys are usually careful about that (condom only, no fucking on first hookup). So we tend to develop trust with each other and see how it develops. I personally don't mind condoms and usually insist on using them (these new thin, non-latex, no smell are actually good I'd say). 

Fourth: I don't mind being fucked by one guy all-year-round, actually prefer it (since their kinks tend to bubble up slowly on the surface). So when I go BB with you I expect you to deliver literally bucket of cum over extended period of time. 😉

Edited 6 hours ago by TT2025

[Spermchute]

31 minutes ago, verbalBTTM said:

If you don't mind me asking, what changed for you mentally that is?

For me it was an instant addiction. As my first announced he was shooting a poz load in me, I got so turned on I shot about 6 feet. Since then I actively seek Poz men and I find them much hotter 

[verbalBTTM]

4 minutes ago, Spermchute said:

For me it was an instant addiction. As my first announced he was shooting a poz load in me, I got so turned on I shot about 6 feet. Since then I actively seek Poz men and I find them much hotter 

Was it the sex with the guy because he was Poz, or was it the risk factor the part that did it for you. (crossing a line you can't come back from) I'm asking since I've heard similar things before from other people that I've spoken to in person.

 

Thank you for being honest with me, I'm utterly fascinated by this

[Spermchute]

47 minutes ago, verbalBTTM said:

Was it the sex with the guy because he was Poz, or was it the risk factor the part that did it for you. (crossing a line you can't come back from) I'm asking since I've heard similar things before from other people that I've spoken to in person.

 

Thank you for being honest with me, I'm utterly fascinated by this

Both definitely factored in and I have not stopped since. 

[verbalBTTM]

3 minutes ago, Spermchute said:

Both definitely factored in and I have not stopped since. 

Please write a story about it, I'd love to read how filthy your mind is at that time.