Anal sex with a slave

[SDCumPup]

On 1/3/2026 at 12:48 PM, mark1201 said:

I love my master.

 I have a five-year contract with him. He owns me completely and has access to my bank accounts, computer, and phone.

 But I agreed with him before we started that there would be no anal sex. I'm a virgin and can't tolerate pain. Now he says he has the right to change the agreement.

 I don't know what to do.

If you both entered into a 5 year contract and the original terms of that contract specifically stated that there was to be no anal sex then he is NOT free to alter the contract in any manner during the 5 years without express WRITTEN CONSENT from YOU stating that YOU agree to the changes. That’s how contracts work. If both parties don’t agree to the terms of the contract, then there is no meeting of the minds therefore no contractual agreement. You are free to immediately change all of the access codes to your accounts for banking, social media, etc without consulting him. I would strongly recommend doing so in order to protect yourself and prevent any potential fraud and abuse.

[SDCumPup]

22 hours ago, BreedingTop71 said:

A man is entitled to unload his cum in woman or faggot. Doesn’t matter. He chooses the hole. If you decide not to, BEFORE you leave, shut him out of your accounts. THEN leave. And be more careful next time you want to surrender to a man. Also, anal may not mean pain, that’s just silly. For many bottoms anal is quite pleasurable. 

Absolutely! Make certain that he can’t access your accounts! This will protect you from any potential fraud and abuse just in case!

[PozToxVersPig]

I know that there are plenty of BDSM relationships that don't involve penetrative sex, though examination of this indicates those are more scene-based, not five-years in nature.  Only 13% of all BDSM relationships (non LGBTQ+ as well) state that they rarely or never had penetrative sex.*   
*"Evaluation of Sexual Behavior and Sexual Functions of BDSM Practitioners: A Controlled Study", published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy (available via PubMed Central/PMC as a free full-text article).

We haven't heard from @mark1201 in nearly two weeks, with no real history, I'm going to let this go and assume this was all smoke and no fire.  

It is certainly anyone's right to ask for no anal sex for 5 years as a virgin slave willing to sign a deal like that, though that person is an outlier among outliers among outliers.

There's another thing here that's beguiling - "he owns me completely" coupled with "there would be no anal sex" and his virginity and avoidance of pain.  

If I were to step back in to "mark's" negotiation about this, I'd ask - how did you know you were into this vibe and willing to commit to it for 5 years?  how did you feel so sure that anal sex was painful and that you wouldn't change your mind or evolve in 5 years?  The better contractual term would have been to define his limits at the time of contract signing with a proviso that stated "upon mutual agreement..." they could reconsider any limits based on both their consent.

[Phallarchist]

The only reason to acquire a virgin slave is to one fine day destroy his virginity. It is the whole purpose of a man.

[norefusal]

17 hours ago, Phallarchist said:

The only reason to acquire a virgin slave is to one fine day destroy his virginity. It is the whole purpose of a man.

i tend to agree.

but thats me. i'd have let him rape me on day 1 and respected him as a man for it. but clean his house, let him control my $? fuck that shit. if he's not fucking my ass he can fuck right off. 😜

tbh this never passed the smell test for me but i lean pessimist by most of the "i need advice" posts on here. 

i also wonder if this isn't part of the rollplay. the wait, the fear, the ultimatum, then the inevitable rape and true ownership. is this anal edging? 

[mark1201]

Thank you for the advice.

I went to my master and asked for forgiveness for my mistake, and I didn't immediately agree. However,

he rejected my apology,

saying I was not a good servant to serve him, and gave me a deadline to atone for my mistake and question my master's abilities.

Do you have any ideas I can offer my master so he will forgive me, please?

[kinkysuBB]

9 hours ago, mark1201 said:

Thank you for the advice.

I went to my master and asked for forgiveness for my mistake, and I didn't immediately agree. However,

he rejected my apology,

saying I was not a good servant to serve him, and gave me a deadline to atone for my mistake and question my master's abilities.

Do you have any ideas I can offer my master so he will forgive me, please?

Don’t bother trying to offer your Master alternatives. He wants to fuck your hole. you either obey or you don’t. Nobody wants to hear your opinions or suggestions.

Assuming this whole thing is serious, as others have said, you need to decide whether this is something you’re comfortable doing. As a slave you absolutely have the right to set anything you like as a hard limit, beforehand. your Master has the right to agree to that or to tell you to take a hike.

If the contract was clear on no anal sex, you either agree to modify the contract now and then you submit your hole for domination without further question, or you walk away from the contract He’s broken with your reputation intact. And yes if you’re terminating the contract you withdraw His access to your accounts etc. first.

If the contract was ambiguous, that’s on you. It’s up to a slave to be clear upfront about hard limits and also to be clear about whether they’ll remain that hard forever or can be pushed over time. The Master/slave dynamic depends on the Master being able to gradually remove any limit that the slave hasn’t said is a fixed, hard limit. Otherwise you’re just fuck buddies. The slave isn’t supposed to enjoy everything Master does, it gets its pleasure from serving its Master.

It’s still your body, you can always withdraw consent to anything and walk away, your Master hasn’t a leg to stand on legally if you say no. But don’t expect that to do you any favours in terms of reputation in the scene.

i would say that while it’s totally fine to have anal sex as a hard limit in this scene, it is extremely unusual. you’ll probably find it hard to get a new Master to agree to that. Most Masters in this faggot’s experience expect anal sex as an absolute basic requirement. And most slaves are very happy with that. Remember you are completely expendable to Him and there is plenty of competition out there. A high value slave is one who obeys its Master without question, time and time again, within the agreed terms. Allowances can be made for slaves in training, you will always have more limits early on, but a slave who remains fussy about too many things is not of high value.

But also, a Master who insists on changing hard contractual terms and gets upset when the slave   sticks to its HARD limits is not a good Master.

Choose your next move very wisely faggot.

Edited 1 hour ago by kinkysuBB