IntoBBvisitor Posted 2 hours ago Report Posted 2 hours ago As a 40+ total bottom , I can t help but notice how the top/bottom dynamic shiffted in these last 15 years. Not complaining as I like this kind of rougher and more agressive sex but still I can t help but wonder why this happenned. Is it porn ? Is it society ? The tops get always rougher (facefucking, piss, slap, spit,...) on us and expect more and more submissiveness from us. It s so obvious in porn where the sluts need to constantly outperform themselves to keep under the spotlight and be appealing to the tops who want to make more money out of their degradation. The tops even seem to have such a better place and enjoy it more... You barely ever get to see a bottom cumming now... Ain t this an evidence that it s not about us anymore ? At my level, I see it too. Agressive encounters happen very often without being "consensual". As a sub bottom, I just carry on with any behaviour because I feel it s my duty and it s like I ve been reprogrammed no to care about my pleasure, that it isn t relevant anymore. Where does that mindset come from ? Am I the only one to notice and feel it ? Last night I got fucked by a 22 years old guy who litterally used me like a fucking meat bag. When we chatted he was just looking for a blow job. He ended up fucking me in any way he wanted, being mean and agressive, both physically and verbally. I enjoyed it but at some points, whe he was really going too hard on me and I asked for him to go easier or stop, he would only pull my hair and Ask me : "are you a slut or not ?" or "Don t you want me to come again and fuck you? Take it then !" Am I the only mature bottom to notice this shift in top/bottoms interactions? 1 Quote
Hungryforbbc Posted 2 hours ago Report Posted 2 hours ago No you’re not the only one! I love when they get more and more violent and rough as the session progresses and even more when it continues to get harder over multiple sessions Quote
IntoBBvisitor Posted 2 hours ago Author Report Posted 2 hours ago 10 minutes ago, Hungryforbbc said: No you’re not the only one! I love when they get more and more violent and rough as the session progresses and even more when it continues to get harder over multiple sessions I love that too but where does that come from ? It s like now they know it s about them and they can do whatever turns them on. 2 Quote
Hungryforbbc Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago 28 minutes ago, IntoBBvisitor said: I love that too but where does that come from ? It s like now they know it s about them and they can do whatever turns them on. I think they sense the energy and should already know that it’s what we really want regardless of what we say 1 Quote
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