Bicumpig Posted March 9 Report Posted March 9 (edited) If you're in a 100k town, 50k are men, 6% or 3k are MSM (up to 10% in gen Z). But when you check local ads and profiles, it's the same 30 guys in your area, which is 1% of the MSM pool. And 10 of those are there just to jerk off over the fantasy of meeting someone. Another 10 are kind of serious but still ghost or flake when the time and place is settled. Another 5 are incompatible with your wants, Another 4 are very low quality, don't have a place or can't travel. With the remaining 1 you actually meet up, if you're lucky. You'd think that men would line up for free BJs. If men weren't so conservative about sex, 1 ad would lead to sucking a dozen guys that night. Edited March 9 by Bicumpig Quote
mac4646 Posted March 10 Report Posted March 10 I totally agree, I can't figure out why it is hard for me to find men that want me to suck their cock. I have been told that I am a great cocksucker and never hesitate to swallow all the cum which all men love. On the bright side, I just did suck a guy off last week and he feed me a big mouthful of his cum. Quote
sub4oralcum Posted March 10 Report Posted March 10 I'm lucky to have an adult bookstore nearby. This helps out a lot with getting cum. I still have to put the time in, but at least I'm not texting 1000 times or driving all over town trying to hook up. 1 Quote
swvsucker Posted March 10 Report Posted March 10 I think sub4oralcum hit the nail on the head. I can go to the local ABS on a Friday and if I could stay there from 4:30PM (when guys are getting off work horny) until like 2AM (when guys are leaving the bars horny) I could probably suck 30 or 40 cocks. Those same 30 or 40 guys would never go online and look for a bi/gay guy to suck them off. They just don't do that. Your best bet is to place an ad and let them find you. In my experience, str8 guys looking for a blowjob never post on cruising sites, but they will stalk them looking for a willing cocksucker. Another part of the problem is "incompatible with your wants". Let's do some simple math using your numbers of 100k people in a city. Half or 50k are men 11% are under 18. Now you are down to 44,500. Another 16% are over 60. Now you are down to 36,500. (Prefer under 50? Now you are down to 27,500) Prefer blondes? You are down to 1,825. Prefer them not be chubby? Now you are down to 620. We haven't even started talking about gay/bi/straight or if they would want a guy to suck their cock or if they are married and afraid of being caught, or if they have an average or big cock, etc. and we are already down to 6/10ths of a percent of the population. The more you limit yourself with parameters the less cock you will get. Quote
Bearhole Posted March 10 Report Posted March 10 26 minutes ago, swvsucker said: ………The more you limit yourself with parameters the less cock you will get. ☝️ this is the answer. Quote
Bicumpig Posted March 11 Author Report Posted March 11 I don't even have any parameters, but if the other guy is also a bottom and doesnt want to receive a BJ, then we're incompatible. Or maybe it's a top who only wants to fuck. If we had an ABS or gloryholes I'd go there but every known GH gets closed. Quote
sub4oralcum Posted March 11 Report Posted March 11 (edited) On 3/10/2026 at 4:54 PM, swvsucker said: The more you limit yourself with parameters the less cock you will get. That's another thing. I love about the gloryholes. I have virtually no parameters. Pretty much the only rules I have are that he can get his cock through the hole and it doesn't smell like he's worked digging ditches all day. Edited March 11 by sub4oralcum Quote
SKY2Guy Posted March 14 Report Posted March 14 I have decent success on grindr. The key seems to be flexibility. I can usually host, I can usually travel, I don’t mind sucking outdoors or in a parking lot, or giving road head. So usually if I can connect with a guy that really wants his dick sucked, I’m willing to do whatever needs to be done to make sure I’m the one doing it. Quote
swvsucker Posted March 16 Report Posted March 16 On 3/11/2026 at 6:43 PM, sub4oralcum said: That's another thing. I love about the gloryholes. I have virtually no parameters. Pretty much the only rules I have are that he can get his cock through the hole and it doesn't smell like he's worked digging ditches all day. I am with you 1000%. I well take gloryhole cock all day long. No strings, no parameters, no drama. Just a guy that needs a hungry cocksucker and a hungry cocksucker getting what they need from each other. 1 1 Quote
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